I'm in love with this girl and I want to marry her eventually. But my problem is that i'm a vergin and have no experience even though I have boasted to her that I'm a great lover. My question is: Should I do it with different people to gain sufficient knowledge first so that I may not make fool of myself when I'm actually with her? Please don't be so harsh because this is a life or death issie for me. Thanks.
2007-03-05 06:37:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, it's not a life and death situation. If you look it at that way you're just gonna totally stress yourself out. Second, if you really truly love her then why the heck would you even think about screwing around with other people?? Do you really believe she's going to appreciate you doing that just because you're getting experience for when you're with her? C'mon, you gotta be smarter than that. Why did you feel the need to brag about your sex life with her? Did you think she wouldn't accept you for being a virgin? If she is going to have a major problem with it then maybe she's not the right girl for you. I know she will accept you for however you are if she really cares about you. It doesn't make a difference whether you are a virgin or not. Why don't you wait things out and share that special first moment with her?? Don't you think you'll have more fun and it'll be a better experience if all the knowledge you gain will be shared with your girl? Just think it over.
2007-03-05 07:07:13 · answer #1 · answered by devious805er 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are seriously going to marry her DO NOT have sex with anyone else. I'd just tell her that you're a virgin. These days, it might be nice to find a guy without a lot of mileage on him. Trust me you'll figure out how to be the "great lover" you told her you were. And it's nice to find these things out with someone you really love and who really loves you. By the way congratulations on having some morals. Good luck to you.
2007-03-05 14:44:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, if you love her, don't leave her. that is the dumbest thing you could do - run off and "gain experience" for her? come on!
be honest with her. she should respect you for waiting. if she really loves you it will mean more to her when it happens. it will be a beautiful moment between the two of you. and it shouldn't matter that you're not "experienced" because everyone is different anyway. learn about her body and how she feels, but don't go looking elsewhere. now THAT will be life and death!
2007-03-05 14:46:27 · answer #3 · answered by alice_aires 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her why would you want to be with other girls. Just do what you feel is right. If you want to sleep with others before her do so if not im sure she will help you to become the great lover you wish to be.
2007-03-05 14:41:29 · answer #4 · answered by ByouTfull 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST TELL HER THE TRUTH. iF SHE DOESN'T ACCEPT YOU BECAUSE YOUT A ViRGEN THEN SHE DOESN'T LOVE YOU. A REAL WOMEN WOULD OF THOUGHT THAT iTS GREAET YOUR A ViRGEN
2007-03-05 14:42:13 · answer #5 · answered by .. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋