Family & Relationships - 5 March 2007

I can understand the draw for a woman towards bad boys with the whole rebelious, danger, intrige, & adventure especially when younger. It's fun doing what people said not to & the thrill of walking the line but at some point especially after several times being hurt whether physical, emotional, mental abuses, cheating, bailing, not being there when you needed a friend or acting like he cares.Especially after sex came into the picture but at some point especially as a woman grows up doesn't she just get tired of the pain & hurt? It just seems like at some point a woman would grow tired of the hurt & frustrations & I see it all the time. Hear all my female friends talk about how frustrated & tried of being hurt or used or neglected. Even the whole bad boy desire, yet time & again they fall for another one & even at times suggest they know this one wont be different yet as predict at some point get hurt. Don't women ever get tired of it , want a guy to prove himself?

2007-03-05 09:37:04 · 3 answers · asked by bpeter3196 5 in Singles & Dating

but she always ignores me on Aim. everytime i talk to her on aim she would say she has something to do. I really don't know if i should go for her or not. Please Help Me!!!!

2007-03-05 09:36:26 · 7 answers · asked by kingwill 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 09:36:25 · 11 answers · asked by chocolate 1 in Singles & Dating

okay, theres this guy who likes me or whateva..i think he is cute, i met this guy once at a party like 2yrs ago...and he has been tryin to get my number ever since from ppl i know, but anyways we finally saw each other again at a party recently and he gave me his number cause his phone was dead...so i have to call him, but how long should i wait b4 i call him so i don't look desprate!!

2007-03-05 09:36:23 · 2 answers · asked by juslovepink 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 09:36:23 · 11 answers · asked by speedokie 2 in Singles & Dating

When my wife had her affair almost 4 years ago now, I went to our church, where we were both members for help. I really didn't get any effective help.

What astonished me was that there were efforts to lobby regarding same sex marriage, but little if anything being done to help marriages in crisis.

I'm a conservative Christian, believe in the virgin born Christ as the son of God, sacrificed to atone for the sins of mankind, so I'm no fan of same sex marriage.

However, I am more concerned with the divorce rate in the church and the lack of effective help in the church.

When I asked the church for help, for mentors to work on my faults, no help was provided. When I asked for members to approach my now ex-wife, to see what it would take to encourage her to end the affair and to provide a safe environment for both of us to work on the very real issues of our marriage, they declined to get involved.

Shouldn't the church be focusing on the crisis in the church, regarding divorce first?

2007-03-05 09:36:04 · 18 answers · asked by camys_daddy 5 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, listen if i do give this guy my number...
does age matter just that ur not like with a 10 yr old when ur like 25 but like a 6 yr difference and would you call the gurl back ?
this guy is kinda shy but he is chillin' though like he is not as nervous cuz i can tell the way he looks at me but i love him n he knows so what do i do i mean like i wanna give him my number but its been a year and there has only been talkin starin ...ALOT but after a year ? im i rushing things i wanna give my number on march 30th soo plz help!!

2007-03-05 09:35:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been going out with this guy for about 7 months. We've been best friends since middle school. I found out he's been cheating on me with my best friend for about three weeks. They don't know I know yet. Should I dump him, Let it go, talk about it with him, or seek revenge?

2007-03-05 09:34:19 · 51 answers · asked by questions 123 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it simply shallowness on their part? Or are they just wary because if we don't talk so much they won't get to tell us we are wrong as often?

2007-03-05 09:34:02 · 12 answers · asked by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 in Singles & Dating

Froooot ....

yours?

2007-03-05 09:33:31 · 1 answers · asked by jkorchai 2 in Singles & Dating

look i like this guy at my school. and he is a bit shy and i relle like him. well if you know anything about shy guys what should i know abiut them liking girls.

2007-03-05 09:32:56 · 2 answers · asked by kelly s 2 in Singles & Dating

how soon should you apply for a marriage license
&
when should you get your physical exam done for this event??

2007-03-05 09:32:23 · 12 answers · asked by amanda2120 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This website: http://www.nomarriage.com/why_foreign_women_are_better.html

tells me that American women are at the bottom of the scrapheap for marrying due to them being:

-) the neediest wives in all the world
-) most likely to divorce you
-) least likely to spend time with kids
-) most likely to nag
-) most likely to take all you earn for years to come

He stated that foreign women, on average, treat men like a real gem, not demanding fancy houses or cars before marriage since they are poor, or screwing tons of guys before settling with you.

I'd like to hear from both ladies & men on this one. Is he right?

2007-03-05 09:31:40 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, so theres me and my best friend who lives down the street from me. we have grown up together and have been best freinds our whole lives. overtime ive just fallen in love with her and find it hard to be just friends. we've both had relationships and we are okay with it. the thing is she doesnt like me back in the way i like her. i find it hard to talk to her and go to her house when i know my feelings are only one way. what should i do, keep being friends, or just end the friendship, for my own sake.

2007-03-05 09:31:18 · 12 answers · asked by nate-da-saint 2 in Singles & Dating

I've got a really good friend that has always been a bit of a flirt. Usually it's cute, but lately she's been pouring it on (text messages, "I love you" myspace posts, flirty phone calls, etc). Then all communication, even the normal friend stuff, abruptly stops. What gives? We don't even live in the same time zone any more, so she couldn't have been expecting something, right?

2007-03-05 09:30:23 · 14 answers · asked by TooMuch 4 in Singles & Dating

I have been going out with this guy for about 7 months. We've been best friends since middle school. I found out he's been cheating on me with my best friend for about three weeks. They don't know I know yet. Should I dump him, Let it go, talk about it with him, or seek revenge?

2007-03-05 09:30:05 · 17 answers · asked by questions 123 2 in Singles & Dating

has anyone ever had a threesome with their spouse and another person? if so how did you feel afterwards? did you feel like you were being ignored? he wants to and i want to please him but am worried about the after effects...........please help.

2007-03-05 09:30:00 · 27 answers · asked by live, love, laugh often! 3 in Marriage & Divorce

im really bored and i dont know wut to ask a question about and i also wanna no how can i answer questions so that they get voted as the best????!?!?!?!?!??!!???!?!?!?!?!?!please give me ur advice!!!

2007-03-05 09:29:58 · 2 answers · asked by angel 2 in Friends

I am so upset right now, lately my friend has been acting like she does not want to be bothered. I haven't done anything to her, all I do is help her and she is turning her back on me. The other day I was hurting and I needed ear. I kept calling her and she wouldn't answer her cell. So I texted her...I am dating her brother, but she is my best friend. I told her me and him broke up. And she never called me when I said I needed someone to talk to. Me and him are back together now, today when I talked to him he told me she called him and said "I heard you guys broke up" I was bothered by that because she never called me to check up on me. And the many times I had to sit there and listen to her sad stories, and babysit her kids, and give her money and some of everything. She rubbed it in his face because she had been a little jealous of him because he just bought a car. So to see him sad or doing bad...it seems to pleases her a little. Do you think I should see her as just his sister?

2007-03-05 09:29:58 · 6 answers · asked by SexyBlackFasho 3 in Friends

okay so im 15 and guys usually from ages 16 through 23 would hit on me ...it happended alot before when i was 14 too. Why do older guys usually hit on me? im short and everyone that doesnt know me say i look 17 or 18 and my friends, family, tec. say i look my age.is it because they know my real age already,

2007-03-05 09:28:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, my best friend is getting married to my brother in law. They are having this gigantic wedding party and I'm a little confused about who does what.

The plan is for my husband and I to be the matron of honor and the married best man (I don't know what else to call it) (My husband is the grooms oldest brother). While the bride's sister and the groom's youngest brother are the maid of honor and the best man. However, by the time this wedding happens, the youngest brother will also be married.

So how do we decide who does what? Who takes the speech responsibilities, bachelor party/bridal shower stuff and who signs the freaking marriage license? Lord, I am so confused.

I would think that Kenny and I would be the primary for everything and then just asking for the inputs of the secondaries (this is starting to sound like a game plan for a football game) but I don't know.

Is there anyone who can help shed light on the subject? I had a small wedding,so this is WAY out of my league.

2007-03-05 09:28:08 · 11 answers · asked by jpiglet86 4 in Weddings

i am new and im a freshman in high school...i dont know if i should hurry and make a name for myself or just be quiet because i dont know if i can stay quiet long because i am a wild outgoing girl!

2007-03-05 09:28:07 · 5 answers · asked by rachel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

how soon should you apply for a marriage license
&
when should you get your physical exam done for this event??

2007-03-05 09:28:04 · 11 answers · asked by amanda2120 2 in Weddings

So I found out my bf was lying to me about seeing his ex. He took her out one day and I caught him lying. They went to a movie, and to eat. Then I checked his phone, and found text messages between them. They also were talking the whole time we were together! Well, now I don't know if I should work it out with him. He wants his phone company to send me records of all his phone bills from now on so I can see he changed. He also wants to give me all his e-mail passwords. On top of all this now he's telling me he wants get married! He said I'm the kind of woman that can make a guy change, and since I'm that great he knows I'm the one. What the heck do I do? Do you think a guy can change?

2007-03-05 09:27:54 · 16 answers · asked by movingirl 2 in Singles & Dating

Most women who have bunions are embarrassed about them and find them unattractive. Ironically there are some people who actually find bunions sexy! I'm one of them.

What do other people think? If you have bunions, has anyone ever told you they were attractive?

2007-03-05 09:27:11 · 17 answers · asked by xidog 1 in Singles & Dating

how do you talk to a guy more ?

2007-03-05 09:26:47 · 4 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex-girlfriend of 9 mths broke up with me 6 weeks ago. We haven't had any contact for 1 mth. I decided to not contact her to give her some space.

I was thinking I would contact her in the next few days to "test the waters".

She contacted me a few days ago. She said hi & that it had occurred to her she owed me some money and could she call me to discuss. I am not fussed about her giving me the money.

I said I was fine and asked how she was and told her she didn't need to give me money. She replied and said she was fine and that she had a dvd of mine & suggested she bring it round to me.

I didn't know what to do really so suggested we speak on the phone in the next couple of days.

Is she interested or is it just about letting me have the dvd back? I don't know what to make of it?

I want her back but don't want to be too pushy. What do I do?

I am thinking her coming over might not be the best thing but something neutral like coffee might help me sound her out?

2007-03-05 09:26:09 · 10 answers · asked by hantsguy1977 1 in Singles & Dating

i think this is totally unfair but here's the situation:
after work, me and a mate walk home together coz we live close by. thing is, she's in a different department to me. i always say i'll wait for her when the day's over and i wait. whenever i leave a bit later - just a few mins later, she never waits for me, she just makes an excuse, saying she needs to pick up her little sister from school but her sister's school really close to her home and she says the same thing over and over again when i confront her. i really don't like the way she's treating me, she's taking me for granted.
should i just forget about her?

any answers much appreciated. thanks x

2007-03-05 09:26:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have two kids with this man. Trust me ladies, he's one of those idiots who doesn't appreciate what he had and is running away cause the responsibility to his family is too much (grow up right?). Is it true they always come running back? Everyone tells me he will, even though i probably won't want him, he has messed with my heart bad, but is it true?

2007-03-05 09:26:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-05 09:25:50 · 21 answers · asked by Missy 4 in Marriage & Divorce