I had a terrible experience with gay person. I am a straight man.Before I entered a Dental School I used to work as a dental assistant in Manhattan,NY. After few days of work I found out that the detnist I used to work with is gay. Before that, I remembered , that couple times he came up to me from behind and hugged me very tight. I wanted to throw up. Later, I let him know that i have a girlfriend and we live together. Thus, he told me that he's been married for more than 20 years, he has three sons and he is going through divorce. Also, he's lived with his male-partner(boyfriend) for couple years. Aftewards, he brought his sister ( who is lesbian) to work at the office.
Before I told him that I have girlfriend I had no problems working with him, everything was great. After I told him about my girlfriend his attitude changed a lot (he became irritated very easily, sometimes he didn't want to talk....). In a month he told me that I have to leave the office due to lack of skills.
2007-03-05 06:59:34 · 4 answers · asked by Goldman I 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have nothing against gay people as long as that don't humilliate or hurt me or my family. I support gay mariage also.
2007-03-05 07:17:48 · update #1
I don't think so. It's not like he was a transsexual and made you think he was a woman. If you feel like you were discriminated against because he was making sexual advances towards you and you did not reciprocate and that's why he is now treated you less than professionally, then go to the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission in your area.
2007-03-05 07:08:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jamie B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry which you had a bad journey. It does not excuse your hatred and bigotry. Pardon me, yet one hug does not sound all that undesirable. Did it ever ensue to you that your loss of skills would have not something to do with the sexual orientation of the two you or the dentist? If it replace into immediately appropriate, then you've a sexual harassment lawsuit on your palms - pursue it in case you have the data. not immediately I doubt it. could bigoted human beings visit detention center for fomenting violence by making use of anti-LGBT hate speech? the respond is specific, and it particularly is being enforced. i does not say that your question is doing that, on account which you're in simple terms concerning a private journey, yet be careful. you're coming very on the threshold of this.
2016-12-18 06:14:03 · answer #2 · answered by woolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do I smell lawsuit?
Thats a real hat-trick. You haven't realized that you have a problem with gay people? It's a phobia that rears its ugly face when we get a gay person come on to us. I can see how he could change his attitude once you informed him of your sexual preference, but I also see how your attitude changed once you found out he was gay.
Maybe it will be better for both sides to just move forward.
2007-03-05 07:15:51 · answer #3 · answered by dadgonewild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report him for sexual harrassment.
2007-03-05 07:05:46 · answer #4 · answered by CLM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋