if i like this girl but she dosnet look like a girl does that make me a lesbian.
2007-03-07 05:59:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no ur probably bi
2007-03-07 06:04:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like her because she's a girl, even if she doesn't look like one? What is the extent of your "like" for this girl? Do you just like her as a friend? If the feelings run to sexual you could be lesbian, or you could be bisexual, or it could be a crush and you're hetero.
You never mentioned if you were attracted to guys, or to what extent your "like" goes, so it is hard to tell. Off the cuff I'd say you had some bi curiosity.
Be sure that your "like" is reciprocated. I've known totally hetero females who dress decidedly unfeminine, but like guys only, and in fact have gotten annoyed at being hit on by women. Don't just come out and say it, find out whether she's interested. Use TACT and be subtle. Hell, I've been hit on by guys in the past... most were tactful about it, but one or two had been a bit blatant. Since guys aren't my thing, I reject tactfully ("I'm flattered by the interest, but I have no interest in going that way.") No harm, no foul.
2007-03-07 07:13:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if she doesn't look like a girl, she is still a girl. Doesn't mean you are a lesbian though. You could be bi-sexual.
2007-03-07 06:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by overlord_1138 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Haha...Sorry i dont have an answer, but I think it's funny that I was about to put a TATU song down until I saw that.
2016-03-28 22:39:20 · answer #4 · answered by Wendy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ....a girl is a girl you know what i mean. but if you were to like women then im assuming your type would be more butch a butch is a woman who looks and act like a man
2007-03-07 06:12:35 · answer #5 · answered by lefteye w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats the point of being a lesbian if your going to date someone that looks like a dude i just dont get it.
i'm bisexual myself if i get with a girl she has to look like if i'm going to get with a dude he has to look like one too.
your probably not a lesbian about it do you picture yourself having sex with her if you dont think it's ew gross then you might be bi
2007-03-07 06:10:32 · answer #6 · answered by littlelady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but dont worry because I like girls to
2007-03-07 06:06:18 · answer #7 · answered by Kayla N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you still like men then it makes you bisexual. It doesn't matter WHAT the person looks like, if it's a female and you're attracted to her, then you're either gay or bisexual.
2007-03-07 06:04:51 · answer #8 · answered by bladeshaven 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea because a girl is a girl. but hey girl on girl is kool and nobody can tell you who u can like
2007-03-07 06:08:15 · answer #9 · answered by mcwhiteboy6775 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes... absolutely... so stay out of the girls locker room...
2007-03-07 06:08:02 · answer #10 · answered by Bud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well no its ok to be bisexual its fine nothing wrong with that!
2007-03-07 06:05:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋