Why am i suddenly acting this way about men... am i getting paranoid?
Why am i suddenly avoiding men?
i dont know i just dont like the attention , i just dont like men to be so clingy and be so overly desperate about saying that they miss me or they like me, not even in text, in person or chat, i just started feeling that i dont want their attention, im not a lesbian, its just that this crush whom i felt so strongly for, now i dont even feel a thing for him, he is starting to text me and all that last month i sort of even want to be really close to him now i dont want him near, i dont want any man to start confessing anything to me about love,to the point that i sometimes dont talk to men (friends) afraid that they might misinterpret my message of friendship, i only want the friend zone for all, amazingly even for men who i totally adore physically
2007-03-08 16:08:37 · 6 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know how old you are but you give the perfect reason why men should not profess their feelings for women too soon. Once a man does that he goes from being a mysterious challenge to a needy, clingy wimp. Those words need to spoken at the right times, and the guys that you are dealing with just don't understand the art of seduction. Try dating older men. It could help. Don't feel weird luv. You are normal. You just don't want some wimp licking your heels that's all. Personally I don't start licking until the bedroom door shuts so my advice to you is to find an older, mature man. Good luck.
2007-03-08 16:34:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that you just don't want a relationship at this time. So, when the compliments roll in, you don't want to be bothered having to respond...whether having to tell them you're not interested or whatever the case. When they do this, they are putting you on the spot and it's making you uncomfortable. So, just say thanks for the compliment and end it there. If they push for more, then that's when you have to tell them you're not interested in a relationship besides friendship right now.
2007-03-09 00:15:34 · answer #2 · answered by mich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. If there's something wrong with anyone it's the guys you know. You want a man who is confident, fun, and is a challenge. Too bad there aren't more guys like me in your area.
2007-03-09 00:15:20 · answer #3 · answered by Alan K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you hit a wall with men. i hate women as much as i love them. you just need to deal with it, don't project your problem on to others. maybe you're asexual.
2007-03-09 00:19:24 · answer #4 · answered by optcynbassist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohh, You a Lez alright!!!!!!
2007-03-09 00:12:41 · answer #5 · answered by The Isht! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure your not gay?????
2007-03-09 00:13:29 · answer #6 · answered by ddreaddsjr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋