I saw my ex boyfriend about this morning driving I hadn't seen him in about 4 years .I didn't even speek to him he saw me and I saw him and that was it ,I told me husband and wasn't to thrilled .I shouldn't have told him ,right ???
2007-03-05 06:43:31 · 15 answers · asked by What Happen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why did you tell your husband? I think the problem is that, when you told him, he thought, "It must have been important to her if she felt the need to tell me." So, was it important to you? Did your heart go pitter-patter in your chest when you saw him? If so, it's probably a good thing you told your husband, so that you will be less tempted to follow up or try to find the guy. If not, I don't understand what purpose you had in telling your husband.
2007-03-05 07:23:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didnt study all of it - its lengthy! though i did skim it an in reality bought the tale. about that e-mail it may of shown that it became from his handle so u can coach she became mendacity about that. She cant get you done for harrassment because the the police don't have any record of you troubling her contained in the exceeded so as that they wouldnt do a issue. Is your ex husband rather severe about seeing his son? Its so incorrect of her to react the way she does, she is so insecure an jealous of you. What occurs even as her baby comes alongside - will your ex extremely have time on your son? i have self belief you ought to deliver him an e-mail, you cant be doing with the completed belongings you stated an he needs to make a desision as to even if he actualyl needs to hitch the childs existence its both telling his gf right now that she cant stop him or he has no involvementyou have custody an you are able to also assume its nasty on your son besides the undeniable fact that even as hes older could he extremely desire a father like that in his existence?You cheated on you bullied you! He doesnt understand the suffering you went by yet even as hes older it'l hit him an im particular he will have some type of resentment in route of him. Or that you'll keep on an wait until eventually her toddler is born, have a mom to mom talk an ask her how could she imagine if her toddler couldnt infrequently see his/her father because the anybody entering into the perfect way xxxxx
2016-12-05 06:53:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it bad that you told your husband that you saw your ex in the great big outside world? Your husband needs to get over himself. We see a LOT of people duirng the course of our daily lives, your ex just happened to be one of the one's you saw on that particular day at that particular moment.
2007-03-05 06:48:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohh man... I saw my ex a few months ago at a store and I was only a few feet away from him and I knew I shouldn't tell my now ex boyfriend (but boyfriend at the time) but it ended up slipping out anyways and he got so mad at me and he was all like that's the only reason you went to the store was to see him and I was like OMG no it wasn't, I just happened to see him!!! Omg that night was such a nightmare, he wouldn't drop the damn subject and it was really starting to piss me off, he's such a d*ickhead.
♥ Christina
2007-03-05 07:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by Christina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, nothing happened expect you saw the ex, so sometimes, somethings are better left unsaid. By telling your husband this makes him think that just seeing your ex was important enough to you to mention it to him. To answer your question, right, you maybe didn't have to mention it to him.
2007-03-05 06:59:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I saw my ex boyfriend when my husband and I were out...it was bad...he tried to jump out the car and beat him up..Childish... But the reason I left him was he went to jail for beating me up. Adn everytime I drive by his house my stomach turns just wondering if he will be out side or notice me somewhere by myself.
But if I were to see him by myself and nothing happened I wouldn't let my husband , but if he said something to me I would tell my husband.
2007-03-05 06:59:44 · answer #6 · answered by ERICKSMAMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arent husbands also our friends? I think you should have the right to tell him, although he sounds like the jealous type. I'm assuming you havent been married very long? He'll get over it. Dont feel bad, you've done nothing wrong. His reaction was just immature.
2007-03-05 06:55:22 · answer #7 · answered by My_Two_Centz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you did the righ thing.. what you should do is sit down and tell him that you arnt there to hurt him, but that you want to never keep anything form him. you love him and thats why you married him and not the other guy. he should understand that all you want is a relationship that is all about trust whether it is good or bad.
2007-03-05 06:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by jennie k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's OK to tell your husband. Who cares if you saw your ex. If you do nothing with your ex there is nothing wrong with seeing him.
2007-03-05 06:51:14 · answer #9 · answered by CL R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cannot believe that your husband didn't divorce you! If my wife saw her ex in a car and didn't speak to him or anything that's divorce baby!
2007-03-05 08:38:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋