OK so i am 13 and i realy like this girl. She is already going out w/ someone, but it is like they are not going out. They dont usually talk that much. OK so i write her messages like every day! and she write back each time. Does she like me? I sit accross from her on the bus and she plays hand games w/ me in the isle. and she talks to me alot. and not w/ her bf in the front of the bus. only sometimes. So does she like me or not?It doesn't seem like she like her bf. He is a jerk anyway. I talk to her on the phone alot too. More than her bf. Sould i ivite her to me birthday party? or will that be weird since she has a bf? I have liked her for 3 years. the first year i met her her friends told me that she liked me. But now she wants me to join band w/ her and stuff even when she has her bf! what should i do? should i ask her out when her and her bf break up. not right after but a couple of weeks mabey?
2007-03-08 14:49:54 · 7 answers · asked by storm Harding 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And she could be sad, mad, or just bored about something , then she'll just look at me then smile and start talking to me. And we write back in forth in notes and on the phone. More than her bf. But she writes (bf's name) + (her name) on the window of the bus in the frost. Does she like him or is dhe making me jealous. if she is than it's working.
2007-03-08 14:50:40 · update #1
She probably does likes you and is dropping hints everywhere. If you have liked her for that long, then she is probably the one for you and it only hurts you if you don't ask. Invite her to your b-day party, see what happens and just wait for a time to tell her how you will. Just let her know your true feelings.
2007-03-08 14:55:25 · answer #1 · answered by C'est La Vie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly,lil man.If i was you I would ask her what is going on between her boy friend an her.You have nothig to lose.Its a simple question that shouldnt be that forward to her.Cuz it sounds like to me she does like you but you will never know if you dont do any thing about it.Yea thats no good for her boy friend,if she does like you.You are 13.Im 24 an didnt find the right one till I was 22.So you still have a life ahead of you.So go 4 it but dont push it to fast.Let her know who you fill.If you get turned down,there is other girls out there.Your still young,always remeber that.
2007-03-08 15:06:32 · answer #2 · answered by gwapo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go 4 it when she breaks up!! From what i'm seeing, it looks like she IS trying to make u jealous (This kinda stuff happens all the time on TV) and u should make the move. u r a guy, so you should have the guts to, and she obviously likes u.
So do it, be a man!
2007-03-08 15:03:18 · answer #3 · answered by abcw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u r a bit young but my advice is ask her upfront if she does some girls just lead u on but if u don't try then you'll never know
as for your b-day invite her but when shes there act like u aren't paying attention then when she gets mad start to flirt.
2007-03-08 15:06:37 · answer #4 · answered by Btekssh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know you are 13- if you like her which you do, then just say hey i know you have a boyfriend but i like you alot- and i think you like me...and see how it goes, dont sit around playing these little games, cause one it isnt fair for her to drag you along, and two SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND- its not right of her to do that..and it isnt right of you to let her. if she wants to be with you she should if not, she cant have her cake and eat it too-
Good LUCK
2007-03-08 14:56:52 · answer #5 · answered by blackpanther06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep talking to her and do special little favors so that she will know that you care, but dont pass the line of else the bf will be mad.
2007-03-08 14:55:40 · answer #6 · answered by taty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ewww you are 13?? wait a few more years, okay? don't stress yourself out. It's not like you can get hitched.
2007-03-08 14:53:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋