my boyfriend and i have the kind of relationship where we tell each other everything.... we're each others best friend...we've been together for a longgg time... but about 2 weeks ago his best friend from a long time ago moved back to our hometown and now i feel like mayb he tells his best friend more than he tells me but he tells me that i know more than his best friend....and that hed rather come running to me for advice or anything than to his best friend. should i believe him or what?
2007-03-07 06:12:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's great that u 2 are so close. He's allowed to have a best friend other than you so u shouldn't take it so personally. You already have a connection with him and I don't think u'll lose it just by him talking to someone else.
2007-03-07 06:17:17 · answer #1 · answered by *VS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming that his best friend from a long time ago is a guy. I'm basing my advice on that fact. I would definitely think that he must have a closeness with you that he doesnt have with them. You are his gf. You're always first. But he probably talks to his guyfriend about guy things, or even you. you know? he needs someone to talk to outside of the relationship. Even someone to talk to about you, yourself. Maybe you should talk to him about this, I am sure he will reassure you about everything.
2007-03-07 06:18:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. Your bf just got happy that his old best bud is back. They are probably just catching up. Wouldn't you do that if one of your close friends came back to the same town/city as you and you haven't talked to her in a while!
2007-03-07 06:16:07 · answer #3 · answered by cutie.pie_xo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so did he do anything wrong or lie to you cus it seems like he is a good guy and you need to trust him if you want to hold on to him and so what if he tells his guy friend some secrets its ok he still loves you and you seem to have a good relationship so let go of the control alittle its ok you guys will be just fine
2007-03-07 06:17:08 · answer #4 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend is not honest cause
once you feel he is not telling you the truth about every thing is becuse you know him real good
sometimes i feel dat way but you those have to gave space even they may be talking from how long they missed out
2007-03-07 06:22:57 · answer #5 · answered by froggy baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need worrying bout that! as you said his former best friend wasn't in town for a while... i suppose things have changd a lot since??
2007-03-07 06:19:59 · answer #6 · answered by T-spooon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say beleive him, my boyfriend and i are the same way. but you also need to remember that soemthings a guy does better talking to a guy friend
2007-03-07 06:17:47 · answer #7 · answered by Klara L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea id say u should belive him cuz i mean hes probly just spendn time w him cuz he haddent seen him n a while but yea i wouldnt worry bout it
2007-03-07 06:17:05 · answer #8 · answered by Shi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What difference does it make? It's not like he's cheating on you or lying to you - just let it go.
2007-03-07 06:21:31 · answer #9 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its up to you whether if it is that you trust him enough to believe or you don't.Its up to you.
Good luck
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2007-03-07 06:17:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋