Family & Relationships - 5 March 2007

I have a really great boyfriend. He treats me with respect. I really do like him. But, I was thinking about letting him go. He is way too handsome to be with a fat & ugly girl like me. He can do much much better than me. I wanna let him go, so he can see that for himself. What should I do? I really like him, but I really do think he can do much better than me.

2007-03-05 07:07:42 · 5 answers · asked by an14341991 2 in Singles & Dating

what would you do if you were a teenager with an overcontrolling mom, and step dad. Sereously, i'm not talking about not letttin you use a cell phone and ect. I mean like not even letting me talk to my own family. Not my sisters, dad or brother. Plus i can rarely go out, and my own mom jacks my money. I'm really thinkin bout running away. Do you have any advise?

2007-03-05 07:07:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i'm a teacher in a computer institute. many female students propose me and give me gift, card, and many more.
What should i do?

2007-03-05 07:07:03 · 11 answers · asked by Shahma 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a son from a previous marriage and my husband (Bob) is one of 2 children (he is adopted). My in-laws have never really considered my son as a grandchild and a nephew even though my son considers my husband his Dad, and we have been married for 6 years now. Bob feels obligated to them for raising him and he does love them, but I can’t stand how they treat us both. We went on a family vacation once and they treated me like a slave. Needless to say, we are never going on vacation with them again. They have never acknowledged my son’s birthday, and even left him out of the family photo board at my father-in-law’s birthday celebration. The brother has twins now and they had many pictures on that board. They do not treat their children equally and my husband always gets the short end of the stick. My blood just boils every time I have to see them and really don’t even want to see them over Christmas. What would you do?

2007-03-05 07:06:21 · 12 answers · asked by pacshore 2 in Family

i like this guy..he's muslim and i am christian.my friend asked him if he would like to date someone who is not from his culture....and he said he'd date a girl if she converts to his culture for one night..(or something like that?). What does that mean? does it mean he wont date anyone who is not muslim?

2007-03-05 07:06:04 · 5 answers · asked by crazy08 2 in Singles & Dating

my fiance and i have been dating for almost 3 years now and were getting married in july. Weve been sexually active for awhile now but i have a MAJOR question. How do i know if i'm still a virgin? When we first had sex, i had just got off my period and started to bleed again afterwards from my 'cherry' popping, i guess. But it still hurts when we do make love. AM i still a virgin, has it not broken all the way( i have heard of it only breaking half way), or could it be something more serious i should look into? HELP!!

2007-03-05 07:05:56 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 07:05:19 · 8 answers · asked by MICHAEL G 2 in Singles & Dating

he says i need to make hime first than my mother and he says im his property and he can come get me any time and go home and there is nothing i can do tell me what you think

2007-03-05 07:05:05 · 21 answers · asked by wanda k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

non black woman. I mean assuming I am in the corporate world and not in the rap..what are my chances of marrying other race groups, i.e. white,hispanic, arab, asian ,red indian, indian etc.....?
I would like to get numerical infos if possible

2007-03-05 07:04:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I broke my bf's trust years ago. We reconciled, got back together and I thought things?
were good. Then he broke my trust. And he expects me just to get over it.
I can not. But I need to start working on this, how do I take the first step to putting the trust back in our relationship?

I have talked to him etc, but I think actions may speak louder than words.

2007-03-05 07:04:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

should i tell my boyfriend i am a virgin, because he is in jail right now and i don't know should i tell him or not and we have been together for about 5 months

2007-03-05 07:04:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband takes care of me and our two kids by himself, and I don't have any freedom. But the second I stated to work, my kids were sick all the time, my house was a mess, I was to tired to do anything for my husband, and to tired for myself. I want to work, but when I do, everything is a wreck. And I have guilt for not being there for my family. I there a way to talk to my husband about my freedom? Something to say to him to make him understand that just because im at home does not mean Im not working. I deserve things to right?

2007-03-05 07:03:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We'd go to a nice restaurant and then to a wine bar for live music. After that, who knows ...

2007-03-05 07:03:20 · 3 answers · asked by John S 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex and i broke up 2 years ago and I really want to get back together with him, but he has a girl friend! PLEASE HELP!!! Thx

2007-03-05 07:02:49 · 1 answers · asked by Spartans#4 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyrfiend and I were right at the two and a half year mark when he broke up with me. This was about 2 weeks ago. Every other night he calls me and tells me how much he loves me and regrets it. Then the next day he tells me he hates me and doesn't want to talk to me ever again. His behavior is rude and not how you would treat someone you love. I'm not sure if he is confused or just playing games with me? Any thoughts? Is me calling him just what he wants? Should I ignore him or give him a taste of his own medicine?

2007-03-05 07:02:06 · 15 answers · asked by danielle_renee119 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I are happy and content. Lately though s*x is only a couple days a week cuz we're both tired after work. I love having s*x with him though! And, since we are both stay at home people rather than go out people we usually just lay around and watch movies. This is fine with me I just wish there was a way to make it more fun or exciting. So, do you have any ideas for either the s*x part or that part ^ ?

2007-03-05 07:01:59 · 4 answers · asked by michakitty87 1 in Singles & Dating

is dateing where a man takes out a woman to a fancy restaurant, and a relationship where a man and woman do boyfriend stuff like kissing making out etc?

2007-03-05 07:01:50 · 3 answers · asked by US 1 in Singles & Dating

My marriage has just ended, man I have never hurt like this, not veven when I broke my leg in three places, what can I do?

2007-03-05 07:01:37 · 37 answers · asked by CHARISMA 5 in Marriage & Divorce

He did not tell me in the beginning and I found out by looking him up on the internet. He says that I am the one he wants to be with and give him time to get everything straight. I am mad because he has lied and now I am in love with a married man. I did not sign up for this relationship. My feelings are still strong for him. What to do?

2007-03-05 07:00:53 · 13 answers · asked by NikeDiva 2 in Singles & Dating

If not, why not? Does it really matter to you?

2007-03-05 07:00:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am engaged and we have been together for about a year now. Everything was great at first I really liked him and we spent every moment together. We now live together and a lot has changed. I do love him, but I dont think that he can stay faithful. I think this because I have found numerous emails and messages from him where he is flirting with tons of girls even ones he doesnt know and cant even see a picture of what they look like and sometimes the messages are sexual. I dont think hes has cheated on me but I believe its going to happen sooner or later. I have confronted him and he jumps on me because I dont trust him. He has also told me that he has never been faithful in any of his past relationships. he also disrespects me by commenting on almost every single female we see. I really feel that he has a problem with being monogomous. He tells me he loves me and he wants to get maried but how can I marry a man that I dont trust?

2007-03-05 07:00:16 · 8 answers · asked by Vanilla Cream 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just washed my hair, then blowdried it but i hate how it turned out. I blow dry my bangs going to the left but it turned out ugly. normally it's nice but i screwed up this time. i have a party to go to in 3 hours. do i just completely wet my hair and dry it again??

2007-03-05 07:00:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am finding it so strange, I want to move on however my heart isnt with me to accept that - and my mind wants to moe on now - its creazy
I dun know what to do... no idea at all...

After a break-up it’s been quite a while now, well --- almost a year,

And I can’t seem to be able to re-commit myself in any other relationship, I mean I've turned down a bunch of people, and I have been looking, it’s not like I have not!! But, I am constantly running away from it, I just can’t see myself in one again for some reason,

Yesterday, this guy I had a huge thing for sometime back, told me that he feels the same and also tried to make a move on me, and I just didn’t feel anything at all..... Is that strange?? What’s happening?
What do I do??

Please help, advice and opinions appreciated.

Thanks allot

2007-03-05 06:59:54 · 13 answers · asked by . 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Whats your screename?

2007-03-05 06:59:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm soo sad because I dont have any friends... Im kinda shy.. I would like some friends but I just dont know what to do.....

please serious anwers only.... thanks everyone in advance.... I appreciate it..... I just wanna know what to do I'm in my early 30's please help..... Im just really sad about this I dont know what to do..

thanks again.....

2007-03-05 06:59:45 · 8 answers · asked by gardenia33_99 3 in Friends

I had a terrible experience with gay person. I am a straight man.Before I entered a Dental School I used to work as a dental assistant in Manhattan,NY. After few days of work I found out that the detnist I used to work with is gay. Before that, I remembered , that couple times he came up to me from behind and hugged me very tight. I wanted to throw up. Later, I let him know that i have a girlfriend and we live together. Thus, he told me that he's been married for more than 20 years, he has three sons and he is going through divorce. Also, he's lived with his male-partner(boyfriend) for couple years. Aftewards, he brought his sister ( who is lesbian) to work at the office.
Before I told him that I have girlfriend I had no problems working with him, everything was great. After I told him about my girlfriend his attitude changed a lot (he became irritated very easily, sometimes he didn't want to talk....). In a month he told me that I have to leave the office due to lack of skills.

2007-03-05 06:59:34 · 4 answers · asked by Goldman I 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I just recently broke up with my girlfriend. but the problem is that i was off the single's market for so long that i don't remember how i should meet new people. Any suggestions?

2007-03-05 06:59:07 · 12 answers · asked by TJ B 1 in Singles & Dating

yor answers are apreciated

2007-03-05 06:58:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'ts been nearly a whole year and he isn't leaving me alone. He keeps sending weird messages like the day before this ball he asks me 2 slow dance with him when we are only friends! i don't understand guys ! why doesn't he get the message!? i have enough stress and i have tried telling him firmly but he doesn't listen!
On the night of the ball i was avoiding him and being a little mean but i guess i have to be ''cruel to be kind'' right?
He really needs 2 move on and take in mind that we were young and that i didn't mean to go out with him!
What can i do??

2007-03-05 06:56:42 · 29 answers · asked by Pureness =) 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 06:56:17 · 6 answers · asked by rdr962000 1 in Family