I've never known a virgin man to who could last more than 30 seconds the first time... tell the truth (God is watching) - How much pleasure can you really have on your wedding night with a guy who has never been with a woman before?
2007-03-05 06:44:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I never claimed to good or Christian.... I just chuckle at these claims of "magical" experiences, when everyone else knows that experience beats enthusiasm every time (as if enthusiasm somehow goes away with experience)
2007-03-05 06:57:53 · update #1
Well.. The 40 year old virgin...lasted about a minute the first time then went again.
2007-03-05 06:55:51 · answer #1 · answered by ERICKSMAMA 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Both my husband and I were virgins on our wedding night (just saying that I'm sure will get me a low rating, but whatever!) The first time isn't enjoyable for either. He's worried he's hurting her, she's in pain and it's truly just awkward. But it's something you learn at TOGETHER. That's what makes it so rewarding. You dont have to worry about if she's had better, or if you're doing it right, or if he/she has STD's or how many partners they've had, etc, etc, etc. You get to figure all that out together. Sure, the first night isn't fantastic but seriously - on my wedding night I could have skipped it completely. You're just SO tired after a wedding. For a man who is a virgin and a woman who isn't - it might be over pretty quick. But once again, it's something you can learn at together. Eventually he'll learn how to hold back and make it more enjoyable for you as well. GOod luck :)
2007-03-05 07:05:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
A man and woman can have sex any old time.....I think it would be "pleasure" enough just to be able to know you have someone wonderful to have and to hold for a lifetime and not be worrying about 30 second this or 30 second that......also, a good lover knows many ways to give sexual pleasure to their partner, and it doesn't have to always involve intercourse.
The wedding night is special in that it is the very first night a man and woman have spiritualy become one flesh. There will be plenty of nights ahead to play "pornstar"......just my opinion.
2007-03-05 07:04:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a good christian woman but my husband was a virgin on our wedding night...can I answer? Well I'm going to anyway.
No he didn't last long, and no I didn't get much pleasure from it. But that first time wasn't about me, it was about HIM and secondly about US.
My husband is a quick learner, and by the end of that weekend, he was adept at bringing me pleasure. Likewise, I learned most of his "good" spots to bring him pleasure too. Now as we near our 7 yr. anniversary, well...lets just say...I've never been this satisfied in my life.
2007-03-05 06:58:16 · answer #4 · answered by Poppet 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, its about the rest of your life not just the wedding night. And second, my husband lasted more than thirty seconds the first time and every other time too.
2007-03-05 06:51:17 · answer #5 · answered by I love sushi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just hope he hasn't lied about being a Virgin....Not that men or women would ever do such a thing....Besides, what's a "GOOD" Christian girl doing thinking about things like that anyway...
2007-03-05 06:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by nalla 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What about the sacred holy matrimony (isn't that four play).
2007-03-05 06:56:34 · answer #7 · answered by beamer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,,, sounds like you got a problem.....maybe you should take charge that night.....show him what to do.....
good luck......
2007-03-05 06:49:50 · answer #8 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he has sex the first time it will be majical. I am sure it will be the best.
2007-03-05 06:49:15 · answer #9 · answered by LRCMT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may surprise you.
2007-03-05 06:49:47 · answer #10 · answered by CL R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋