My ex called me a few months ago and asked me to go see a movie with him. I had not seen him in ONE YEAR. We dated for a short while, then HE ended it. He planned the whole thing, he said he wants to meetup on msn then he told me on msn he’d call me 2 days later to plan it. He did call, &he told me his thought s on what we should do. I was fine w/ his plans, 2 days later he picked me up, we saw the movie, and after the movie he drove me home. While we were driving home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said he wants, "to see me every once in awhile". By the way, we never had sex while dating cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage, so don't say this was a bootycall. When I came home I felt disrespected cuz the whole thing seemed rushed, & he didn’t open any doors etc. So I went on msn & said “goodbye forever” & he kept saying sorry while I logged out. I felt bad so a week later I went on msn & said sorry & he seemed very fine & happy.
2007-03-08 15:18:35 · 8 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Then he went on a vacation. When he came back I said hi to me twice on msn. I won't say hi to him anymore until he does. Also, during this year, even though HE ended it, he would still say hi to me on msn. Is he ignoring me, was this movie date just for his own closure? WHY would he do this to me, why did he wanna hangout after one year then ignore me now? He's 26 while I'm 21. My friend says that he’s not ignoring me but that he’s SCARED of me. She says that even though I mended things by saying sorry there’s still a ick factor & that he’s not man enough to talk or face me cuz he knows he didn’t treat me right. Is she right? What do you think is going on?
2007-03-08 15:18:57 · update #1
Just get over it. The relationship's ended. It's just that there's still a special bond there and he doesnt want the friendship to go down the drain. Whats wrong with that?
2007-03-08 15:26:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he open doors for you and treat you with courtesy in the past? If that's nothing new, then why get upset. The fact is that he took you out and didn't pressure you for sex. You should be happy. It sounds as if he just wanted to hang out as friends. You're not ready for sex outside of marriage, so why get upset with the guy when he hasn't given you any hassles. Take it for what it was, simple friendship. Lighten up.
2007-03-08 23:26:56 · answer #2 · answered by bombastic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably diversifying his options, seeing if he really is interested in you. If he knows your a no sex till marriage girl he may want to make sure your somebody he wants to be with his whole life, but he also wants to see who else is out there so he is taking it slow and being sure not to close doors. see where it goes would be my best advice
2007-03-08 23:23:55 · answer #3 · answered by wingends 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had my ex do that to me because his current g-friend had a hickie from another guy on her neck, we went to the movies he took me home but was so rude throught the whole movie saying dirty things and hinting he wanted to have sex, i havent talked to him since and dont plan to i dont want that type of person in my life
2007-03-08 23:22:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nobody is going to read this whole thing. Trim it down to whats necessary.
2007-03-08 23:21:06 · answer #5 · answered by Katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably got tired of listening to you talk..gee whiz..keep it short
2007-03-08 23:23:22 · answer #6 · answered by lata 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you ask this question over and over?
2007-03-08 23:22:44 · answer #7 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not scare of you. You did what you did and don't try to blame this on him. it's not right.
2007-03-08 23:26:26 · answer #8 · answered by Scpwnz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋