my husband just recently made the decision about letting one of our close friend and his girlfriend to come live with us for about4-5months(I hope). he didn't tell me that he already told them to come. he just mentioned to me. at that time, I even told him that we should not b/c there will be some problems coming along. I am sure you all know about how roommates are. it is just not me and my husband, we have 6 mos old daughter too. don't you think he should let me decide too?
2007-03-05 06:38:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, yes yes he should have had your prior consent before letting these people live with you. If you didn't approve and agree, then they shouldn't have come to live there. What is wrong with him. I would nip this in the bud immediately. Either they go or take your child and leave. Nothing good can come of this. He didn't ask you first because he knew you would say no, then he did it anyway. I would be flaiming mad. Put your foot down. Tell his friends, "Sorry, but my husband never asked me first, and while he was only trying to be nice, the truth is we simply can't have you here with our young child. Nothing personal, but it isn't something we are in a position to do right now." After all, why can't they get their own place to live? This is abnormal, and somethings is wrong here if they are adults and cant find a roof over their head, other than yours. Trust me, there WILL BE PROBLEMS if you don't get them out and I mean asap.
2007-03-05 07:16:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each is't on I would not go for that to much is happen these days another man and woman living in your home 4 -5 months look for the some problems head and you all have a new baby this time to enjoy the new baby, Good luck talk to him 4 real .
2007-03-05 15:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by Queendee_nola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is not a desicion to be made alone. he should have talked with you about it. wether or not you'll have problems down the road is only half of it. do you really want someone else living with you? another guy? how comfortable will you be? are they aware of the fact that your husband didn't discuss it with you? if you don't want them there, speak up. loudly. this has to be mutually agreed upon or you are the one's who are going to have trouble.
2007-03-05 14:56:19 · answer #3 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, this is something you needed to decide together. It was selfish and passive agressive of him to do that. He knew you would have issues with it so he made the desicon without you because its what he wanted. Its easier to begger forgiveness than ask permission.
2007-03-05 14:48:04 · answer #4 · answered by I love sushi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY! You're hubby lost his senses for a moment - make a decision like that without consulting you??? Especially when bringing people into your home to LIVE?? UT UH, man.
Set him straight!
My husband would regret that one!
2007-03-05 14:47:34 · answer #5 · answered by okiedokey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes he should have talked with you about it and yes i heard about how female room mates tend to put the moves on other room mates in this case maybe your husband so you better be careful
2007-03-05 14:46:12 · answer #6 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh...
There should NEVER be another woman in your home.
Don't you watch Maury?
Seriously though...
Make a royal stink if he won't listen to reason. Flat out tell them that they are not welcome in your home. Be the B-tch if that's what it takes. You have a family now. "Friends" should not come first.
2007-03-05 14:45:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
ever seen you me and dupree? Yes there will be problems and if it was my husband I would tell him absolutly not.
2007-03-05 14:47:49 · answer #8 · answered by LRCMT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you both should still sit down and talk about it..you have to decide this together...And please push the issue with the baby.
2007-03-05 14:42:43 · answer #9 · answered by ERICKSMAMA 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he was wrong not to discus it with you first
2007-03-05 14:46:37 · answer #10 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋