hiya, look heres the thing,
i dated this guy and i left him about a month ago, we were going out about 4 months..... now he rings all the time, basically telling me how he is doing, what he did at work today and even what hes eaten or is going to eat for dinner, i dont like hurting peoples feelings and i dont want him calling me or gettin in contact with me, i dont know what to tell him,
HELP!! x x
2007-03-07 06:06:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That recently happened to me. I just ignored his calls and erased his messages. I felt bad at times because he truly believed that we were gonna be together. Eventually he stopped calling...I changed my # too so maybe thats why im not getting the calls anymore. lol
2007-03-07 06:13:17 · answer #1 · answered by *VS* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have this problem with a girl at school, i don't want to be mean to her because she is just being herself. The main thing you need is tolerance, obviously don't lash out over the phone at him telling him to get lost it'll upset him. The best way to stop it is to be boring on the phone, and what's more make out like your busy a lot of the time when he rings. -Don't hang up though that's just wrong =)
Good luck...
2007-03-07 06:13:16 · answer #2 · answered by James G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry but the only way your going to get him to stop calling you is to be honest and tell him how you feel if he dosant take the hint after youve done that change your number or just ignore his texts / calls he will soon give up and latch on to some one else
good luck hope this helps
2007-03-07 06:13:18 · answer #3 · answered by Karen And Ollie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you may not like to hurt peoples feelings but you just might have to on this. Youre going to have to tell him straight out that you are done with him, don't want to talk to him and you damn sure don't care what is going on with him. He's not getting the idea so you 're going to have to spell it out for him.
2007-03-07 06:15:12 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. Kitty knows it all 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be "unavailable" when he calls.
Oh...I was just about to jump in the shower. Can I call you back?
Oh! I'm sorry I have been so busy...can I give you a ring later?
Works everytime.
2007-03-07 06:12:24 · answer #5 · answered by Kier22_2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he sounds lonely and if he's not stalking you, just be patient and just tell him you are on your way out when he rings or introduce him to a friend who is equally lonely. Try not to be mean, I'm sure he just needs a friend to talk to.
2007-03-07 06:17:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time he calls, tell him "dude I am busy an I dont want to talk to you". Then hang up on him. LOL
2007-03-07 06:11:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the reason you broke with him Was for all the reasons he
tells you about.Your not interested in him.If you don't he will be thinking your interested.Tell him politely but to the point.You don't want to know.
2007-03-07 06:17:24 · answer #8 · answered by Butt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that u don't like him calling and want him to stop for a little so u can get ur space.
2007-03-07 06:11:55 · answer #9 · answered by codey h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to be upfront and honest. Tell him how it is. If that doesn't work change your number.
2007-03-07 06:11:15 · answer #10 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋