should i tell my boyfriend i am a virgin, because he is in jail right now and i don't know should i tell him or not and we have been together for about 5 months
2007-03-05 07:04:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Probably Not! You won't be a virgin long, and it will drive him to distraction. Together, together?
There are many men out there who will respect you and aren't criminals......
good luck & bless
2007-03-05 07:09:08 · answer #1 · answered by Wood Smoke ~ Free2Bme! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you're a teenager, then I'd say he might expect you to be a virgin, but if you're older, then....Well, I'll tell you from my experience, I am actually a 31 year old virgin. I haven't had many boyfriends, and I haven't been ready to sleep with any except the last one (unfortunately we broke up before that happened) but I am so glad I told him I was a virgin, and inexperienced sexually. I knew he was a great guy, and I still think he is, because he took things slow the moment he found out. We were working our way towards sleeping together, but we took things slow, and if I said no, or didn't want to do something he suggested, he respected it. He's the first guy I felt that comfortable with. So, the situation will dictate if it's right for you to tell your boyfriend. Just don't blurt it out in the middle of a casual conversation. I told my guy about it when we were kissing and making out, and he went too far on our 3rd date, and I said stop and told him about my inexperience, and it was great. I personally think that if you don't feel comfortable telling him, then the relationship is not the right one. But I'm not here giving advice on who you are dating, but my experience with telling a guy you're a virgin. Good luck whatever you decide to do.
2007-03-05 15:16:04 · answer #2 · answered by tinaroonie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really do not even want to go there!!!!! As you know out here in yahoo land, I will!! Take the advice of Okra Windfed himself, JAIL, 5 MONTHS, GET A CLUE!!!!!!!! I sure hope that your first would be a little and I mean a little above jail for 5 months. Sista, you got allot of learning to do, and obviously a very twisted way of thinking your "boyfriend" who is in jail is the one for you. I am embarrassed to say this but GIRL, WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU THINKING ANYWAYS?!??!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!??!?!
2007-03-05 15:12:38 · answer #3 · answered by selms01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he in jail? You probably don't really need a trouble-maker in your life. But if you love him, and want to tell him, then go ahead. If he loves you too, then he will understand. So go for it...
2007-03-05 15:08:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm what would be the reason? Has he asked?
I didnt tell my first I was a virgin - I kinda regret now.
2007-03-05 15:07:12 · answer #5 · answered by Mia l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*LoL* Tell him not so he can get off easier but so that everything in your relationship is trusting and open...How would you feel if he only dated 2 girls and wasn't a good kisser ?? It'd be nice if he told you huh so you could be aware of what you were kissing. It works both ways.
2007-03-05 15:08:02 · answer #6 · answered by the_wicked_itch_of_the_west 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Find another dude if he is jai l .. and definitely tell the guy - virgins are an extreme turn on for guys EXTREME!!!!
2007-03-05 15:06:48 · answer #7 · answered by hidehohum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he asks tell him you are, don't lie about it. To see how much he really cares about you and if he'll wait (if that's what you want to do), because I told my ex about it and he started to get really weird about it.
2007-03-05 15:07:36 · answer #8 · answered by Cardiophobia <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u shoould honesty is always the right thing in a relationship
2007-03-05 15:07:11 · answer #9 · answered by santa paula gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK YOU SHOULD THESE IS NOTHING TO REALTIONSHIP IF YOU DOTN HAVE HONESTY AND YOU KNOW WHEN YOUR LOVE GROWS FOR HIM AND YOU DO WANT TO DO THE deed I HAVE BEEN TOLD Y GUY FRIENDS THAT THEY CAN TELL SO I THINK IN ORDER TO SAVE EMBRASSMENT TELL HIM
2007-03-05 15:09:21 · answer #10 · answered by fierce 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋