...i thought this guy liked me, but now im not sure. okay like he would always try to get my attention, and making me laugh and staring a lot and smiling when i walk pass and saying hi. usually i would smile and say hi back but thats it. but being as shy as i am i would just answer him whenever he asked me something(keeping conversations short) and continue with what im doing. anyways but today when i saw him he did not do any of those things i said he does all the time. he didnt even try to flirt, he just looked at me, didnt even talk to me. so wats up? i mean one day he tries to get my attention and the next day he doesnt. should i pursue him or forget about it? and what went wrong?
2007-03-08 14:45:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey might be thinking you are not interested in him. Because you are shy, you say you would answer his questions, but then you would go back to what you were doing. That is polite, but it hardly expresses an interest. If you are interested in him, you may want to make a step or two and smile at him and ask him a few questions. Even though you are shy, you should try to express an interest in those who express one in you. It is harder to do when you feel awkward, but the more you practice the easier it will be. If someone asks you something about yourself, answer it and try to come up with something to ask them about themselves or even rephrase that question and pose it back to them.
If these efforts do not change his new behavior, just move forward, but remember that next time if you are interested too express a little of it back to the guy. Good luck.
2007-03-08 14:51:35 · answer #1 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're thinking too much of this, I think. There are times when a person is just busy, or perhaps he wasn't feeling good. One time simply isn't enough to know what's up- relax. If he doesn't flirt with you for a week or so of seeing you, then something might be up, but one time anything could've been wrong, such as he didn't recognise it was you or something.
2007-03-08 14:52:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this the first day hes "ignored" you? cause if it is, dont worry about it yet, chances are he was having an off day, or he got into a fight with his mom....etc. when someone flirts like that, those actions arent going to change suddenly and dramatically. see how tomorrow goes, and try talking more...im thinking this guy likes you!
2007-03-08 14:51:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could just be having an off day. you should def pursue him! We only live once ya know..and if you dont then you will always wonder what could have been. I pursed my bf and now we have been together for 3 years..I'm so glad that i did
2007-03-08 14:48:42 · answer #4 · answered by sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok all he wanted to do was, you know, "Hit that" and judging by the info you gave he probaly did. so afterwards when u told him to call tommorw and he probaly said ok. i know he didnt. so when u saw him in the hall he trying to play you acting like he dont know you. So if you ask me you need to forget about him. he probaly ugly anyways he know he isnt going get nobody els! i just dont know why he didnt call
2007-03-08 15:47:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, you should pursue him, regardless of whether he feel anything for you or not. Don't live a life with regret.
2007-03-08 15:02:41 · answer #6 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probally gave him the wrong impression and now he thinks your not interested so he's backed off.
why not do the brave thing and ask him out?
2007-03-08 14:52:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just being nice, you are reading way too much into what he is doing...
2007-03-08 14:48:04 · answer #8 · answered by ACTS 4:12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-03-08 14:47:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he could just be checking if you are interested in him.
2007-03-08 14:48:31 · answer #10 · answered by *Ruffian* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋