has anyone ever felt like they wanna cry because nothing is right?

Question

I'm soo sad because I dont have any friends... Im kinda shy.. I would like some friends but I just dont know what to do.....

please serious anwers only.... thanks everyone in advance.... I appreciate it..... I just wanna know what to do I'm in my early 30's please help..... Im just really sad about this I dont know what to do..

thanks again.....

Answer 1

Hi, I saw your topic and decided to check in on it. Be it if your 18 or 45, we all struggle with the issue of being lonely and sad sometimes. Its a part of life. Your still young and are still discovering yourself. I know it must feel like there is absolutely nobody around but I can promise you that you are not alone. Nobody is ever alone. Be it a belief you have in god/gods, or family memebers, or other people in your life. Some options may be to maybe get involved with a group of some sort. There are plenty of hobbies out there with groups of people who share similar interests. it will help you get out and meet some new people with common interests. If you are religious, maybe attend church services. People are always friendly there and almost every church organizations have groups of all kinds. Get out there tho and make an effort. IF your not willing to put that step forward, that it makes it harder to meet others. It just works that way. But if its any constalation-I can be your friend. I love to listien and talk. lol. As you can see. Anytime at all, leave me a message or you can feel free to email me anytime at [e-mail] Hope all works out for ya and seriously think about looking into some group activities. It may be awkward at first but you'll get used to it and you'll meet new people who with some efforts and time can become really good friends. Nothing happens overnight as I'm sure your most aware of. Good things come in time!

Answer 2

Everyone has friends issues no matter at what age. The honest true I always felt alone because my friends have their best friends and so when people ask me who's your best friend I never seem to have an answer but what I've learned being in high school is that you have to make an effort to make friends, I myself tend to be pretty shy around people, so what I normally do is very simple smile at people and then introduce myself and tell them a little about myself and then ask them about themselves. This work well if you go in a setting were you don't know anyone because no one knows who you are so you might not have the tendencies to feel to shy because its people you might never see again if you don't come back so don't feel bad about being a little goofy (humor is always a plus) . Also remember to just be yourslef. This doesn't always work with everyone because some people aren't friendly. Give it try because in the end all we can do is try. Good luck. Let me know if my methods work e-mail [e-mail]

Answer 3

Well, age doesn't matter. I am in my mid's 20's and I can tell you that do to my schedule from work and school I don't have any friends. Then I try to find friends online but most are very obsess with sex and other related topics. All I can tell you is that you're okay and you don't need to change. You can count on a friend in me. I guess I don't have that many friends because I am not wild, sexy and trouble maker kind of a kind but if you want to have friends just be friendly and be honest.

Answer 4

I've been through the exact same thing. I didn't have any friends for what felt like forever. I was in my schools ski club and I knew I would have no one to ski with unless I did something. It took me so much courage to ask this girl I knew from homeroom if I could ski with her and her friends. It takes a lot of courage to put yourself out there but once I became friends with those girls I had so much more confidence and made a bunch more friends. If all else fails, make friends with the new girl. Good luck but I know you can do it =]

Answer 5

for the love of all it truly is holy. you're gonna cry because no man or woman is on-line? boost up, flow out and run. Or play a activity of tennis with genuine human beings. the emo issue has jumped the shark. it truly is only ridiculous. There are human beings in this global without legs, or which have maximum cancers, and also you're crying because "there is not any man or woman on-line..." booo hoo hoooooooo.

Answer 6

Dont worry. Its normal to be shy. Im shy myself - im 28. I cant really say i have friends - i only have my b/f.
I could be your friend if you're a girl. If you're a guy then no. I wouldnt want any problems with my b/f.

**Sweet Cheeks and IceGirl, it sounds like we have things in common. Maybe we can make our own little group - that would be fun!**

Answer 7

You're in your 30s? Wow. I've never heard this one before. If you don't enjoy being alone, change that fact. Go out and meet someone, just be yourself. Once you do that you are bound to find the right crowd for you. Just go for it.

Answer 8

Sure. But, the only thing that you can do is to try to overcome your shyness. If it upsets you to be alone, then you are the only person who can solve this problem.