Family & Relationships - 5 March 2007

My father was in Jail for four years and then comes back into my life and wants to be a father figure. I feel as if I don't love my father because of all the things he's done so am I mean to say that? I live with my grandparents and he lives in our basement (he's my grandmother's son) and isn't working. So is this bad of me to say I have no feelings of love toward him?

2007-03-05 06:44:12 · 9 answers · asked by Brittany 2 in Family

I have 3 (ages 18, 14, and 13), he has 2 (ages 9 and 6). To show our love for them all as we join our two families together. I was thinking of heart necklaces for them all, or butterfly necklaces. Any ideas?

2007-03-05 06:44:09 · 6 answers · asked by godskid1970 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've never known a virgin man to who could last more than 30 seconds the first time... tell the truth (God is watching) - How much pleasure can you really have on your wedding night with a guy who has never been with a woman before?

2007-03-05 06:44:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-05 06:43:35 · 2 answers · asked by bellelatina1616 1 in Friends

I saw my ex boyfriend about this morning driving I hadn't seen him in about 4 years .I didn't even speek to him he saw me and I saw him and that was it ,I told me husband and wasn't to thrilled .I shouldn't have told him ,right ???

2007-03-05 06:43:31 · 15 answers · asked by What Happen 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my language is spanish. But i would like to learn englis (but my englis is very bad). my msn is cornus_02@yahoo.com.mx. boys and girls. thank you!

2007-03-05 06:42:35 · 15 answers · asked by feliz 1 in Friends

she loves me, i've realised i don't want to be in a relationship with her, i don't want to hurt her, but i need to get out of this before it gets out of hand. help! (i haven't gone anywhere with her sexually, we're not officially going out or anything like that, and i haven't know her very long, but she feels that she really loves me)

2007-03-05 06:41:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i;ve been liking this particular guy for over 4 months now even though we do not know one another... he's a talkative guy, but when im around.. he doesnt talk as much...but hes mean towards me few times, not directly but I sense it.. my question is, is there possibilities that guys become mean and cynical towards girl they like? sorry for my bad english...

2007-03-05 06:41:02 · 9 answers · asked by my name is * 1 in Singles & Dating

1st I will tell you that I am 42 and have been divorced for 2 years. I have been dating a man for almost 8 months and am not sure where I stand with him. He says he loves me and I believe that in his own way he does...The problem is that he doesnt see me very often. We only live about 30 minutes apart and yet he finds reasons not to come to my house nor does he ask me over. He is always putting others before me...I dont want to spend 24/7 with him and I am grown up enough to understand that things happen but I would like to matter...I spent 3 days in the hospital over Valentines day and he never visited and I didnt even get a gift for Valentines day. Am I wrong to worry and think maybe he doesnt really care or am I asking to much. I am not looking for someone just to sleep with (we havent done that) but I would like at least a little interest..Please tell me what to do....or do I already know the answer deep down...

2007-03-05 06:41:01 · 6 answers · asked by nascargirl216 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a male friend who seems to hit on me alot,though i dont feel the same(and he knows this)he told me he has a female associate that he talks to every now and then,he says he doesnt look at her in a romantic way nor has he ever.so im wondering why cant he look at me the same way he looks at her? i mean im a woman just like she is.

2007-03-05 06:40:55 · 3 answers · asked by aleah2515 1 in Friends

At the begining of the school year these two girls *Loren and *Maddie began hanging out in my clique at at school (by the way, when I say "clique" I just mean my group of friends. I don't want anyone to take this the wrong way). Well Loren and Maddie have been best friends since 4th grade but recently Maddie started hanging out with this other girl *Jamie (and I know this sounds bad but Jamie really is one of those people who just aren't that friendly). Jamie apparently doesn't like Loren and now Maddie is treating her really bad as well. Everyone is saying how horrible Maddie is now and they are all talking behind her back when just a few weeks ago we were all so close. I'm still friends with Maddie but it's hard because she honestly didn't have a reason for treating Loren the way she has been. This is a really different behavior of her. She's always been the sweet girl but lately she's been so quiet. I don't understand because she and Loren used to be so close. Should I do something?

2007-03-05 06:40:41 · 3 answers · asked by figglepie123 2 in Friends

what are the procedures. are there any websites that tell you how to do it step by step. im not talking about weddings and all that stuff. im talking about going to the courts to fill out the proper documents.

2007-03-05 06:40:19 · 1 answers · asked by healthy life 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm getting married in Oct. of 2008 and I wanted to have lilies in my bouquet, but not if they're out of season ($$). I wanted specifically white oriental lilies, and I wanted to be prepared when I went to the florist.

Also, if you love lilies and had them in your bouquet or just have a favorite type, let me know - suggestions welcome!

2007-03-05 06:39:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i like this girl in my college whom i proposed a few months back. she ignored sayin that she is not interested to get into any serious relationships as such..since then, i msg her often and hav tried to convince her many a times which unfortunately has not worked...v always end up with a argument..few days bac, there was a serious misunderstanding b/w her and me for which she rly scolded me very badly..after a week she gave me a call and spoke as if she didn't do it intentionally..since then i dont msg her very often..if i dont msg her for a long time she sends me a msg to chk weather i rply or not..yesterday i got a msg from her saying..LOVING WAT U GET IS COMPROMISE,GETTIN WAT U LOVE IS SUCCESS, LOVING EVEN AFTER KNOWING TAT U WONT GET IS PURE LOVE,PURE LOVE IS SOMTHING WHICH IS GR8 IN THIS WORLD..i rly didnt understand wat she exactly meant by sending this to me after such a long gap..i truly love her and i somehow want to make her mine..wat do u guys think..will this wrk?

2007-03-05 06:39:51 · 8 answers · asked by bryan 1 in Singles & Dating

it just doesnt seem to make any sense..
she looked happy..had the perfect house...kids...and husband...was a registered child nurse...husband came home and found the bodies and i dont even know what to say to think...to write...why do mothers kill themselves and take themselves as well...why not drop the kids off next door...only 3 years and 5 montyhs and then go home to kill herself...
so senseless..please someones tell me..
what would push someone over the edge that much?
my condolences to the family if youre reading this..
just want some answers..

2007-03-05 06:39:45 · 25 answers · asked by wished_id_knewthat_sooner 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am getting married in a church in my hometown. It is a small town and there aren't any nice halls to have the reception. I am having my reception in a nice place that will already be decorated but it is 40mins away. What do you think about it?

2007-03-05 06:39:19 · 11 answers · asked by Heart 1 in Weddings

About dating in general. Why do you always say you want an honest relaationship? When a guy is honest you won't even consider it. Now if the guy has a con going on like hr says stuff to make you think he got money, or was in the military or the CIA he travels a lot but never goes anywhere your all over him.

2007-03-05 06:39:06 · 14 answers · asked by Ivan S 6 in Singles & Dating

There is this popular boy. he is very sweet and we talk while we are not in class but when he is around others he "Plays it cool". what should i do? i have fallen for him hard and now he is being a total jerk around his friends!

2007-03-05 06:38:54 · 2 answers · asked by HOTTIE 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 06:38:31 · 48 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with this guy for a year and half already but his family is all moving back to J-Town and if he does go there I might not see him anymore, and if he stays he'll have to stay with me at my house but the thing is my feelings for him are kind of fading away. If he stays with me I'm ganna feel married and I'm ganna see him everyday 24/7. I mean I love him and all but I don't know, I have guy friends and they won't be able to call me anymore, I don't know helpp!

2007-03-05 06:38:31 · 4 answers · asked by Lilmamasita 2 in Singles & Dating

my husband just recently made the decision about letting one of our close friend and his girlfriend to come live with us for about4-5months(I hope). he didn't tell me that he already told them to come. he just mentioned to me. at that time, I even told him that we should not b/c there will be some problems coming along. I am sure you all know about how roommates are. it is just not me and my husband, we have 6 mos old daughter too. don't you think he should let me decide too?

2007-03-05 06:38:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-05 06:37:57 · 7 answers · asked by LOGANBIRD 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 06:37:43 · 7 answers · asked by bellelatina1616 1 in Singles & Dating

One day my boyfriend and I were fighting, he had our little boy in his hands when he got really angry and starting to punch the wall. I told him to please stop and let go of our son, he didnt. Then finally things kinda settled down and I just left for work. When I got home I was still kinda of upset (about the sistuation in morning) and didnt say much to him, later that night I tried to explain how I feel about how I dont like confertation and thats why I let things go, even if it hurts me but seeing him hold our son while in a violent mode I just couldnt let that go. He got angry and started yelling at me, I tried to walk away but he kept following me, then finally I yelled back and told him its over, lets go our own ways but then he just hugged me and acted if it was nothing was wrong. I just feel very confused about my feelings towards him now, a part of me wants to leave him and a part of me is scared to be w/out my sons dad. I dont know what to do?

2007-03-05 06:37:33 · 6 answers · asked by sweets25 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in love with this girl and I want to marry her eventually. But my problem is that i'm a vergin and have no experience even though I have boasted to her that I'm a great lover. My question is: Should I do it with different people to gain sufficient knowledge first so that I may not make fool of myself when I'm actually with her? Please don't be so harsh because this is a life or death issie for me. Thanks.

2007-03-05 06:37:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please don't tell me wierd stuff. i think i am in love with a girl. and i need to know this.

2007-03-05 06:37:05 · 30 answers · asked by voldemort232321 2 in Singles & Dating

so he's a friend who helped me out financially because i was struggling with a newborn baby. he's not the dad.. not possible we never had sex. he has let me borrow money until my child support kicked in.. well in some of the emails he would send.. he would refer to my baby as"his" he would write something like "so how is my son" . At first I didn't go along but Me and the baby Bio father were not getting along so, I knew it was just joking so I said "Our son is fine". Well my baby's Bio dad while at my home visiting the baby, got into my email and read my emails including the ones between me and my friend. Well, my friend has fallen in love with me and the baby so he really got into the I'm the baby daddy thing. My babies real father read these, and so now and I understand this,he wants a DNA when we go to Child support court, no problem.I know its 100% his, and he says he's gonna give the emails which he forwarded from my email to his mail to his lawyer. what can they do w/ them?

2007-03-05 06:36:58 · 16 answers · asked by Shalie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Now please describe it int he best three words, or couple of sentances. Those who wish to drone on for ages are welcome too!

2007-03-05 06:36:50 · 22 answers · asked by CHARISMA 5 in Singles & Dating

I think some people think passive aggressiveness it is ok because they aren't hitting you. I tend to disagree and would rather a person be up front instead of being fake.

2007-03-05 06:35:45 · 14 answers · asked by Ms. Chick 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Marriage is a very difficult thing to make work, but many people do. Some people meet, and a short time later they marry and they stay married until they die. Others know each other for many years before they marry, and yet it doesn't work. So I was wondering what do you think is the most important thing to have, or share to make a marriage work? Also is there anyone out there married for over 10 years that are in a wonderful marriage, what is the secret to their marriage?

2007-03-05 06:35:38 · 18 answers · asked by bookmaker 1 in Other - Family & Relationships