Family & Relationships - 7 March 2007

2007-03-07 06:07:09 · 29 answers · asked by jassice_hunter 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hiya, look heres the thing,

i dated this guy and i left him about a month ago, we were going out about 4 months..... now he rings all the time, basically telling me how he is doing, what he did at work today and even what hes eaten or is going to eat for dinner, i dont like hurting peoples feelings and i dont want him calling me or gettin in contact with me, i dont know what to tell him,

HELP!! x x

2007-03-07 06:06:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been best friends for 4 years and in the past she'd been really selfish and hurt me so I told her we shouldn't spend so much time together.A month later she was a totally different person, she begged me to forgive her and promised she would never hurt me again. I really loved her and I was always there for her, I considered her family and I tried to be protective cos she's a risky person(alcohol, drugs etc).A week ago I broke with my boyfriend and I really needed someone to talk cos I was really depressed but she said she didn't have time and that she'd promised some new friends she met she'd go for dinner with them...I felt betrayed...and the next day I told her how I felt and that I don't want to be friends with her anymore...so here I am, alone, having to deal with the loss of the two most important persons in my life...and with noone to talk to...I know lots of people but I have no other close friends....what should I do??I think I'm going insane...please help me...

2007-03-07 06:06:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-07 06:06:05 · 16 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5 in Singles & Dating

thongs or booty shorts?

2007-03-07 06:06:00 · 6 answers · asked by gemini 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy and i have had the best times of our lives ..we have spent hours literally doingnothing ... and still laughing smiling ... talking,. we are like each other compliment each other ... but we are married respectively( he just got married) . i thought he is my soulmate .. and i believed it WAS OK if i loved him... i dunno how/what to feel???? yes my marriage WAS /is not the greatest one ... but ... how do i help myself ?? he is gonna become a dad and im freaked out ...im a mum ..but what the hell am i going thru ???
SORRY STUPID QUERY!!

2007-03-07 06:05:31 · 5 answers · asked by barley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I split wit the love of my life 5 months ago,we were really in love. She dumped me cus she thought i didnt trust her cus of a message she got,it was sent by my sis but i took the blame cus of family probs in r house. I near died wit a wee prob and my mum had a cancer scare. She was upset i didnt tell the truth. She went in2 depression wen we split. I wanted 2 tell her but she wudnt speak 2 me, she emailed me recently,shes wit a new guy,she told me she likes him but not in love yet,she still loves me and always will. She said she cant go bak 2 me cus she wont trust me after this but wants me as a friend. Wat do i do cus i really love her,id rather b died than live witout her, i know i can win her trust round,quite quickly,please help me guys. Ive 2 emil her bak any tips???? Ive found out her new fella is only 16 and shes a 20 year old uni student,r friends r disgusted in her and find it sick but i still love her.

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I sent her alot of letters and emails. I have wrote another letter but i am afraid to send it in case it makes me look obsessed. advice please. should i send it???

2007-03-07 06:04:32 · 5 answers · asked by Paddy I 1 in Singles & Dating

Just curious because my wife and I are about to embark on this lifestyle and would like to do more of it out of our country. We travel to London once a year and was just curious about swinger clubs and the like.

2007-03-07 06:04:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter is 17 and my son is 21. Some people are telling me that my daughter is too young to leave at home for a couple of days. Im only gone for maybe 48 hours at a time. Its not like I go all the time. Maybe two or three times a month. Both kids work and have ways to and from work. But my son sometimes stays over at his girlfriends house overnight leaving my daughter here by herself. I feel guilty doing this. Is it wrong?

2007-03-07 06:03:55 · 12 answers · asked by CROSS-EYED PENGUIN 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

other than the obvious ones...like go out with friends and eat alot of ice cream...lol

2007-03-07 06:03:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like we broke almost five months ago! and he still thinks he can be all over me! its really irritating but everytime i tell him to stop he says, "o baby u know u like it!" and im like EWW NO

2007-03-07 06:01:02 · 31 answers · asked by Christa...is Awesome =]] lol 1 in Singles & Dating

Well i'm very laid back i dont mind my BF looking at a girl but he cant touch, If he wants to watch or read x rated things I dont care unless its a bit too much and I cook and clean and I dont nag! well that is how I am in a relationship, Am I the kind of type that you dont like? or am I totally the opposite

2007-03-07 06:00:57 · 15 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

I am back with another question (only those who know my situation may reply). Lately the guy that I am interested in haver been talking through e-mail. One night we I had asked him this question like...I have been considering you as a candidate for a friend. What is your opinion on that. Get back with me at your convienance(hoped i spelled that right), and so his reply back was /You are my friend. Am I a friend, acquaintance, associate, or other? What level of friendship are you referring to? Then he goes on to say something like "friend" has a wide variety/range of meanings it depends on the individual. So I am trying to find out is he asking me a question all in the same or is he shy or do we both feel the same way?

2007-03-07 06:00:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After I told my Girlfriend I wasn't seeing her. We just got
back together. What should I do or say to straighten it out
with her. I just wnt through this.

2007-03-07 06:00:50 · 4 answers · asked by Gary S 1 in Singles & Dating

if i like this girl but she dosnet look like a girl does that make me a lesbian.

2007-03-07 05:59:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay i had a pretty hard life i was adopted at birth. On April 4th 1998 my adopted momther had died.Of cancer. At that point all i had left was my dad. However i wasnt aware that i was adopted. So my dad couldnt afford to take care of me anymore. And during those times when we lost my mom he became a drunk abusive. Then wen i relized i was adopted i moved in with my biological parents. And now i dont get along with my parents. they think im on drugs and that i have sex and stuff. it stresses me out completely. and like its affecting my relationship with my boyfreind. who i love completely and he is litterally my everything. Not only that but the people i have been best freinds with since i was in diapers are being taken away from me. And im starting to fall apart. i dont know who to cope with all of this besides crying is that what i should do??

2007-03-07 05:59:46 · 17 answers · asked by simply happy 2 in Family

Is she for real? I have to knowif I have something to worry about of if she is just kidding. She told me that since her C-section, her sex drive is low. What do you think?

2007-03-07 05:59:40 · 21 answers · asked by Ricky D 1 in Singles & Dating

So I met this guy online right..we've been flirting through email and messenging..all fun, but he refuses to give out any specific information about him even his favorite color...he just tells me everyday how incredibly good he is...i'd like him to talk to me more casually at times..what can I do?

2007-03-07 05:59:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

becouse it seems that i get along with younger guys more and i want to be able to date them i just dont know if that is okay

2007-03-07 05:58:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whats the deal? Its so hard for me to find someone who wants to be serious once they find out about my children. I loved a bad man for six years, and loved him so much, I had his children. I didn't do anything wrong. I soley support my children with no child support, and love them dearly. So why does a woman with children pose a problem for men?

2007-03-07 05:58:23 · 9 answers · asked by NestleGirl 2 in Singles & Dating

I can't stop thinking about her.
She and I are good friends and tried to move on to next step about a year ago but that didn't work out.

She and I didn't talk about 8 months but started to talk eachother about 3 months ago.

Recently, she sent me a message that

she <3 me

and I wasn't sure if she was serious or not, so I replied her message back.

And from that moment, I began to like her, but I don't know what i'm really doing now.

So, how can i stop thinking about her?

and if whatever reason that what i'm doing is wrong, please tell me. thanks and have a nice day!

2007-03-07 05:57:14 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i have been dating for 1 1/2 yrs.At first his best friend would get jealuos cause they didnt hang out as much now he had a girlfriend and didnt even like my boyfriend talking about me around him.So now the tables have turned.He hangs with his friend every tue.and they lift every night together then hang out.one of the reasons he doesnt know he wants to marry me is b.c he'll see his friend less.On the holidays he goes to his family and i go with him.then he goes to his best friends family while i go to mine alone.then he meets me at mine later.I dont like the idea in the future of us going seprate ways every holiday.they have only been close for the past yr.His friend asked him to go on a cruise with him knowing my boyfriend needs to buy a new car cause he wrecked his and that he is only a college student.But my boyfriend didnt say no so hes going.He always listens to what his friend says but when i know what his friend said is wrong hell still believe his bud over me

2007-03-07 05:57:06 · 20 answers · asked by kay h 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is it some people just can't be alone? My ex and I were together 14 years. We broke up for a year and a half. Got back together for a year. He had a girlfriend for that whole year and a half. Left her to come back to me and our kids. Well, on new years eve he broke up with me saying that he wanted to be by himself for a while. He wanted to be free to due what ever he wanted. Two months later he is back with that women. He just can't ever be by himself. Do you think that is true more of men then women? And how can some people just move to someone else like it is no big deal?

2007-03-07 05:57:05 · 8 answers · asked by Teslajuliet 4 in Singles & Dating

girls are in class and girls are walking passed u while going to class, how can one stop that person and have a conversation with them and tell them that I like u. But isn't it wierd to stop someone while their going to their class and stopping them. That seems like the person is stalking them or is despersate. how can a person get to know another when never of having class with them but just passes u by once in awhile on campus? T(this is a University)

2007-03-07 05:56:48 · 7 answers · asked by afghanpimp04 2 in Friends

I've been dating this guy officially for 2 months now. I've known him for six months however. When we met I had a bf at the time but the moment we started talking we clicked. I wasnt quite ready to leave my bf at the time so he started talking to another girl but still remained close to me. This other girl lives almost 3 hrs away from where we stay. He visits the town she lives in from time to time because he has family there. We see e/other every wkend and are always making plans. He hasnt seen this girl in like a month. I know they still talk on the phone and he'll reference her sometimes as "my friend" when we talk about somethings. I know he likes me. But should I be threatened by her? Things are getting pretty steamy between us but I refuse to go any further knowing that hes talking to someone on the side. What do you guys think?

2007-03-07 05:56:37 · 1 answers · asked by TheLight 5 in Singles & Dating

I had a problem at one time with drinking when my daughters were growing up and I know at times I was not the best mother. I married very young and was from a disfunctional family myself. It's too long a story to go into here. To make it short my behavior cost me my marriage after they left for college. I have come a long way in the past 20 years as I have worked very hard to survive from it all. One of my cats died last week and I got the card from her telling me she forgives me the next day. I was already sad about my cat and her comments in the card brought up old wounds. She said she knew I was upset over the cat but she was tired of walking on tiptoes around me and sent it anyway. My daughters never visit me but once a year or I go visit them on Christmas. How do I continue to cope with this situation? I told her I was glad she forgived me but it just brought everything back....I suffer from depression too from the past and can't seem to move on.....help!

2007-03-07 05:56:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My mom has been addicted to World of Warcraft for over a year now. It's all she ever talks about and all she ever does. This is one of the hardest things I have had to deal with in my 20 years on earth, even though my father is an alcoholic. I have no idea what to do to help her. My mom got worse after I moved away in September of 2005, I moved back in September of 2006 and I didn't know how bad it was as I only visited twice in the year that I lived about 300 miles away. Now I am back living at "home" until my boyfriend and I can get a place of our own. It is terrible seeing her as a zombie, she used to be so healthy and full of life. Now, she even takes days off work if something goes wrong in the game (usually something with her guild), and she took a day off when the expansion came out. The depth of the problem is so hard to get into. I don't know what to do. I am pregnant with her first grandchild and she doesn't even seem to care, as it is not WoW related. I am so hurt.

2007-03-07 05:56:06 · 6 answers · asked by Rosie B 2 in Family

Yeah, before anyone starts throwing around rude comments etc, I really have thought about this forever & really want to meet him, he's 1 year older than I am, we're both in college, so I guess we could find a 3rd person to come along if needed ... so I live and go to school in Virginia & he lives in Long Island and goes to school in Philly ... so what do you think is the best way about doing this? I think I'll go to philly, but how long do you think I should stay there & what time during the year (I don't know if this summer is possible, but the fall after might be, or the winter break afterward or the 2008 spring break) ... and should I get my own hotel for a few days? This will be really expensive right, to make travel arrangments for going to and throughout the city (cause his car is at his LI home), and for food/provisions, hotel nights, etc?
I mean I'd stay with him & he wants me to, but he lives in a guy's dorm during the school year ... and with his parents during the summer ..

2007-03-07 05:55:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

his hand falling asleep. lol

2007-03-07 05:55:23 · 1 answers · asked by anna g 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it a bad thing to have a love/hate relationship with my husband? Don't get me wrong we are both very much in love with one another, it is just sometimes we kinda hate one another (I probably shouldn't say Hate, but don't know how else to put it). Is this wrong?

2007-03-07 05:54:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce