Family & Relationships - 6 March 2007

me(21) and my babe(19) have been on break for about two weeks now. i went to hang out with him last night after work and another friend sent me a text message. he is a guy but nothing is going on, and i havent been with other guys while we took this break. we argue a lot and i did just turn 21 so he is worried about the bar situation and thats why we split for a while. we needed time. anyway we were hanging out and he freaked about the text message. i dunno why, but im getting at that he "hates that im literally single" not that he doesnt want me back but the single part is bothering him more. so after he freaked i just finished my beer and left back to my place. that was around midnight. he showed up at my apt around 3 am and wanted to talk. so i let him in and he just said that he wanted things to be over for good. i got a little sad and we started just talking about things and i was tellin him that i would be ok. still friends blah blah blah. he leaned over to hold me and we both

2007-03-06 05:29:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what can me and my ex talk about on the phone keep in mind im 15 and me and my boyfriend are like best friends and everytime i call him im not really sure wat to talk about and weve already talked about movies and everthing wat he like wat i like about school so wat can we talk about and he always asks me why i like him and i want to say hes cute hot nices guy ive ever met sweet how would i tell him all those things with out being to forward and keep in mind im 15 im not into that luvy dubby stuff but i am just no too much wat can i expect his reaction to be after i answer him

2007-03-06 05:28:17 · 8 answers · asked by xsierra91x 1 in Singles & Dating

my fiance and i have let his brother and his girlfriend come stay until they get settled they have moved from another province and he has found a job (i know great!!) anyways since they have been here they have made a mess out of my house. i work from 5 in the morning til 1 in the afternoon. when i go to bed the dishes from dinner are clean and i tidy the house before i go to bed. when i wake up it is a mess there are dirty ashtrays and empty bottles or glasses lying on the floor. they dont clean up after themselves and i am getting annoyed. i have asked over and over for them to tidy up after themselves but i have yet to see it done. i only have to deal with this for a month so do i freak out on them both or just let my house turn into a pigsty. i also have no privacy when i am working on my computer since the girlfriend tends to hover over my shoulder. i have resorted to hiding in my bedroom with the laptop! anybody have any suggestions about what i should do before i lose it?

2007-03-06 05:28:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-06 05:28:10 · 3 answers · asked by Broken 2 in Family

i like this girl in my college whom i proposed a few months back. she ignored sayin that she is not interested to get into any serious relationships as such..since then, i msg her often and hav tried to convince her many a times which unfortunately has not worked...v always end up with a argument..few days bac, there was a serious misunderstanding b/w her and me for which she rly scolded me very badly..after a week she gave me a call and spoke as if she didn't do it intentionally..since then i dont msg her very often..if i dont msg her for a long time she sends me a msg to chk weather i rply or not..yesterday i got a msg from her saying..LOVING WAT U GET IS COMPROMISE,GETTIN WAT U LOVE IS SUCCESS, LOVING EVEN AFTER KNOWING TAT U WONT GET IS PURE LOVE,PURE LOVE IS SOMTHING WHICH IS GR8 IN THIS WORLD..i rly didnt understand wat she exactly meant by sending this to me after such a long gap..i truly love her and i somehow want to make her mine..wat do u guys think..will this wrk

2007-03-06 05:28:03 · 2 answers · asked by bryan 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-06 05:27:57 · 1 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

Should I do it? It is me wanting it!

2007-03-06 05:27:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alright our original wedding date was set for September 29th of this year, I have started to plan things out a bit, but it seems like no matter which way we are going about things something pop's up causing complete and total Chaos. I purchased my dress from a designer and waited 2 months for it and upon receiving it today the dress is NOTHING as I was told it was going to be. My fiance' and I just originally wanted to take a 4 or 5 day vacation to Vegas to have some time to ourselves and just elope and then upon returning home we were going to have a reception. Part of me still wants to do it but another part of me wants the chance to have my dad walk me down the isle but everything is turning into a catastrophe while planning this traditional wedding. UGH I really need opinions on this. As of right now I just want to get married to the man I love and I don't care how we do it. Opinions on both a traditional wedding and also eloping please help

2007-03-06 05:27:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My boyfriend as you know is 21 i want to be w/ him more than anything but my mom dont i am so in love with him everytime im with him im smiling and no he isnt in it for the sex hes in it for me he even told me he wanted to wait for the sex which is good but my mom dont even want to understand him i cut myself last nite cuzz i couldnt take it much longer im bout to lead down the wrong path cuzz i love him so flippin much
love always
HELP

2007-03-06 05:27:12 · 6 answers · asked by Drew S 1 in Friends

it's been five years that i've actually seen her, I saw once in july. and we had such a good time. I know that she has been burned by some of our former classmates. That she wont even set foot in our hometown. I can actually say that she is probably the best friend i've ever had. I want to let her know that i'm sorry that I havent kept in touch with her over the years.

2007-03-06 05:26:59 · 2 answers · asked by laurii2 4 in Friends

I have never had a Bf before. I have never had the guts to tell any one i like them or told anyone of my friends. It just seems so weird for me because i have seen so many poeple get rejected and so many relationships not last.And if guy ever does ask me out how do i say yes with out feeling desprate? All of my freinds calsify me as the girl who will never date, and how would i tell my friends? How do i get a bf and how to get over this fobia of starting to date?

2007-03-06 05:26:57 · 10 answers · asked by Dancer24 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-06 05:26:55 · 21 answers · asked by Lou J 1 in Singles & Dating

What are the red flags to look for when you suspect someone is in an abusive relationship?

2007-03-06 05:25:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I was a foster child in 1984. My foster father and foster mother were married. However my foster father left my foster mother for her cheating ways. Well I wanted to go with him but she told me no and to never ask again. I FINIALLY found him last Monday. Well I am going out to see him this summer for two weeks.
I am currently going through a coustry battle atm. My X's parents have my daughter. As he can't have her atm either.
My delima is my visit with my foster father. I am planning to go see him for two weeks in the summer (different state). What if he offers for me to move in with him? I am currently staying with friends. I would really love to live with him again. However I don't want to leave my daughter behind and if I move I would have to. Unforuntly right now it doesnt look like either of us are gonna get her back anytime soon. What if he tries to offer me money? I don't think he needs to give me money now just because he couldnt before. His x-wife took everything of his

2007-03-06 05:24:11 · 6 answers · asked by mysticsoul 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

it was not the best friendship i had but i liked him so much- the relation is over but i do think about him most of the time & feel so sad & unable to do much - any ideas

2007-03-06 05:24:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-06 05:23:58 · 30 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

everytime i go to chruch there is this girl stareing at me she did say i was cute. and everytime when its time to shake everyone hands she stareing at me i was like 3 feet of her and i was stareing to and i go back to sit she stareing at me she looks back and stareing.

2007-03-06 05:23:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-06 05:23:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Say you had a close friend (opposite gender) you knew 10 years ago in high school, and had wanted to contact her to keep in touch, but you forgot to get her contact info before graduating, which you always regretted. But then recently you finally came across a possible phone number for her on the Internet.

Would it be considered appropriate to try to call her and catch up on how things are doing for her currently? (If OK, what could I say so she wouldn't think I was being I being strange or anything like that, since I am genuinely just interested in catching up and with good intentions?) I guess it might have been a little easier/informal if I had an e-mail address rather than a phone number, but unfortnuately the phone number is all the info I currently have. Or should I just leave things in the past and let it go?

2007-03-06 05:23:46 · 5 answers · asked by 011 1 in Friends

2007-03-06 05:23:32 · 3 answers · asked by Brian H 2 in Family

Well i had this girlfriend that wants to have sex afterschool and somtimes during school then at her house her parents work until 8:00 we get out at 2:00 i love sex but i wonder why is she always thinking about sex

2007-03-06 05:23:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-06 05:23:21 · 14 answers · asked by itvera 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Whats the difference between a man who really loves you & a man who wants you just because he thinks he can

2007-03-06 05:23:10 · 5 answers · asked by remi m 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm attending a filipino/jewish wedding in the summer and need to know what is the best way to wear the barong. Is it okay to wear light colored pants and light colored shoes since it's a morning wedding? Or should I wear black pants and black shoes. Thanks!

2007-03-06 05:23:06 · 5 answers · asked by barron 2 in Weddings

2007-03-06 05:22:44 · 21 answers · asked by Drew P 1 in Friends

is it still rape if he didnt go all the way but still forced himself on me and did other things and attempted to have sex?

2007-03-06 05:22:20 · 37 answers · asked by confused07 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-06 05:22:02 · 13 answers · asked by catherine 1 in Singles & Dating

i loved a girl very much. we were in the relationship for 3 years.parents rejected our marriage.She got married to another guy. Now its 8 months after her marriage.Every min i think of her like what she is doing and how she is? unknowingly i search for her whenever iam out.Recently she called me, keeping her marriage life in view i said her not to call through out my life. It was painfull but its my duty to tell her like that.
Plz suggest me iam missing her terribly.
I known keeping busy is one of the solution but still when driving, bathing, eating. sleeping and even when iam brusing my teeths iam thinking of her.

2007-03-06 05:22:01 · 34 answers · asked by Feel 1 in Friends

what do you do if you asked a sick question that you did't really mean, and people took it seriously?? i asked this question about what i should do if my dad was playing "games" with me. i need to know what to do??????

2007-03-06 05:21:35 · 20 answers · asked by u_no_u_want_me_boyzz 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been in a long term relationship for 5 years and love him . but i lust for another guy that he also knows.I know i shouldn't be doing it but i feel not loved sometimes.My friend pays attention to me all the time and i feel good.i dont wont to leave my boyfriend because i have to kids eith him

2007-03-06 05:21:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating