Hey, I met this adorable guy and we are friends. I know he cares about me and is attracted to me. He said it s possible for him to fall inlove with me. We are both 23. What are some ideas?
2007-03-08 15:56:18 · 10 answers · asked by ems_lover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BE YOURSELF just be you, there is no point you being anything else because if you try to improve yourself or up yourself to what you think he likes in a girl you will have to stick to those standards for as long as you want to be with that guy! so be yourself its the only way you will keep a guy for good... i learnt the hard way and i gave up and said " if a guy doesn't like me for me.... i don't care" months later i meet a guy was completely myself and i have now been with him for 2 years he isn't just my boyfriend he is my best friend.... be friend first.... love will follow if it is meant to be!
2007-03-08 16:04:24 · answer #1 · answered by just_jemma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all be yourself. you are never going to be comfortable with anyone if you can't be yourself, no matter how much you love them. don't see it as making HIM fall for you, better yet see it as how can you both fall for each other. find some common ground and build on that. show him what a great person you are.
2007-03-09 00:03:02 · answer #2 · answered by jaime l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love takes time, just does. So go out with him, you two like each other. Date, then be a couple and let things just happen, cause thats when its the best relationship, when things just happen.
2007-03-09 00:00:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be cute, be flirty, be fun, be likeable. so pretty much, be yourself. but put yourself out there. make sure he knows that you are available, and that you are interested. he sounds like a great guy. good luck!
2007-03-08 23:59:11 · answer #4 · answered by ranchgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself.
If you aren't, eventually your true self will come out and the relationship will head down the toilet.
2007-03-09 00:01:45 · answer #5 · answered by Brian K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot make anyone love you. Its something that happens without being forced.
2007-03-09 00:00:49 · answer #6 · answered by Contesta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your time, get to know one another. you shouldn't have to make someone fall in love with you. it should be a natural attaction
2007-03-09 00:01:36 · answer #7 · answered by tiz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, the rest will come naturally.
Good Luck!!!
2007-03-08 23:59:26 · answer #8 · answered by PRLadyDama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get more interested in him.. n know more abt him n tell all abt you too.... look him in the eye when speakin... it makes wonders.. :-)
2007-03-08 23:59:20 · answer #9 · answered by Ally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and be nice
2007-03-08 23:58:40 · answer #10 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋