What do you consider to be the best attrtibutes of your spouse or partner?

Question

And, what attributes would you like to see that are missing?

Answer 1

He is kind, caring, considerate of my feelings, he is there for me unconditionally. I can depend on him for everything, my ups, my downs. Helps around the house, with the kids, is always happy, has a sense of humor. My home lights up when he comes home. My heart is secure knowing that he is who he is.

He is my BEST FRIEND, AND I HIS. It works both ways. Nothing is missing, he has all the attributes that a spouse can ask for.

If I would change anything it would be me. I was blessed with a great guy. I know it sounds to good to be true, but it is.

Answer 2

First part:

1. Always willing to stick it out, work it out! WE ARE IN IT FOR THE LONG HAUL AND I AM LOVING THAT. When I think of the zillion relationships I went through before this, phew!

2. VERY AFFECTIONATE IN A NON-CLINGY WAY. We both like to hug, hold, touch frequently throughout the day. I think it is good for the soul and good for your physical health too. We are mammals.

3.. WE ARE TRUE FRIENDS. Many things but frankly most of all, my buddy. We hang out, do stuff togehter, we laugh our arses off sometimes, and we cook wonderful meals, listen to music, watch weirdarse movies, I really love that he is who he is! We work together, sleep together, shower each other lovingly, we are like two peas in a pod and it is AWESOME, so good for the soul to ahve a great mate. BUT we still do separate stuff and all! I know he is always there for me no matter what. That is COOL.

What's missing? I dunno. Not much! I guess it would be nice to be financially secure, we are self-employed and the money comes and goes in waves. We both used to make tons but we gave up THE RAT RACE and it is a trade-off. I wish he would take more time to go relax. We work a lot. In this economy to be self-employed and pay the mortgage phew it is quite something, especially here in SoCal. I wish he weren't quite so anti-mainstream medicine. I am too, but not as much as he!

Answer 3

The best attributes anyone could have, of course. A heart full of love.

Answer 4

I would say he is kind and very giving and a very hard worker. He is very selfless and is a great husband. I would like to see him be able to learn to relax more and not be so moody and grumpy at times. He is a great husband and i would not want to change him anyway as i love him for who he is. He spoils me rotten and loves me to no end. I can say i have it really good! He also is very affectionate and he provides well for us. I would have to say his best attribute most of all is that God is first in his life and he is a man who puts his wife and family above his work and his own selfish needs.

Answer 5

I think everything about him, being a giver in bed, helps around the house, his temper that I hate so much specially during driving, him being loud and shouting, I guess I have more complains than appreciation for him. Sometimes makes you wonder if things were the other way around, I hate him but then again I love him....but most of the time I hate him... c'est la vie

Answer 6

My husbands best attributes are.
1. His big heart
2. His loving nature
3. His mind
4. His incredibly sexy body

Answer 7

Best: Positive, Family Oriented, Patient, Trusting/Trustful
Missing: Getthing things done on time!

Answer 8

His code of ethics and strong sence of well being. He is a quality person, and can build or repair just about anything. His ability to see through people and his giving personality, to the people that deserve it.

Answer 9

His best attribute is his intellect. What's missing? Nothing.

Answer 10

His best attributes are his intelligence, ability to communicate, highly ethical, strong sense of family, hard working, responsible, great sense of humor, gentle, and kind.

He isn't missing anything.