Family & Relationships - 8 March 2007

I tried having sex with my wife but she said she is finding it difficult and cant bear the pain i dont know what to do... and i have no clue what to do... we tried doing it many times but its hurting her alot so we stopped it...
we both have no idea how to proceed
Poor girl she keeps crying.... i dont want to hurt her but we want a kid.... :(
Please advice on the same

2007-03-08 16:03:56 · 13 answers · asked by Raj 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i want to ask this quastion from any guy out there. what if u r 23 and ur gf she told u that she is 18 but she really is 17. how would u react will u still be with her or leave her, not ot mention u really love her.... please help me guys.....

2007-03-08 16:03:16 · 9 answers · asked by jigar k 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 16:03:12 · 8 answers · asked by Roc348 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I go to this store and always saw this one girl that was a pusher to help people to their car. And everytime I went I would see her and she would kind of give me a smile and I would kind of smile back, but we never really talked. Then one day there was a couple that were short 10 dollars and I gave it to them. The next day she came to my restaurant and ate and we made eye contact and I told the cashier to not charge her for their drinks and walked away. Anyways, I didn't see the girl for maybe 2 weeks since that time and then the next time I saw her she stated to me that what I did for the couple was really nice, I said thanks. (I was thinking that was 2 weeks ago) She also said you work there (restaurant) I said I own it. Yesturday I went there and said I have a cool accent and wanted to know what I was. Also a cart boy that kept picking on her so I said to her you know what it means when a guy picks on you. And she replied I don't like him (immediately) I guess she doesn't have a bf.

2007-03-08 16:02:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 16:02:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

And not necessarily this means that you're in an expensive restaurant or that you can't pay for it. In every restaurant there's always something that is the most expensive. I want to know what you think about the attitude of the girl.

2007-03-08 16:02:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Dont come too close, Dont wanna get ya sick there.

2007-03-08 16:02:07 · 11 answers · asked by The Truth 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok I'll try to make it short even though it's a long story. My ex-boyfriend dumped me one year ago & we only dated for shotr while. We never had sex cz he knew I'm saving myself for marriage. He would still contact me on msn even though HE ended it. 2 months ago he called me & planned a whole thing, a movie. Two days later he picked me up, we saw the movie, then he drove me home. I asked him why he wanted to see me after all this time, he said "I wanna see u every once in awhile". I felt like the date was rushed so when i got home, I went on msn & said bye forever to him, he said sorry but I logged out. I went on msn a week later to apologize & he seemed very happy & fine & said he wasn't mad at all. Then he went on a trip. When he came back, i asked him on msn how it was. Then 2 weeks ago I said hi to him again. He hasn't said hi to me on msn since out li' meetup.Is he ignoring me & did I scare him off? What's going through his mind now? He's 26 while I'm 21.

2007-03-08 16:02:06 · 9 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, i'm 20 years old and married, I know half of you are thinking that I got married to young and will write this. However, I dated my husband for 6 years (ok, we were young then too but trust me, I really do love him). We have a son, whos a year old. My question is this, what is normal partying while married with kids? My husband just turned 21 and decided that drinking is his new hobby ( i think it sucks) and I'm not talking about occasional drinking. He wants to drink every night, even if he's just with me. I come from a home where drinking drove my parents apart when I was 4. So I think it's a bad habit to start. Drinking has led to partying. He wants to go out every week with his friends while I stay home with the baby. So i'm asking you, what's normal? I hate it when he goes out because I hardly ever see him (i work and school days, he works and schools nights) so on the weekends its a bum deal. Sorry this is long, can you help..

2007-03-08 16:01:08 · 13 answers · asked by Gone2PickApples 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so on tuesday I convinced my parents to let me skip skool with no good reason.. I just wanted to stay home. On sat. I have a project to present... I need the whole day tommorow to work on it and practice. How do I convince my parents to let me go to my friends house tommorow to practice? They're parents are letting them stay home and prepare.... Help?? Any suggestions..
P,S: I already ditched school once this week...

2007-03-08 16:00:49 · 6 answers · asked by maria m 1 in Family

he was drinking that day.
we had an aguement over most men (my opion)dont want to pay or support women in relastionships or marriage like the old day.

2007-03-08 16:00:36 · 16 answers · asked by carrihumer 1 in Singles & Dating

how soon will james money to be successful,

2007-03-08 16:00:32 · 6 answers · asked by jaetta d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

can long distance relationships work out between 2 adults, and if so how?

2007-03-08 16:00:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

scorpio
virgo

2007-03-08 15:59:34 · 3 answers · asked by Shana H 1 in Singles & Dating

When was the last time you had alone time with your significant other?

I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year.
The last time we had alone time was a month ago.

We kinda talked about this before.. but he's scared of having alone time with me because we may end up having sex... and I want to wait till marriage. That just shows how much he respects me and I love him for that.

I just miss spending time with JUST HIM.

I don't want to mention it again because it may sound pushy.
But it's just something I'm craving. I just want to spend quality time with him only.

We're going out tomorrow... but I don't know if I should tell him tomorrow, when he calls before he heads to my place, that I want to spend time with ONLY HIM. It may be too last minute. He may have already told his friends about it. Should I tell him or just wait after Spring Break to finally have a NON-GROUP date?

2007-03-08 15:58:52 · 5 answers · asked by Rita 3 in Singles & Dating

My brother is a drug addict and has been for the past 11 years. He will always be a nobody and worthless. He steals from my entire family, has no job because he's lazy, lives with my grandma, and has my poor grandma on S.S. buy him drugs, food, and cigarettes. My mom still loves him and she said when she dies, she will give him money, and he will spend it all in one day on drugs. While, I will spend it on college and invest it. I want him dead, I always have been, my happiest time was when he was in jail. Everyone always tries to bail him out, and the first chance I get, I will put him back in jail forever. I seriously hate him, and I can't stand to hear his name. I get so mad at my mom everytime she mentions him and I won't talk to her. I work so hard and she treats us the same. I just want him to be locked up for life until he dies because he causes the family so much problems. My dad even hates him and won't let him in our house.

2007-03-08 15:58:29 · 7 answers · asked by *~*~*~* 4 in Family

2007-03-08 15:58:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive been married 22 yrs, and its not been good for awhile.
Tonight hubby came in & called a divorce lawyer & told him to start procedings. He said I can have our son cuz he dont want him. my son heard him..he says hes cancelling our lease & moving out...that leaves me & my son on the street. Can he do this? he has never allowed me to work & i have no money.
He's also taking the car & leaving me with a 400.00 a month truck payment. Can he do that too? its his truck & the cars his but its pd for.

2007-03-08 15:58:04 · 15 answers · asked by earthangel_candy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

One of my friends, who has an excellent sense of intuition, told me earlier this week that he found out that in spite of him making so many good new friends @ college, there are a notable amount of kids on campus who think he is a creep. to make matters worse, he found out that the reason he couldn't make friends earlier (all the way back to 3rd and 4th grade) was because even then kids thought he was a creep.

He then recorded some phone calls and recorded some online conversations and showed them to me. Sure enough, he wasn't paranoid, kids have.... always thought he's been a creep (not weird or strange, but creepy). The thing is he hasn't done anything stalker-like or disturbing, he just watches out for people and has helped quite a few get out of some tight spots, regardless of if they knew him well or not (which was candidly and clearly confirmed as well).

He also has a fundamentally charismatic, personable, and enjoyable personality, and gets out a lot. How can I help him?

2007-03-08 15:57:45 · 3 answers · asked by Mikey C 5 in Friends

2007-03-08 15:57:32 · 5 answers · asked by The Truth 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 15:57:20 · 6 answers · asked by angel 1 in Family

I had a date set up with my guy for tomorrow night, but on wednesday he was ambivalent, saying that he didn't know if would be able to go because he may be too tired to be good company (he's remodeling a house on his own, lots of manual labor). He said he would call me on thursday or on friday to let me know how he was feeling. It's thursday now, and i haven't heard from him yet. Should I give him the benefit of the doubt and assume he's being honest about being too tired, or should i just assume this is his way of worming out of our date. I gave him the opportunity four times to back out and he said he really wanted to go. Help!

2007-03-08 15:56:46 · 8 answers · asked by sardonicwit 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey, I met this adorable guy and we are friends. I know he cares about me and is attracted to me. He said it s possible for him to fall inlove with me. We are both 23. What are some ideas?

2007-03-08 15:56:18 · 10 answers · asked by ems_lover 1 in Singles & Dating

ok what does it mean when a guy tells u he'll make it rain for u

2007-03-08 15:55:32 · 4 answers · asked by -ruby_*! 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 15:54:52 · 14 answers · asked by . 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 15:53:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What is up with that? Honestly.. Why would you rather date a guy who is a jerk to you but is hot over someone who doesn't look the best but is the sweetest guy in the world?

2007-03-08 15:53:15 · 9 answers · asked by anthonymperkins05 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 15:52:46 · 4 answers · asked by jonalyn b 1 in Weddings

Ok, so 4-5 days ago I broke up with my girlfriend, because I liked another girl named Morgan. We went to a b-ball game today and played pep band(she plays trumpet, i play baritone) anyways, i tried talking to her quite a bit and so on. I gave her some money to buy a drink because she didn't have any. She seemed to be flirting with me. I can't get this girl of my mind, quite frankly i don't want too. How do I know if she actually likes me? I get along with her best friend very well, so I know that's good. She is a year older than me, but I don't think that would matter to her. I asked her out like 1-2 years ago, but she wwasn't allowed to have a boyfriend until she was 16,now she is. She has never had a boyfriend before either. I'm so nervous around her, yet I have a feeling she might like me, she is nice to me, flirts around a little bit, looks me straight in the eye when we talk etc... How do I go about asking her if she likes me? I'm so confused, someone help please...pretty please?

2007-03-08 15:52:24 · 6 answers · asked by uofkrocks 2 in Singles & Dating

I would like to wrap a bow around the reception chairs to dress it up a little. I got tulle but I'm finding it very hard to work with as far as tying pretty bows. Does anyone know any websites or have any ideas for cool chair decorations? Wedding is informal and I'm looking for something unordinary.

2007-03-08 15:51:54 · 6 answers · asked by pchiz 3 in Weddings