I have a really great boyfriend. He treats me with respect. I really do like him. But, I was thinking about letting him go. He is way too handsome to be with a fat & ugly girl like me. He can do much much better than me. I wanna let him go, so he can see that for himself. What should I do? I really like him, but I really do think he can do much better than me.
2007-03-05 07:07:42 · 5 answers · asked by an14341991 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't put yourself down. Obviously he's with you for a reason. If you like him don't push him away because you don't feel worthy...if he didn't want to be with you...he wouldn't be...so he does just be happy for that.
2007-03-05 07:13:02 · answer #1 · answered by NikkiWy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious that he does not care about ur look! He loves u for u! And hunnee let me tell ya, if u let him go, its gonna b hard to find a guy like him that loves u for u! U have no idea what ur saying! Ur obviously beautiful inside to him and that is what REAL love is all about.....seeing the true beauty inside someone. He probably likes u b/c ur not like other females! Some skinny beautiful girls can b hideous inside and this may b the reason y he's so attracted to u.....b/c ur real and ur not gonna run out and leave him for some other guy. If he knew u were thinking this, he would probably b crushed! Ur thinking that he deserves better when he's probably thinking that he deserves u! U never know, he might think ur too beautiful for him.
What makes u think ur not beautiful? Just because ur overweight? Majority of America is overweight! If ur not happy with the way u look, then do something about it. But don't let ur weight keep u from loving urself and allowing others to love u!
I think u should stay with him b/c from what u said about him, he sounds like a good guy. Your reason for breaking up with him is ridiculous and if u leave him, u will regret making that decision. Don't break his heart and urs! Don't let him go! I wish u the best!
2007-03-05 09:58:08 · answer #2 · answered by Classy PG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your insane, lol. Don't you dare let him go! I use to be the same way. I use to complain a lot about my weight (but I'm not big) I'd always over-exaggerate and that would piss him off because he didn't see what I saw. But, I learned to love myself, and you should too! Stop downing yourself, it isn't right. But I can't tell you what to do. All I can say is, if you do decide to let him go just because you're suffering from a very low self esteem, you're going to regret it afterwards.
2007-03-05 07:42:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, do you really think he'd be with you if he saw you the way you see yourself? The mirror you look into is NOT what your man sees. We women are SO hard on ourselves!!! If you think he deserves someone better, then you have to work on your self confidence! Love him? Work on it, because there is nothing worse than being around someone who is always down on herself (or himself). If you let him go over this, I can guarantee you will be kicking yourself for the rest of your life.
2007-03-05 07:16:29 · answer #4 · answered by kebbs32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have very low self esteem. Stop thinking like that, and dont show your insecurities to him. He is with you for a reason, just enjoy your time with him.
2007-03-05 07:11:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋