One day my boyfriend and I were fighting, he had our little boy in his hands when he got really angry and starting to punch the wall. I told him to please stop and let go of our son, he didnt. Then finally things kinda settled down and I just left for work. When I got home I was still kinda of upset (about the sistuation in morning) and didnt say much to him, later that night I tried to explain how I feel about how I dont like confertation and thats why I let things go, even if it hurts me but seeing him hold our son while in a violent mode I just couldnt let that go. He got angry and started yelling at me, I tried to walk away but he kept following me, then finally I yelled back and told him its over, lets go our own ways but then he just hugged me and acted if it was nothing was wrong. I just feel very confused about my feelings towards him now, a part of me wants to leave him and a part of me is scared to be w/out my sons dad. I dont know what to do?
2007-03-05 06:37:33 · 6 answers · asked by sweets25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not going to tell u to leave him because i know howw hard it is to do that especially when u have a child together... i think the best thing to do is go and seek help.... find a consuler for his anger problems... my bf is teh same way he will get so angry and yell and scare the crap out of me especially since i hate fighting, but as soon as he thinks he is going to lose me he becomes a whole new person... try to get him to see a counseler and if he doesnt want to then your going to have to show him your not going to take his crap and leave him.... it will be very hard... but the counseling will really help him out.. it helped my relationship a lot!!!! please be very careful though, because you dont want him to get mad and hurt u or your child!!! good luck
2007-03-05 06:46:08 · answer #1 · answered by lovepixiek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump this clown. If he has violent tendencies now, you better watch out. His rage could get worse and you and your boys don't need to be a part of that.
2007-03-05 06:43:23 · answer #2 · answered by kjnoles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit with him and characteristic a communication about the way you experience. Be trustworthy about the very undeniable truth that he's no longer paying sufficient interest for your thoughts once you want it the most. with somewhat of luck he will understand and are available round. i don't think of that that is something you ought to cut up with him over (fantastically in case you adore and care about him). you ought to talk over with him first. If he would not replace his habit in route of you once you're feeling down than you ought to flow ahead and damage it off. My boyfriend is an same way. He only would not reply alright to thoughts... he would not truly look to understand the way. he's in no way very comforting yet i visit't say that he would not attempt. it truly is only no longer the way he's used to coping with issues and he's no longer truly used to worrying for an emotional lady (like me), so I understand the position he's coming from in a experience. you ought to only tell him the way you experience and enable him understand the way you wish him to act in route of you once you're down. with somewhat of luck he will understand.
2016-12-05 06:53:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of this relationship now.
2007-03-05 06:40:23 · answer #4 · answered by CL R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move to another trailer
2007-03-05 06:45:51 · answer #5 · answered by huckleberry58 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to therapy, but he is not up for it then LEAVE
2007-03-05 06:42:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋