Family & Relationships - 8 March 2007

It really seems to be true. Sure, guys like "nice girls" at first but eventually get bored and the excitement leaves. It seems like the bitchier you are to a guy, the more he wants you.

2007-03-08 15:28:19 · 4 answers · asked by Miss D 7 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy and whenever the other girls in my class and me get together for a sleepover, we talk about stuff like that. The boy I like is, um, I guess classified as annoying and weird. And all the girls will think I am weird if I tell them! But I can't keep not telling them anything! They are very upset with me right now! Please tell me what to do!

2007-03-08 15:27:30 · 7 answers · asked by LittleLucy 2 in Friends

okay, he doesn't know i know he likes me. but i like him and he likes me. he doesn't know i know....anyway, so if some friends and us go out to eat, would you want the girl you like to sit by you (so she can gently tough your leg with hers or touch arms, ect.) or sit across from her so you can stare at her?

2007-03-08 15:27:06 · 3 answers · asked by ThinkPink 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 15:27:01 · 3 answers · asked by hassana h 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 15:26:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This happened last Tuesday… She called and said her school work is piling up, her family life is bad, she's got college ahead of her (graduating a year early), the ACT's, and she has a pap exam coming up that will determine if her HPV has cleared up or not. (It’s all the truth…I know she’s not lying) She said she’s having a crisis right now and doesn’t know what to do. She told me that she needs to take a break and get her life sorted out before she can have any sort of serious relationship. She told me it's nothing I did but it's everything going on in her life right now. That she really likes me and doesn't want to do it, but felt like she had to. She wants to try and do it single. She then said that after her stuff is sorted out, then she can think about a relationship again. Then she said she had to get off the phone to go do something, but to call her back later if I want. She'd understand if I didn't want to.

I told her I understand where she's coming from and everything, but I'm completely bummed out. I later called her back because she wanted me to do and we talked for a little bit but I was really quiet. I told her that I’m still here to talk if you want in the future. She said okay and about 5 minutes later she had to go do some homework. She then said “I’ll talk to you tomorrow if you want”…and I haven’t talked to her since Tuesday.

Should I continue going no contact or should I talk to her? I want to help her through her problems but I also don’t want it to hinder a future relationship. Maybe no contact is the best option? It’s just so tough. I don’t know if she still wants me to be there for her for support or not.

I mean, she still likes me…but she’s so busy right now.

Btw...it's been 2 months.

Also...she has had a terrible past. She was raped (when she was 13), got pregnant before by her ex bf and he beat her until she had a miscarriage (when she was 16), did drugs, alcohol, all that. She's 17 and I'm 18 now.I told her that I'd still be there for her and accept her for who she is now...which is a great person. She told me I was the greatest guy in the world for that.

I think she still has feelings for me, but she really just needs to get some stuff in her life done. I'm not sure if I should still be there for her or not for the time being.

2007-03-08 15:25:29 · 8 answers · asked by Clarence J 1 in Singles & Dating

I used to date a jerk but I have since moved on and in November..sort of got together with a really good looking guy . He asked me out for a date during my lowest time (with my ex) and I did not expect us to hit it off. he kissed me (caught me completely off guard) at the end of the date but it was really nice. I admit I'm extremely attracted to him coz' he's hot and charming.As I got to know him more, I find that we share a lot in common. Problem is,he's a really popular guy,travels a lot (work related) and has a lot of friends.We hardly meet but spoke on the phone. In January, I expressed my feelings for him.Surprsingly,he said he felt the same way for me. He was overseas that time and only came back last Feb.When he came back, i was excited and we met. (we're sexually involved).But during then,we hardly met up coz' he's busy with his other friends (as usual). I feel that prob' he's just a player.Yet, at times, he treats me like he likes me. Is my intuition right abt him, a player?

2007-03-08 15:25:27 · 6 answers · asked by BunnyBunz 2 in Singles & Dating

if a man is maried with a kid, but hates his wife, and the wife is abusive, and he is in love with another woman. should he leave her?

2007-03-08 15:25:16 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

At a party, this girl's strap fell down and she didn't notice for a long time. It wasn't until some jerk started making a lot of crude comments that she finally figured it out.

2007-03-08 15:25:14 · 4 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Singles & Dating

I have a debate coming up on this very boring topic, and I'm suppose to be against it, which I think most people are. I don't believe it's pretty unethical for a doctor to have a relationship with his patient, and if he and the patient really want to have a relationship, all the doctor should do is tell the patient to get a new doctor so they can continue the relationship.

I can't really find anything that can contradict this issue, other than someone asking whether it's okay for a a husband and wife that are doctors to treat eachother, which I find no problem with.

Anyway anyone for, or against this issue, tell me your opinion, if you got the time.

2007-03-08 15:25:11 · 6 answers · asked by Allen S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

it seems my husband and i never agree on anything. currently we are in dispute weather or not he should get a vesectemy. we have 2 kids, a boy (6) and a baby girl (8 months). i'm not thinking about having another kid, i just had one. i always thought i would have 4. over the past year we have had some serious marriage problems and now my husband is adsolutely sure he will not have any more kids. He wants me to sign for him to have a vesectomy, however...i don't feel as strongly either way, and think i shoule be sure too. i'm hopeful that our marriage will get stronger and feel that i am respecting his feelings by taking the pill and, really, have no intentions on doing anything decietful like "accidentally" have another kid. he's pressuring me to decide this month! we are in our 30's and in time we could decided differently. He says "no way, never". i just don't want to make a decision i will regret later. i want to be sure, and i'm not. how do couples get past this hurtle and agree?

2007-03-08 15:24:33 · 5 answers · asked by goodtalkin' 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if Im gonna be homeschooled

2007-03-08 15:24:17 · 15 answers · asked by Socrates 3 in Singles & Dating

bald, partially bald, or trimmed?

2007-03-08 15:23:56 · 3 answers · asked by curiousin08 3 in Singles & Dating

There's been some akward silences since he admits that he likes you. However, things got back to normal and you guys communicated well enough. (were good friends) A year later, he went back to his country to be with his new girlfriend. You regard him as a friend. But after so long of non- corresponding, you think i should send him a birthday greeting? his birthday's coming up soon. Please advise

2007-03-08 15:22:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 15:22:45 · 7 answers · asked by goodness 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so there is this shy guy that likes me and I like him back. We always say hi and talk a lil bit, but he's so shy and so am I to make a move. Any advises what should I do?

2007-03-08 15:21:17 · 10 answers · asked by ania 1 in Singles & Dating

I am planning on getting married in a church. I was raised catholic and my fiancee was raised methodist. What type of church can we get married in? And with that, a good friend of the family is a catholic decon and I really want him to marry us. Will the other churches allow for him to marry us in their church?

2007-03-08 15:20:39 · 6 answers · asked by katie s 1 in Weddings

2007-03-08 15:20:31 · 8 answers · asked by nickeyphontain1 1 in Singles & Dating

Met this girl online and had a nice chat on YM. Before saying goodbye, she asked for my phone number and gave me hers. I thought she was sweet but it was the first time we YM. What do I do next since I have her phone number? Or maybe we should chat some more? Guys & girls, what's the next step?

2007-03-08 15:20:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I cant make him dinner, cause he's taking me to my fav sandwhich place, I was thinking of treating us with a icecream, anything else, and please no rude things.

2007-03-08 15:20:11 · 4 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 15:20:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know this isn't too much detail, but here it is anyways. I was being a gentleman. I was standing right by the door and holding the door for the ladies. They didn't even know me and said thank you. And this girl I like comes by me and she knows me. And I hold the door open for her and she just looks at me and didn't say thank you. Is that a good sign or bad sign?

2007-03-08 15:19:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 15:19:28 · 10 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Singles & Dating

so there is this guy who has told me he has liked me like a week after his best friend dumped me for some other girl. he said he liked me a lot the day after we "hung out" together as friends. then he continued to try to get me to like him back for like the past month, and i realized that recently i actually had developed some feelings for him.. and i Especially had after we just went on our first Date on monday. i don't really know how he feels about me though because he always says you are so cute and all this stuff in his texts.. and like right after our date he told me he wanted to hold my hand all night but didn't know if i wanted to move in that direction. but he also never talks to me in class anymore.. he also wants to go on another date this weekend.. and says he loves being near me, and our last date we Kindof cuddled.. and he was all touchy. but then last night he told me he was going to do something with this girl Megan (who he liked before me) so idk if he still likes her?

2007-03-08 15:19:18 · 2 answers · asked by coolio 4 in Singles & Dating

What is your opinion on younger women dating men 15+ years older?

2007-03-08 15:18:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex called me a few months ago and asked me to go see a movie with him. I had not seen him in ONE YEAR. We dated for a short while, then HE ended it. He planned the whole thing, he said he wants to meetup on msn then he told me on msn he’d call me 2 days later to plan it. He did call, &he told me his thought s on what we should do. I was fine w/ his plans, 2 days later he picked me up, we saw the movie, and after the movie he drove me home. While we were driving home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said he wants, "to see me every once in awhile". By the way, we never had sex while dating cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage, so don't say this was a bootycall. When I came home I felt disrespected cuz the whole thing seemed rushed, & he didn’t open any doors etc. So I went on msn & said “goodbye forever” & he kept saying sorry while I logged out. I felt bad so a week later I went on msn & said sorry & he seemed very fine & happy.

2007-03-08 15:18:35 · 8 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

One of my biggest fears is being the friend who is taken for granted. I feel like when people need someone to talk to or need help they come to me and expect me to help them. I try to be a sensitive person and a person that people can come to with their problems but I feel that I am taken for granted. In addition, although I don't have direct proof, I have a gut feeling that my "friends" only want me around at certain times, like when they need help. I feel out of the loop. In the past I have been taken advantage of in relationships so I have tried to stop myself from investing in relationships but when I live like that I just don't feel alive. I know that any relationship is a risk but how do I respond if I may be getting taken.

2007-03-08 15:17:54 · 3 answers · asked by ILM 1 in Friends

I meet quite a few college girls that are married or have children already... would it be okay if i make a move on them making them know i dont want anything serious or anything?

2007-03-08 15:17:47 · 4 answers · asked by teddyk k 1 in Singles & Dating

So I'm 15 and on my schools Formal Dance my girlfriend said she was tired and wanted to go home, so she went home and a went to one of my friends parties. My friend lives on my street but goes to a private school, so I don't know her friends. Anyways, at the party, me and one of her friends hit it off and decided to go back to my house cause my parents leave the last weekend of everyone month for two days.

So all alone at my house, we ended up having sex. It was random and i wasn't expecting it, but we both wanted to so we did. Wow, she just completely blows my gf out of the water. It was so good that I hardly even want to have sex with my gf anymore. Now I'm torn between my relationship, and having sex with the new girl, who comes over to my neighbor's house a lot and wants to hang out with me. help!

Well as far as being in a relationship goes, I really have no interest in the new girl. It's completely sexual. As for my gf, i want to stay with her and she doesnt know I cheated

2007-03-08 15:17:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

....a messed up front TOP tooth?

I had a drunken accident one night and I fell, busting my front tooth. It wasn't knocked out, just displaced. So it was put back in, better than before alignment wise, but couldnt go all the way in due to swelling soooo I have to deal with a length difference for now before it gets fixed. I probably have 2 or 3 more months (i hope) before it gets somewhat evened out with the rest. But my question, would you date a guy with this problem? One top front tooth longer than the other, knowing that it was going to eventually be fixed in the future. The rest of my teeth are clean and white, and gums are healthy too... jsut the damn length difference. Noticeable when I open my mouth.

2007-03-08 15:17:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating