My boyfriend as you know is 21 i want to be w/ him more than anything but my mom dont i am so in love with him everytime im with him im smiling and no he isnt in it for the sex hes in it for me he even told me he wanted to wait for the sex which is good but my mom dont even want to understand him i cut myself last nite cuzz i couldnt take it much longer im bout to lead down the wrong path cuzz i love him so flippin much
love always
HELP
2007-03-06 05:27:12 · 6 answers · asked by Drew S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell your mother and your boyfriend that you want both of them to sit down and get to know each other.
2007-03-06 05:54:05 · answer #1 · answered by Heidi T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be frank, at his age can he handle mariage responsibity? Your mom may be thinking along these lines. He may have said he would wait for sex but that is esier said than done. You may get pregnant and reality may dawn on you. So be careful. You can love him, no problem with that but always think about the aftermath and plan for it. Tell your mon to give you a chance but be smart to take care of yourself if he become reckless with his love making. Do have fun. Cheers.
2007-03-06 06:15:20 · answer #2 · answered by lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i know that this situation must be so hard for you. sounds like you're a minor still so you don't have the choice of leaving your moms house and living with your man.
I support you and your love. But not your cutting. and i'm sure that by you hurting yourself you are hurting your bf that cares about you dearly. If you really want to be with him then be with him but don't put yourself in danger. Everyone's life is precious. Love is tough. but thats just how it is sometimes. when you turn 18 then decide ... please yourself .... or please your mom.
2007-03-06 05:42:46 · answer #3 · answered by destiney 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey you dont need to cut yourself! thats really bad...and i would hate for you to get seriously hurt or die from that, my one friend used to do that...
anyways maybe you should think about family counseling for you, your bf and your mom and anyone else who has issues with your relationship...
if you're not interested in that approach, think about talking to your mom in a rational way, explaining your feelings about everything going on and listening to hers without jumping down her throat.
Hopes that helps...and god love ya
2007-03-06 05:34:50 · answer #4 · answered by icingonthekake99 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
unlike the other answers mine is short and to the potin
2 potins actully
#1. you know whats good for you and if its not then u learn from your mistakes.
#2. you mom isnt the one dating him you are..right?
all by the way dont cut yourself....youll regret it later
2007-03-06 05:49:46 · answer #5 · answered by Martariesa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u don't have to listen to ur mother, u r old enough to make ur own decisions and don't ever cut urself again for something this silly
2007-03-06 05:45:27 · answer #6 · answered by kwlcmmm 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋