Is she for real? I have to knowif I have something to worry about of if she is just kidding. She told me that since her C-section, her sex drive is low. What do you think?
2007-03-07 05:59:40 · 21 answers · asked by Ricky D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take her advice, why are u complaining ?
2007-03-07 06:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by ysnmoosa 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Unless you want a sexless love life you wight want to part company and look else where. The only other option is a mistress. Unless you are madly in love with her as a person it would be best for both of you to move on.
She should a doctor. Nerves could have been damaged during the c-section.
2007-03-07 14:07:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not kidding. She told you the truth and she says she is willing to allow you to go to someone else to satisfy yourself when she can't. I don't think that is such a good idea but I think it is highly possible taht her sex drive has dropped after having a baby C-section or not, so you need to decide if that is an option you can live with and if it is going to break up your relationship.
2007-03-07 14:08:04 · answer #3 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she feels like you won't find her attractive because of the scar and what not. Try doing something romantic for her, something to make her relax and what not. If you can cook, surprise her with a romantic dinner just for you two, then follow up with a nice massage..etc...and see where that leads you.
2007-03-07 14:07:30 · answer #4 · answered by Karrats 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HAHA! Thats funny. I dont think you should do it with someone else though. ITS A TEST. if she found out that you did do that with someone else, she'd be hurt. I dont know.. just wait. Maybe she'll want to sooner or later. If you love her, it wont be important.
2007-03-07 14:10:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In her heart she really dosen't mean it, actually if you did this it would break her heart, she's just depressed. She needs to see a doctor, they can put her on an antidepressiant that will bring her back to her old self or better.
2007-03-07 14:05:37 · answer #6 · answered by Cheryl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question - my man told me the same thing, but I wouldn't want to take the chance of screwing up a good thing. She told you not to tell her about it because it would hurt her if she found out about it.
2007-03-07 14:04:53 · answer #7 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am really surprised about it. My girlfriend suggested the same to me too, but I am sure they are just playing. They will not even be able to tolerate you with someone else.
They just want to have lesser sex than we guys do.
2007-03-07 14:03:30 · answer #8 · answered by AX 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should take her at her word. She isn't going to want a lot of sex. Can you live with that?
2007-03-07 14:10:17 · answer #9 · answered by Bud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to see a doctor. Or maybe you just need to take more time with her. Good Luck.
2007-03-07 14:03:36 · answer #10 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, let's see.
If you had your belly sliced open, stiched up, and you now have a kid, plus loosing your figure.
Do the math, would you feel sexy.
2007-03-07 14:17:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋