Family & Relationships - 8 March 2007

This girl appears to really like me. The only problem is our scheduals are so jagged I never have a time when I could talk to her by herself. Would leaving a note on her car be rediculous, or a good idea. I would just say "give me a call" and leave my phone number.
I only think of this because two weeks ago her and her friends leave a note on my car saying they "love" me. I figure it would be acceptable since they also like leaving notes around.

what do you think??

2007-03-08 14:54:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 14:54:22 · 5 answers · asked by GregnMel D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am an attractive african american female (so i have been told). I recently moved from New York to Louisiana and have not been able to find any white guys who are willing to date outside of thier race. Now dont get me wrong I love black men but i also like variety in my life.I see plenty of black men who date outside of thier race. Also white girls date out of thier race all the time in the city I live. So are white men scared of black women or have all the negative sterotypes about black women made us undesiralbe to them?

2007-03-08 14:54:06 · 13 answers · asked by alana t 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been what I thought happily married for 20 years then one day she says"I need space" I'm not sure what that means and she says it's not me it's her? With 3kids and a house she needs space to do what?

2007-03-08 14:53:35 · 30 answers · asked by pizzaboy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

drink alot...i drink on the weekdays when i get off work and i drink on the weekends.

I love to drink cuz im not so shy and i feel alot better once i got a couple of glasses of champagne down. My boyfriend says im an alcoholic but i think he just says it to piss me off.

i can drink a whole bottle and still crave it. i even get cranky when i dont have enough.

i go to work waitin to get off so i can drink. i am not 21 so i cannot buy it myself...when i am drunk however i do things i would normally not do sober, and i regret them when i am sober so i want to drink again to not feel regretful. i can drink champagne everyday without hangovers AND I LOVE THE TASTE..

i am drunk right now but sobering up...just got done arguing with my boyfriend bout drinking and sex. SUCKs

2007-03-08 14:53:24 · 2 answers · asked by dee m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-08 14:52:57 · 11 answers · asked by *i wuv my hair** 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 14:52:38 · 20 answers · asked by Marty R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well this girl that sits next to me asked if i had a girlfriend. I said no. Now i think she is droping small clues. Keep in mind she sits right next to me, so what might she do to give me signs during the middle of class?

2007-03-08 14:51:27 · 6 answers · asked by Blasto 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, have you ever liked your ex still, and you figure out who he likes, so you keep a close eye on that girl and try to talk to her a lot to figure out what's been going on between the two of them?

2007-03-08 14:51:15 · 15 answers · asked by AJ 2 in Singles & Dating

My daughter is getting married June 30th..The have planned a big church wedding ..She and her fiance recently bought a house and moved in together.She needed to move there because her father and I were recently divorced and she was living with her dad and brother, who both have drinking problems. Plus, she now only lives bout a mile from her work. Living with me was not an option as I moved too far away. Now because they are living together, the Pastor at the church says he will not marry them in the church with the big wedding we have planned. He will marry them in the church with a small ceremony and a few guests. The dress is bought, the hall is reserved and the cake is ordered. They are now thinking of getting married next weekend with the small ceremony and have the big wedding in June as planned to renew their vows. This is ok with the Pastor. I'm not comfortable with this. This church has always been a big part of her fiances life and she just recently joined. What would you do?

2007-03-08 14:51:11 · 14 answers · asked by mary2148 4 in Weddings

okay my best friends megan's bf cheated on her with me by accident...it was hard cause we both were really attracted to each other but aren't allowed to date cause we both stay over at each others house alot cause we're in foster care and so one night while i was over at his house he kept leading me on so i finally lead him on to cause i was way too attracted to him to just let him do that to me and me resist it every time so we ended up making out...and doing...other stuff.....and so i kept telling him he was dating my best friend and he just said that she don't have to know so i just gave in and well... she knew i liked him but didn't know if we ever did anything so she kept asking if i ever did anything with him while they were dating so finally i told we did and i told her what we did and we're all good..it's almost as if i never even told her and i asked why she wasn't mad at me and she just told me she's not one of those wierd types of girls...why isn't she mad at me...

2007-03-08 14:50:11 · 9 answers · asked by angel 1 in Friends

OK so i am 13 and i realy like this girl. She is already going out w/ someone, but it is like they are not going out. They dont usually talk that much. OK so i write her messages like every day! and she write back each time. Does she like me? I sit accross from her on the bus and she plays hand games w/ me in the isle. and she talks to me alot. and not w/ her bf in the front of the bus. only sometimes. So does she like me or not?It doesn't seem like she like her bf. He is a jerk anyway. I talk to her on the phone alot too. More than her bf. Sould i ivite her to me birthday party? or will that be weird since she has a bf? I have liked her for 3 years. the first year i met her her friends told me that she liked me. But now she wants me to join band w/ her and stuff even when she has her bf! what should i do? should i ask her out when her and her bf break up. not right after but a couple of weeks mabey?

2007-03-08 14:49:54 · 7 answers · asked by storm Harding 1 in Singles & Dating

I went to prom last year with my gf and it wasn't that great. I mean I had a great time, but it was overrated. The music sucked and half the people were drunk. So what's the deal. Should this big waste of money be considered a once in a lifetime experience?

2007-03-08 14:49:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this girl that i like but she is two years younger than me. we both go to the same high school in florida. she is more a sort of a shy girl toward others but outgoing also. i like her persona. i like her but i don't know if she likes me. i'm afraid to ask because i don't know how she would react to it. she somewhat weird but i can handle it. i would like to know what signs should i look that she does that means that she likes me too.

2007-03-08 14:49:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My name is Melanie and I was just wondering what your thoughts or impressions were of my name thanks: )

2007-03-08 14:48:57 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married this summer and I am trying to decide what flowers I want...

2007-03-08 14:48:46 · 15 answers · asked by Nay 2 in Weddings

I dont want to be selfish, but I have liked this guy for two years, (we'll call him A) but my friend (we'll call her J) started liking him a month ago. me and A are good friends, and we know everything about each other. however, J is suddenly "obsessed" with A, and I know that A likes J, but I think he likes me too! I dont want a guy to come between me and J, but it seems like she's pushing him between us, and im starting to get pissed at her. She knows i've liked him, and this afternoon, she told me she was going to ask him out tomorrow!!! what should i do???

2007-03-08 14:48:04 · 1 answers · asked by ░▒▓Mollyஐ▓▒░ 4 in Friends

The story in general. I'm a jap girl and my boy is from Spain. We met in japan and been dating for 1 and a half year. We are both very passionate, he's very fun-loving and honest. We were madly in love even we were apart. We met whenever we had vacations. Very great moments.

Sometimes he was confused about his feelings for me when we're apart, maybe coz of distance, or stress from work? But whenever we saw each other in person, all confusion would be gone.

The last time we met was January 2007. We had very great time, both were very in love; we were planning to meet in Easter. He said that he was gonna regret if he loses me.

However, he finally decided to break up with me this Feb, coz he has lost the love feelings, he doesnt have the motivation to make me happy with distance. He was very sad. But i think he has already got over this break-up now (he's a happy person who can get over sadness easily).

2007-03-08 14:47:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 14:46:55 · 7 answers · asked by herold d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i just had big fight with my mom last nite... its too way long story... also my fiancee and my mom dont talk eachother anymore.... but my mom wanna say sorry to him again and he dont wanna come over my house cause of my mom..and my mom is mad at him i dont understand i told her im 20yrs old and i love my fiancee.. she upset and think i pick over my fiancee than my mom. i told her im happy with my fiancee. and i dont wanna fight and i wanna be with him.and she kept telling me that dont like my fiancee's parents cause my mom think his father is werido... but my mom and my fiancee's parents dont get along.. me and my fiancee are really love eachother.. i love him alots... my mom is upset cause i wont leaving him... and she told me that if i see my fiancee again she will not talk to me no more...but i told her im 20years old i wanna be with him and im happy be with him... and i dont know what can i do with my mom..pls help me.... i know my mom is sometime crazy...help me pls!!!!!!!!!!!! ty

2007-03-08 14:46:24 · 7 answers · asked by XxItalianxX 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a brother and sister that loses everything in mty home. They never learn to put things way. Like today i need sizzors and tape for an art project but I can't do it because they never put things back. What do I do???

2007-03-08 14:46:16 · 5 answers · asked by richardselby42 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do an american girl like a foreigner more than american BF or husband?

2007-03-08 14:45:53 · 8 answers · asked by sss 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-08 14:45:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There are a few girls that im attracted to completely, but its hard to find them; anybody else have this problem

2007-03-08 14:45:39 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...i thought this guy liked me, but now im not sure. okay like he would always try to get my attention, and making me laugh and staring a lot and smiling when i walk pass and saying hi. usually i would smile and say hi back but thats it. but being as shy as i am i would just answer him whenever he asked me something(keeping conversations short) and continue with what im doing. anyways but today when i saw him he did not do any of those things i said he does all the time. he didnt even try to flirt, he just looked at me, didnt even talk to me. so wats up? i mean one day he tries to get my attention and the next day he doesnt. should i pursue him or forget about it? and what went wrong?

2007-03-08 14:45:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The girl I like used to like me but I didn't ask her out when I found out she liked me, and she knew that I liked her as well, and now I can't tell if she still likes me or not. So if I asked her out what would she most likely say yes or no???

2007-03-08 14:44:18 · 13 answers · asked by Red Baron 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i met this girl at a bar we both frequent we fell in love and i feel it is mutual. but she has done some things that hurt me and i might be a little to jealous. one night we were at the bar and this bouncer was hitting on her infront of me but he was doin it jokingly enough it didnt bother me but i felt he was being obnoxius. well a few months later he posted a comment on her myspace that was innapropait. but yet again really didnt bother me then she added him on her friend list so i told her i didnt like and she gets a tude with me tellin me i dont need to tell her who she can and cant hang out with. well a few weeks later i accidently logged into her myspace and seen she had several emails with guy so i figured i would read em and i didnt like what i read she was tellin him her # and that he was cute so i confronted her bout it and she says she was just flirting to get free stuff from the bar. i dont want her in that bar at all without me and she say i am too controlling. am i ?

2007-03-08 14:44:09 · 14 answers · asked by craftsman64 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf and his stepdad got into it so his mom said to leave so my bf is first thing in the morning. he is going to cali he says for a week or two so that he can calm down and i understand that he needs his space but i feel that he may forget me. he said he won't be down there long and he said to go with him but i have college and work. should i trust him and let him have his space.

2007-03-08 14:44:04 · 6 answers · asked by tye 1 in Singles & Dating

Please read whole thing - Important Alimony Question:
If two people got a marriage license in NYC, did the "legal 24 hour waiting period" then got married and have an actual marriage certificate - (done legally - there was a witness and all 4 of them signed the marriage license, that was required to get the marriage certificate) but the marriage was never consumated and they never lived together (in fact these 2 people hardly spoke again a month after the ceremony)- is the bride entitled to Alimony when they divorce? This happened 10 years ago, and neither party can afford a divorce, which is why nothing was done about till now.

If it is still considered "legal" - does that mean they are still entitiled to Alimony?

2007-03-08 14:44:03 · 6 answers · asked by Mimi B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 18 and in college... in my last year of highschool i hit on my teacher a lot and she kept rejecting me.. i bought her expensive chocolates and wrote her letters and basically let her know that i really liked her. i hit on her a lot and she kept ignoring me/pushing me away. I didnt see her for a year and then i ran into her and she was being all flirty with me (touching my arms) and we were really close together like almost kissing and she told me that i smelled good. Should i go for it? why do you think shes acting this way all of a sudden?

2007-03-08 14:43:45 · 7 answers · asked by teddyk k 1 in Singles & Dating