Just curious because my wife and I are about to embark on this lifestyle and would like to do more of it out of our country. We travel to London once a year and was just curious about swinger clubs and the like.
2007-03-07 06:04:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
FYI- We love each other very much and we have set forth our boundaries. We both can separate sex and love so we are ready to try this before we get too old.....LOL
2007-03-07 06:12:01 · update #1
The Wise One = "The Weird One"
2007-03-07 06:22:26 · update #2
You are just asking for problems down the road.Marriage and sex is between two people.Ive seen many a marriage break up from this kind of life style.Its on you, but as for me i respect the bonds of marriage.
2007-03-09 01:33:34 · answer #1 · answered by annie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's rather amazing how a person can ask a question, and get 9 answers from people with absolutly no experience in the lifestyle. I will tell you I have never been to England, but we are in the lifestyle, and through that we do converse with people all over the world. I can guarantee you that there are many, many active couples over in England. Not as many as in the US, but then the population is nowhere near the size that it is over here.
Two pieces of advice: One, keep the lines of communication open, and if someone gets nervous, get out and regroup. Two, ignore the so called morallists and those that have never been in the lifestyle. Would you take driving lessons from someone that has never driven? Good luck!
2007-03-09 05:43:53 · answer #2 · answered by allencple246 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch yourself, I've heard of a lot of ugly things about the clubs.
I have learned first hand that it's not a lifestyle that will sustain a marriage after what I seen happen to sisters family.
If you have kids NEVER EVER tell them, and if they find out on there own remember it a choice, and your family will react badly to you choice.
2007-03-07 06:09:59 · answer #3 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean consensual cheating between partner's?-no idea, i don't do it, never have done it, never would do it. Common misconception's about 'swinging'---"we are both comfortable with each other about it as long as there are boundaries put in place--we are both comfortable with each others sexual urges regarding sex with other people--no-one get's hurt as we all know and respect each other in our 'swinging' circle of friends--there is nothing of a sexual nature missing in our marriage, nor is there anything wrong with our marriage--it's just a bit of added fun, a bit of extra spice". Absolute rubbish...it's nothing but consensual cheating, nothing more.
2007-03-07 22:08:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are swinger clubs everywhere!! Use a codom, and some seran wrap for the lady on lady action!!
2007-03-07 06:12:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TO each and their own.
I'm sure everywhere in most countries have "swingers clubs"
I just hope you two don't get yourselves into something..and then one of you decides to back out(jealousy...) as it will cause ALOT of problems in your marriage. Have you thought about that??
GOODLUCK*
2007-03-07 06:10:17 · answer #6 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure they do, just remember what you're both getting into and if either of you is the slightest bit jealous - don't do it! otherwise, have a great time here in England
2007-03-08 08:27:28 · answer #7 · answered by sue brew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to be the one to tell ya but your wife embarked on this lifestyle years ago matey.
2007-03-07 06:09:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋