Should I be bothered? Should I say something?

Question

I've been dating this guy officially for 2 months now. I've known him for six months however. When we met I had a bf at the time but the moment we started talking we clicked. I wasnt quite ready to leave my bf at the time so he started talking to another girl but still remained close to me. This other girl lives almost 3 hrs away from where we stay. He visits the town she lives in from time to time because he has family there. We see e/other every wkend and are always making plans. He hasnt seen this girl in like a month. I know they still talk on the phone and he'll reference her sometimes as "my friend" when we talk about somethings. I know he likes me. But should I be threatened by her? Things are getting pretty steamy between us but I refuse to go any further knowing that hes talking to someone on the side. What do you guys think?

Answer 1

I think you should ask him if he is still "talking" to her in a relationship kind of way, or if he is JUST FRIENDS. Maybe even hear it from her. Im friends with all of my x's, and I have NO problem whatsoever telling their girlfriends that we are JUST FRIENDS and they have nothing to worry about. Good luck