Please advice...?

Question

I tried having sex with my wife but she said she is finding it difficult and cant bear the pain i dont know what to do... and i have no clue what to do... we tried doing it many times but its hurting her alot so we stopped it...
we both have no idea how to proceed
Poor girl she keeps crying.... i dont want to hurt her but we want a kid.... :(
Please advice on the same

Its not that she has got some infection... but i couldn't insert.. (you can understand right what i'm trying to say) she says its painful and i think her muscles are contracting because of the pain and so i'm unable to insert further...

Because this we couldn't have sex completely

Answer 1

hmm..it could be a whole host of problems, my first thought is that maybe you're too big for her..in this case I would consult a doctor, or she could have some sort of infection or illness, and I would also consult a doctor..don't feel embarrassed, many people have your problem.

Answer 2

Go with your beloved wife to a good gyn and discuss these issues. There has to be a medical reason for her pain. Sex should be a total pleasure. Tell her you are with her all the way and that together you will resolve this and find a way to have a child and have a lot of fun conceiving him/her. In the meantime, maybe a little sex toy? No penetration, just gentle stimulation....a demonstation of your willingness to please her. You've got to get her over this hump, build a bond of trust, and introduce her to a new world of pleasure. You can do it, lover boy!

Answer 3

I think you may need to consult a gynaecologist or a family doctor about this. It be many factors like: she is not well-relaxed, and so the muscles there could be tight, thus very painful. Then it could psychogically she is not prepared to have sex with you for reason we don't know or you are being too rough in bed and other things. So see a gynae or family doctor. Good luck.

Answer 4

You left out a few details ..like what is hurting her.the fact that her vagina is small or your penis is too big..I once went out with a girl who was tiny and had a very small vagina..and i could not fit my penis into her it hurt her way too much.but the wonderfull thing about a vagina is it can stretch ..so we started out getting a small toy from some adult store and worked with that for a few weeks ..then we went up another size and worked that for a few weeks..after about five months she was ready to go and man i tell you it was worth every night and all those darn double AA batteries..now days she is with some other guy and we are still best friends but we never talk about the stretching days we spent together..we do get a good laugh out of it.now..so either way you can use this technic to help get things to the right size to accomodate everything..good luck my friend..

Answer 5

She needs a doctor's exam. It is soooo hard for a woman to discuss such as this with anyone, much less a male doctor. So, ask her to find a female doctor or perhaps, with her permission, you can discuss it with your doctor. Something is wrong.

Answer 6

try to use four play and get her wet also watch some movie and use some lube so its will go in easy she not a horse where you jump and off take your time she need to relax so she can enjoy it remember the baby come out of there and a baby is a lot bigger

Answer 7

Go see a doctor

Answer 8

take her to the hospital, and have an x-ray done "downstairs" i read in a magazine that a woman was n the same position as ur wife, so she went to the hospital, and it was sorted, so do that. take care of her and support her, its not her fault remember : ) good luck

Answer 9

I think she should see a doctor but maybe you guys should think about artificial insemination. It's still both your child but it's done by professionals.

Answer 10

And she hasn't gone to her gyn about this? She probably has an infection.