Family & Relationships - 7 March 2007

usually im not so confused in these situations, but this time is different. we work together at a call center, and im a phone rep. so even if it didn't work out, the work thing isn't an issue, because it takes effort to talk with coworkers at a call center. so the last few days he's made a point to come talk to me. the other day i was walking back from my break, i noticed him talking to one of the other account sups(thats what he is) and both were looking at me, then quickly turned away. this occured 3 different times with 3 different acct sups. then yesterday, i was on lunch, and he came and sat down with me. it was really weird. i think that he likes but, the reason i question it is i have purple hair, eyebrow pierced, and i'm sure you can imagine how i dress(customers can't see you at a call center, no real dress code). he is very normal. (that's not a negative comment). and, well, he's gorgeous and fit(i'm not.) i can't imagine him being into me. what do you think i should do?

2007-03-07 06:17:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 06:17:39 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

....toe jam?

2007-03-07 06:17:29 · 2 answers · asked by Latina 2 in Singles & Dating

And, what attributes would you like to see that are missing?

2007-03-07 06:17:18 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-07 06:17:17 · 34 answers · asked by Holy 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok...my situation continues...I got a bf and I decided to stay with him but then there's my really clost friend adn I'm wondering if I made the right chocie...I mean I think I did but some of my friends are saying that I didn't...HELP!! I'm pretty sure that I made the right choice...

2007-03-07 06:16:59 · 7 answers · asked by n'ami 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 06:16:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been friends with her since 2nd grade. how do i ask her out? i mean we are like bro and sis but we aint related or nothin. how do i ask her out?

2007-03-07 06:16:03 · 11 answers · asked by im emo, who cares 3 in Singles & Dating

It's going to be a ceremony with family and maybe a luncheon after. Since technically my husband and I are already married, what type of dress should I wear? It's a very special occasion for me but I don't think a full-on wedding dress would be appropriate. I'd appreciate the help.

2007-03-07 06:15:09 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Im a single mum to a 4 year old.(My husband died aged 35,two years ago) Im only 28 myself so im curious to know whether men actually see us negatively.By the way,lots of us single mums have good careers and financial independence so im sure we shouldnt all be classed as wanting a father figure for our kids.What are your thoughts?

2007-03-07 06:14:28 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How would you catagorise this. Would you call yelling,screaming, is told to leave the home, having a tantrum without being phisically abused, ABUSE? This is something one of my friends are faced with on a daily basis. Now in a case like this what advise would you give someone?

2007-03-07 06:14:26 · 8 answers · asked by brenda k 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was thinking...how to show my husband how much I really love him. Do you think gouging out my heart with a spoon would be enough? Cuz you can't really do more than that can you? What have you done to show someone you care?

Yes, I am blonde, have a job, am an adult and Yes...I know this is Singles & Dating.

2007-03-07 06:14:11 · 18 answers · asked by DoubleD 2 in Singles & Dating

im in a fresh relationship but im scared of cheating.
i cant help thinking about cheating.
ive always cheated on my 'boyfriends' before.
and i didnt like anyone for ages, but then all at once i liked this guy, but now i start feeling things for alot of people. even people that i dont know. i really dont understand it.
& im not even sure if i like my boyfriend.
i know i like him but he's just, i dont know.
i guess, not what i expected him to be.

Signed,
CONFUSED.

2007-03-07 06:13:44 · 14 answers · asked by blehhtink 1 in Singles & Dating

I met my boyfriend 10 months ago..He is graduated from law school .The first 4 months , he was the best boyfriend that i've had . He supposed to meet my family but he had to leave for a business trip for two months. He was calling me everyday .I knew after his trip,he would start studing for Bar exam .He had told me how tough is this exam and he wont see me alot .I totaly underestood and promissed to support him .We had to be together just once per week .I was available all the time .I was cooking and taking food for him .I was so sad because everytime that I needed him ,he wasn't there for me but i didn't complain .He was telling me how much he loves me everyday and that was enough for me .After his exam ,I was so happy to spend more time with him .But he is been changed ,even he doesn't say ''I love you '' any more .He even doesn't ask me to see his family or meet my family .I'm 33 years old and still beautifull.No time for games ...
what can i do ?should I talk or leave him ??!!!

2007-03-07 06:13:28 · 7 answers · asked by labellesmile 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Love is......

.....when you fgeel something more than just friendship but can't quite describe it.

.....when you begin to see someone in a very positive light.

.....suddenly being nervous, shy and unable to think of anything to say whenever you are near a certain someone.

....wanting to be close to someone, both emotionally and physically.

....being excited about going to school because you know you are going to see him or her

....wanting to look your very best when you know you will be seeing him or her

.....caring for this other person in ways you haven't cared before

....not hearing anything around you because your too busy thinking about his person

.....wanting nothing more than to see that person smile

.....growing faint when that person smiles at you

.....not caring if your friends don't think that he is the cutest girl/boy in the world, because you do

.....being able to stick around and work things out when difficulties start arising

2007-03-07 06:12:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 06:12:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have the kind of relationship where we tell each other everything.... we're each others best friend...we've been together for a longgg time... but about 2 weeks ago his best friend from a long time ago moved back to our hometown and now i feel like mayb he tells his best friend more than he tells me but he tells me that i know more than his best friend....and that hed rather come running to me for advice or anything than to his best friend. should i believe him or what?

2007-03-07 06:12:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend is having a baby and she wants me to come see her when she's in the hospital. Thing is, I have to travel FAR (another province away). Her boyfriend doesn't like me because he dated my sister a long LONG time ago. He doesn't want me to go there to see her when the baby's born but she keeps asking me when I'm coming. I don't know what to do. I don't want to ruin the birth of this baby by being there but I want to be there for my best friend and she wants me there to. She tells him that she wants me there but he's the controlling type of bf (example: first time she got pregnant, he made her overdose on E and she miscarried because he didn't want a baby) He's really weird and rude. I don't know what to do. It's a complicated situation.

2007-03-07 06:11:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am in love with a guy but it seems like he doesnt know that i exisit
what should i do??

2007-03-07 06:11:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

But I can't take her on any dates because I'm only 12. what could I do at school and stuff. Should I get her somthing or is it to early?

2007-03-07 06:11:16 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 06:10:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I never realized how popular I was until now ( I hear many Brides-to-Be feel the same way). Its amazing how many people want to be involved at my wedding.
We already have:
5 bridesmaids/5 groomsmen.
2 Maid of Honors/ 2 Best Men
2 flower girls
1 Ring barrier/ and my 5 year old nephew who will be handing out roses to the ladies as the flower girls walk down... and
My one friend is reading a poem at the reception. My nephew is playing the guitar as I walk down the aisle.

I know it sounds like a full house already, but I have 2 more friends (female) and my 2 other nephews (15 & 18) that I would like to involve... what other roles could they play?

2007-03-07 06:10:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok ladies, i have a question for you. if you were to break up with a guy that you really loved and then over the next few months you started to see a lot of changes in him that he has made for himself and it turns out that he wants everything in a relationship that you do, do you think that you would regret it if you didn't give him another chance? Do you think that you would always be having these "what if" feelings and wondering what could have been if you didn't give him another chance?

2007-03-07 06:09:07 · 8 answers · asked by frankfurter27 1 in Singles & Dating

just wondering how to have "the conversation" when starting to have sex with bf for the first time? am i being extra paranoid by wondering about these things, (like whether he is sleeping with anyone else, whether he has anything against using condoms, etc) should i assume he would be decent or should i ask these things just to be clear?

2007-03-07 06:08:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have the bad boy/smart ***/ overly confident complex??I am nice, polite, and friendly to everyone.My only flaws are that i am shy and quiet with only a small group of friends.I dont get it?These guys are the only ones that approach me always seem to be different versions of the same guy? I get described as pretty or cute so i dont think i am ugly so why dont the nice guys ask me out?

2007-03-07 06:08:49 · 21 answers · asked by Kristen M 1 in Singles & Dating

Mine is that I just don't know how to stay with a great girl when I'm with one. I let the perfect one get away and I had tried to find her but I just couldn't. After that I would meet great girls but never hung around long enough to see what could happen.
You just have to learn not to make the same mistake over and over or it will forever consume you.
I now have found a great girl and have a son that I love with all my heart because I learned to appreciate what I have and stay around to see it grow.

2007-03-07 06:08:45 · 12 answers · asked by infiniteson 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

does my avatar do it for u ? if i told you (all) i had dark brown hair and big blue eyes and was athletic build and was a bit romantic and a huge flirt would that work for you ? im 18 and live in london
what do you think ??
and no im no a psycho (just to answer your first question)

2007-03-07 06:08:23 · 25 answers · asked by kezz247 2 in Singles & Dating

Ps.We do check eachother out,but hes very slow..This has been going on 4mnths

2007-03-07 06:07:58 · 5 answers · asked by Cassý 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my ex are good friends. We started off as friends, then dated. Then broke up. Now ten years later. We still have conversations about life, and give each other great advice on life, and the opposite sex. I give him tips to romance his girl, and he helps me understand men, and their goofy ways.

2007-03-07 06:07:53 · 14 answers · asked by questions 1 in Weddings

Not for me!! Predictable is not a bad thing. It is comforting to know what's next. It gives a person peace of mind. A sence of security. If you spend 11 years or more never knowing what will happen next, emotionally on the run, constantly anticipating the worst, you'll go CRAZY!!! What does predictability mean to you?

2007-03-07 06:07:26 · 7 answers · asked by . 2 in Other - Family & Relationships