usually im not so confused in these situations, but this time is different. we work together at a call center, and im a phone rep. so even if it didn't work out, the work thing isn't an issue, because it takes effort to talk with coworkers at a call center. so the last few days he's made a point to come talk to me. the other day i was walking back from my break, i noticed him talking to one of the other account sups(thats what he is) and both were looking at me, then quickly turned away. this occured 3 different times with 3 different acct sups. then yesterday, i was on lunch, and he came and sat down with me. it was really weird. i think that he likes but, the reason i question it is i have purple hair, eyebrow pierced, and i'm sure you can imagine how i dress(customers can't see you at a call center, no real dress code). he is very normal. (that's not a negative comment). and, well, he's gorgeous and fit(i'm not.) i can't imagine him being into me. what do you think i should do?
2007-03-07 06:17:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girl ask him if he likes u then if he says yes then u can tell him u like him to who knows yall mayb even b together good luck
2007-03-07 06:21:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful. I went through this same old thing several times at work. I learned that the at work whispers generally mean talk about what the guys want to do with you. The last time I dated any one from work, I regretted it big time!
But take it easy. Very slow. Be friends for a while before any actual dating. You will figure out if he likes you for you, or just sex.
2007-03-07 14:24:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter how you look, it's who you are. He probably feels comfortable around you and likes you because of it. This is still too early to tell if he likes you in a romantic way; however, start to get to know him. Reciprocate his efforts to talk to you. If he really does like you, rest assured that he will make it more evident through more noticeable signs. You also seem to be confident, stay that way - he's attracted you for that as well!
2007-03-15 14:18:07 · answer #3 · answered by Dysire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are an honest person which I am sure you are, then be straight and to the point and ask him. Something like hey, I was wondering about going to a movie I seen previews for and would like to know if you'd like to come along? If he does then you know that there is something about you that clicked. You don't have to dress like mrs. cleaver to have someone notice you. You sound like a unique and expressed individual. Believe me we need more like you in the world. And never worry about what someone else thinks about you....keep them guessing, that's what a lot of people like in this crazy world...they like to be intrigued by others. Hope all goes well for you!
2007-03-07 14:25:06 · answer #4 · answered by raquelita 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him to go somewhere after work, and see if he takes the bait. Or you can wait for him to make the first move then you will know for sure.
2007-03-15 10:38:10 · answer #5 · answered by Sunday P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I f he really likes you he won't ask you to change your clothes to fit his standards, he'll like you for you and everything you come with. Try talking to him and tell him you'd like to get to know him a little better, and if things don't go so smooth, maybe it wasn't meant to be. Don't worry there's someone out there for you!
2007-03-15 12:02:38 · answer #6 · answered by Bria C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him back obviously. see where it take you. i would jump the gun into thinking he wants you thought. play a little hard to get and see what happens. Its a start though so dont just cut the ties yet. Get to know him better.
2007-03-15 08:34:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, it sounds like he could like you or he could be looking for a shag because you are different, just let him do all the moves and see what happens.
2007-03-07 14:22:54 · answer #8 · answered by PB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be friends with him, be yourself and wait. If nothing happens, at least you'll be friends with him. If something happens, you'll know the impetus came from him.
2007-03-15 12:04:42 · answer #9 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful.. cuz he might think you are some easy rock chic... cuz people assume crap like that. But, hey if he has a good personality.. go for it.
2007-03-15 14:17:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋