I met my boyfriend 10 months ago..He is graduated from law school .The first 4 months , he was the best boyfriend that i've had . He supposed to meet my family but he had to leave for a business trip for two months. He was calling me everyday .I knew after his trip,he would start studing for Bar exam .He had told me how tough is this exam and he wont see me alot .I totaly underestood and promissed to support him .We had to be together just once per week .I was available all the time .I was cooking and taking food for him .I was so sad because everytime that I needed him ,he wasn't there for me but i didn't complain .He was telling me how much he loves me everyday and that was enough for me .After his exam ,I was so happy to spend more time with him .But he is been changed ,even he doesn't say ''I love you '' any more .He even doesn't ask me to see his family or meet my family .I'm 33 years old and still beautifull.No time for games ...
what can i do ?should I talk or leave him ??!!!
2007-03-07 06:13:28 · 7 answers · asked by labellesmile 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Leave him, he just entered a brand new world, did he pass the Bar exam? Sometimes Men will think they are too much too handle if you know what I mean. Give him a dose of what he's been giving you. Ignore him for a little while, if he cares for you he will beg you to spend more time with him. If he doesn't even blink, leave him, he's seeying someone else! Sorry! I did that with my husband, I showed him that I am not just the wife that will clean his clothes and cook him dinner. I lost weight, I even started to make more friends and spent less time at home. It scared him a little, thinking I was about to walk away. Trust me it works, Guy's really like what is hard to get. You are a woman after all don't let anyone put you down like you're nothing!
2007-03-07 06:22:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we forget that dating is time to get to know each other not a commitment to marriage. Yes, you helped him through the exam, and you gave him space, maybe it has just reached a natural end to the relationship. Might be worth asking him why he's changed as you are not kids anymore, if he has a good reason stay if not just move on 10 months can be forgotten, over ten years and kids cannot ,don't make a worse decision by staying when there is nothing there to stay for.
2007-03-07 14:26:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means the honeymoon period is over which happens in most relationships. If you talk to him about your concerns and he makes more of an effort then stay with him ( he can't change something he doesn't know bothers you) but if it turns into an argument and he continues to not treat you the way you feel you deserve to be treated than move on, life too short to waste chasing after someone who treats you like a hobby rather than a priority. Talk to him first and see where he stands, he could just think that you know how he feels, guys are like that some times, they don't think we like to hear i love you regardless of how much we know they do.
2007-03-07 14:22:24 · answer #3 · answered by LoveLeighe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you need to talk to him about your feelings. alot of guys get comfortable in a relationship and don't relize that they are doing things.
i take alot of things for granted and i should do more to make my girl happier.
2007-03-07 14:20:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like it when they go down.
2007-03-07 14:29:31 · answer #5 · answered by Away With The Fairies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry love dump him
2007-03-07 14:17:12 · answer #6 · answered by weebobby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree, leave him
2007-03-07 14:22:09 · answer #7 · answered by www.japanvideogames.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋