I used to date a jerk but I have since moved on and in November..sort of got together with a really good looking guy . He asked me out for a date during my lowest time (with my ex) and I did not expect us to hit it off. he kissed me (caught me completely off guard) at the end of the date but it was really nice. I admit I'm extremely attracted to him coz' he's hot and charming.As I got to know him more, I find that we share a lot in common. Problem is,he's a really popular guy,travels a lot (work related) and has a lot of friends.We hardly meet but spoke on the phone. In January, I expressed my feelings for him.Surprsingly,he said he felt the same way for me. He was overseas that time and only came back last Feb.When he came back, i was excited and we met. (we're sexually involved).But during then,we hardly met up coz' he's busy with his other friends (as usual). I feel that prob' he's just a player.Yet, at times, he treats me like he likes me. Is my intuition right abt him, a player?
2007-03-08 15:25:27 · 6 answers · asked by BunnyBunz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have a hunch you are being used. He seems like a worldly type and you apparently are not. Be careful before you go much further. Good Luck
2007-03-08 15:29:07 · answer #1 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is exactly the same. We have been together for 9 years, married for 5. If you trust him, then he will love you for it. My husband is a guys guy and loves to be with friends. I have never made him choose me over a friend or friends and he goes out without me on occassion and i do the same. We have survived all these years like this including over a year apart only seeing each other once or twice during that time. When we got married we agreed that there are certain friends of the opposite sex that we would never give up. Just let him be himself, and if it is the real thing then he will find himself being around you more and more, and he will appreciate you letting him be that way. Most men (except those that are terribly twisted) really hate control freaks.
2007-03-08 23:33:27 · answer #2 · answered by destiny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right. He's using you. If he really cared, he would take every free time to be with you or include you in what he had to do.
What happened is, like a player that he is, he told you what you wanted to hear. If he calls again, please don't be the girl on call.
2007-03-08 23:39:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really hate to say this, but I have been there too and he does sound like a player who is telling you things you want to hear. I could be wrong, but I don't think so.
2007-03-08 23:30:53 · answer #4 · answered by Cuppycake♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your intuition. Don't be available for him. If he really wants to be with you, let him pursue you, like a man should do. And do not have sex with him.
2007-03-08 23:32:34 · answer #5 · answered by PRLadyDama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
he has been around the block more then once and you could be the next notch on his belt,
2007-03-08 23:33:45 · answer #6 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋