Ok I'll try to make it short even though it's a long story. My ex-boyfriend dumped me one year ago & we only dated for shotr while. We never had sex cz he knew I'm saving myself for marriage. He would still contact me on msn even though HE ended it. 2 months ago he called me & planned a whole thing, a movie. Two days later he picked me up, we saw the movie, then he drove me home. I asked him why he wanted to see me after all this time, he said "I wanna see u every once in awhile". I felt like the date was rushed so when i got home, I went on msn & said bye forever to him, he said sorry but I logged out. I went on msn a week later to apologize & he seemed very happy & fine & said he wasn't mad at all. Then he went on a trip. When he came back, i asked him on msn how it was. Then 2 weeks ago I said hi to him again. He hasn't said hi to me on msn since out li' meetup.Is he ignoring me & did I scare him off? What's going through his mind now? He's 26 while I'm 21.
2007-03-08 16:02:06 · 9 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I KNOW it was over a year ago when he dumped me. But what I mean is that since he doesn't even say hit on msn does that mean that he has NO feelings at all for me, not even friendly ones, & does it mean that he hates me?, will he ever wanna see me again??
2007-03-08 16:03:47 · update #1
Who knows. The only person who can truthfully answer those questions is him. I suggest you ask him directly. That being said, even when things seem like they're over for good, don't be too sure, you never know what the future will hold.
2007-03-08 16:07:57 · answer #1 · answered by Jack S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was over a year ago for one thing.....so anything you had is waaaaaaaay over and what it was was only a short while as you said.
2 months ago he contacted you with "hopes" dear...did the whole dinner and movie thing...you still turned him down. He told you " i wanna see u every once in awhile" to be polite and in other words that translates as " i will call you, don't call me" or " i will im you, don't im me"...
you would be surprised at how long some guys will wait to try and "score" on a girl....specially if he thinks she is hot and he has an attraction to her...some guys really love a good chase.
Finally, don't wrap yourself up with a 26 year old, it's all a bunch of B.S. Your 21 dear have fun with the babes around your age...try to trust me on this one if ya can! ; )
I dated older guys always when i was younger...
2007-03-09 00:11:32 · answer #2 · answered by LM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun. You dont need to repost this question every 10 minutes. It may be written differently but it is still the same question. Jost post it once and see your results from that. ;)
2007-03-09 00:26:41 · answer #3 · answered by =] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What u probably did was hurt him but he was hiding his feelings at furst and he probably still liked u and he probably thought u never wanted to talk to him ever again so now hes doing the same to u.
2007-03-09 00:09:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wanted to keep you around for something occasional
you made him angry when you said goodbye forever to him
he's done with you for now, leave him alone unless he calls you again, and if he does call, take into consideration he only wants to see you occasionally
2007-03-09 00:06:43 · answer #5 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over!
2007-03-09 00:05:55 · answer #6 · answered by Bibi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have scared him off. I think you can move on with your life and just keep in contact with him on and off.
2007-03-09 00:05:48 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY IN THE WORLD WOULD YOU WANT HIM?
THEY CALL ME DRz
ps YOU SOUND VERY IMMATURE FOR A 21 YEAR OLD
JUST MY OPINION ...GOOD LUCK
2007-03-09 00:07:30 · answer #8 · answered by drzthephotoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and write a book.
2007-03-09 00:04:59 · answer #9 · answered by upgrade u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋