Is it a bad thing to have a love/hate relationship with my husband? Don't get me wrong we are both very much in love with one another, it is just sometimes we kinda hate one another (I probably shouldn't say Hate, but don't know how else to put it). Is this wrong?
2007-03-07 05:54:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would not use the word hate.
but yes, it's normal to have argument all the times, but it get annoying and it will wear you out in some point.
2007-03-07 06:04:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for almost 12 years, and I can tell you that having a love/hate relationship with your spouse is VERY normal. All these cutesy, lovey dovey couples that act like everything is 100% OK all the time are full of crap. You can be in love with someone, but they can still drive you nuts. Thats just marriage.
2007-03-07 14:24:12 · answer #2 · answered by scbettyboop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes -- sounds like a lot of selfishness, children that don't get their own way hate there parents. Adults tend to negotiate in each other's interest as required by their marriage contract (looking out for the other one first).
2007-03-07 14:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong, but you know things aren't always gonna be good. Just learn to settle your differences and forget the word hate and just get on common ground
2007-03-07 13:57:57 · answer #4 · answered by foreveraaliayh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I'm in the same kind of relationship myself. Usually when me and my husband get to that point it usually means a nice romantic vacation somewhere together or even a vacation apart.
2007-03-07 13:59:13 · answer #5 · answered by Karrats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate is a strong word for not always agreeing.We all have things that annoy us and annoy others.Be tolerate
and remember you love him.
2007-03-07 13:59:41 · answer #6 · answered by sharen d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's highly weird. I can't imagine hating my husband. I enjoy every moment we spend together.
2007-03-07 14:04:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its completely wrong...way too volatile for what most people would want to deal with but if it works for you guys...
2007-03-07 13:57:25 · answer #8 · answered by Li 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Natural, and expected, just tell truth always and talk about feeling everyday.
you'll get through it, I promise you.
2007-03-07 14:13:18 · answer #9 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋