Family & Relationships - 5 March 2007

my friend that is a boy that i have been haveing problems with was flriting with me but he likes someone else what should i do to help my self from flriting back

2007-03-05 10:15:36 · 3 answers · asked by loegan 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi ! I'm a 23 yr old guy, my fiancee is soon to be 30. I find myself in a rather weird situation. We both love each other and want to get married eventually but I don't feel quite ready and also, maybe more important, we're quite broke financially, being both immigrants (uk) on low wages. I've finished Uni this year (homecountry) but hard to find job according to studies. Thing is she wants to enroll in a christian college on a ministry course and she says we can't live together if she gets admited, which would mean the only solution would be either a quick marriage or expensive - living in separate places(london-prices are HUUUge) which I dont even kno if we'll be able to afford. I haven't moved there yet, we've been in kinda of a long dist relat till now, plan to go there from my country this summer. SO what can I do ? I really hoped to save and get married in a wedding in Florida, were we first met(we were both working there short-term) ???

2007-03-05 10:15:11 · 25 answers · asked by jonp1978 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this friend, and i really like him,but he thinks of us just as friends......well his friends are talking crap about my friend. and their blaming it on the guy i like(because my friend was best freinds with the guy i like). i was going to tell him today!!!!! but i didn't have the guts to tell him. what should i do????

2007-03-05 10:15:10 · 7 answers · asked by frybreadchel 1 in Friends

so i was going out w/ this guy for like 2 months then i heard my frined liked him way be4 i did and then all my friends like hated me so i chose them over him and broke up w/ him. like 3 weeks later she got w/ him. i was really upset now i dont know why i broke up w/ him and my friend have never done this shes really nice and i want him back. and i can't talk to her she would start to bawl. help! please! I know I shouldn't of broke up w/ him. and i know he really liked me cause his frineds told me that was all he used to talk about and he stopped but he doesn't talk about her all the time. and he has never done this and i think he kinda likes me! but i panic and she is not ever like this but he still talks to me all the time. and i'm lost i mean i like him still but

2007-03-05 10:14:50 · 7 answers · asked by xx2dreamer2xx 2 in Singles & Dating

is there any one from merton on here ?

2007-03-05 10:14:08 · 6 answers · asked by pebbles26981 4 in Friends

recently I left my mother's house because we wern't getting along. I am with my dad now and everything is going fine. my mom and brother and sister are going no vacation to CA. should i go with them, because they asked me to, or stay with my dad? I am confused because if i go i will be giving in to my mom.

2007-03-05 10:11:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok, so I'm 16 years old, and my boyfriend is 19.

We recently had sex for the first time (for me anyway), the next day we did it again twice (after I suggested it). I love him, and was the one to suggest it, I suggest most if not all the sexual advances made in our relationship (he says that he doesn't want to make me feel pressured). I don't regret it, but we've only been going out for just under 5 months. My friends won't give me straight answers.

Do you think I'm too young to start having a sexual relationship?

2007-03-05 10:11:36 · 81 answers · asked by twisted_memories 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 10:11:21 · 5 answers · asked by michy 2 in Singles & Dating

What does it mean when a guy acts like a total idiot around you and he will look at you and turn his head when you look at him??

2007-03-05 10:11:13 · 5 answers · asked by sarah w 1 in Singles & Dating

I know this girl likes me. Were both in band and she is always making jokes about people that play the intrument I play. I know she's just playing, and it's usually kind of funny. Somtimes I will glance over at her and she is looking at me. She always quickly turns her head away. Well, the problem is, I like another girl that I'm not sure if she likes me back. What should I do?

2007-03-05 10:11:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok ladies, I have a question for you. Lets say that you were to break up with a guy that you really loved and had been together with for at least a year or so, and then say four months later or so you guys start talking and you see that he has made a lot of changes for himself and it turns out that he really wants the same things in a relationship that you do. If you're still single at the time, and you know that he has made a lot of changes to help himself and the relationship, would you regret it if you decided not to give him another chance and see where it takes you? Just so you know, we didn't have any problems with cheating or abuse or drugs or anything like, so it was nothing astronomical. So I just would really like to know if you would give a guy another chance if he has shown you that he has really made some changes that will benefit both himself and the relationship.

2007-03-05 10:09:45 · 3 answers · asked by frankfurter27 1 in Singles & Dating

your email address and asked him to email you and he took it and said he would but has a pretty busy schedule and you have been getting to know each other should i take it he doesnt like me or just wait it out

2007-03-05 10:09:25 · 15 answers · asked by poohbear27 2 in Singles & Dating

well my best friend and i have been arguing over nothing, then when i had told her how childish the both of us were, she spit in my face and called me a waste of a friend, now she is into drugs and i have tried so many times to get her to stop. but yet again she spits on me and calls me names. That really hurt my feelings. I want to still be her friend because i know that deep down inside she can change. I don't want her to die or to get hurt and i am running out of ideas to help her. What should i do to save my friend from killing herself?

2007-03-05 10:08:59 · 9 answers · asked by Kidd 2 in Friends

it all started when i told her i felt left out with her other friends so we got into a huge argument then we fixed it but then later on i mentioned some thing and know she says i start too much drama even though i only told her i felt left out no she wont reply to my messages i send her or any thing i apopligized like tons but she wont accept it and know every time i see her she either looks at me sad or she rolls her eyes please help

2007-03-05 10:08:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what is the difference between serious and too serious?

We broke up for a while because she was afraid she was falling for another blind love/fruitless relationship but we talked it out and I told her to trust me.

So she says OK. But it will be a while before she will be able commit to anything too serious.

We have made out, and according to other questions I have asked here, she is definitely in to me ( I really think so too).

So what does this mean?

2007-03-05 10:08:28 · 32 answers · asked by frosty t 1 in Singles & Dating

In short, im 18 & a sr in hs & want to leave hs w/2 months left & want to leave my mark before its over, & want to be remembered well. basically, ive gotten into my own bubble in a few classes & want to change it. im known as someone who likes to fool around & joke, but shy in class. in middle school, i talked a lot more in class, & in frosh yr, but by soph yr i got disgruntled w/ politics in sports & quit them & became more independent & to myself. i had a rebound end of jr yr where i became more highly regarded & self confident again, talking in many classes & all the friends back again & new ones, & after spending part of summer prepping for soccer, as i finally had a chance to make vars as most of the players graduated, i missed a tryout cause of wisdom teeth & didnt make it. it hurt me at first, not talking in many classes, creating a bubble, however it didnt hurt much cause i still had a rep as being that character. but then my friend ruined my chances w/ a (more below)

2007-03-05 10:08:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

xbox360 or lg chocolate?

2007-03-05 10:07:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok so theres this guy that has liked me for about a year and a half now and he is soo annoying he knows i dont like him and he has even asked me out i said no. i reall dont know how to say i dont like him and no i dont want to give him a chance bc he is a HUGE nerd. he always trys to flirt/talk to me and i feal like punching him in the face. please help how do i make him not like me????? he really annoying what should i do and i dont want to talk to him bc he like stalks me and like he knows where i live and stuff. please help and dont tell me to tell him how i feel bc i dont want to be mean.
PLEASE PLEASE HOW DO I GET RID OF HIM!?!?!

2007-03-05 10:07:58 · 11 answers · asked by ♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

Well I have finally decided to go the next step with the girl I like. However I don't know how to ask her for her number without sounding awkward. How should i do it?

2007-03-05 10:07:33 · 4 answers · asked by Jonathan G 2 in Singles & Dating

I've started going to a community college 2 months ago and met this guy. We immediatly hit it off. First off, yeah he's cute and all but I dont have a crush on him.He has a girlfriend of 2 years who's off campus. We've confided in eachother alot of personal stuff, mainly past things but some present. He and I walk to and from clases, study togehter, share food and drinks, and we call eachother almost everyday.I'm not the only girl he hangs with at school, however I'm the one he's with the most .On weekends he and i have been hanging out in a small group of friends, might i add, with his girlfriend too. I take it as we are just really good friends. However, he is on the rather affectionate side, like, if he didnt have a girlfriend, I'd think he liked me. He's not on the grounds of cheating and I dont want to be a girlfriend stealer. Their relationship seems so strong why does he need other girls as friends? Is he just very extroverted or something much worse? Oh, he's 21, I'm 19.

2007-03-05 10:07:33 · 3 answers · asked by candiecorn 1 in Friends

I RECENTLY LET MY SON GO LIVE WITH HIS DAD AND IT HASNT BEEN ORDERED BY THE COURT THAT HIS DAD HAS FULL CUSTODY OF HIM YET..BUT I DONT FEEL THAT HIS DAD IS RESPONISBLE ENOUGH TO CONTINUE TO GUIDE HIM IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION. HE HAS NEVER BEEN A PART OF MY SONS LIFE BUT I GAVE HIM THE CHANCE AND DONT FEEL THAT MY SON IS SAFE THERE WITH HIM. I NEVER HAD AN ATTORNEY BECAUSE AT FIRST WE ALL HAD AGREED THAT MY SON CAN GO LIVE WITH HIM SO I LET HIM HAVE CUSTODY. LIKE I SAID IT HASNT BEEN ORDERED YET BUT WHAT CAN I DO..MY SON DOESNT FEEL SAFE THERE AND DOESNT WANNA BE THERE ANYMORE BUT HIS DAD REFUSES TO LET HIM COME BACK. I KNOW I NEED TO DO SOMETHING BEFORE MY SON ENDS UP RUNNING AWAY.

2007-03-05 10:07:33 · 2 answers · asked by GORDIS 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

mine must be.. u must like playin football coz u sure have a tight end..

2007-03-05 10:07:26 · 26 answers · asked by Sad Monkey 3 in Singles & Dating

What should I do, i'm absolutly clueless, help me?!?

2007-03-05 10:06:04 · 18 answers · asked by Stephanie A 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to see if anyone has the same birthday as me.

2007-03-05 10:05:42 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and see her on the elevator at work in a crowd, will u avoid her bc u get uncomfortable?

2007-03-05 10:05:32 · 6 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

She does my taxes so she'll eventually find out and i want to tell her before i give her my W-2's saying how much i made. This is a serious question so no joke answers please.

2007-03-05 10:05:30 · 14 answers · asked by twiggysrevenge 5 in Family

why is it important for people in a relationship to share the same interests.....do u knoe??

2007-03-05 10:05:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so my band is having trouble just getting along i guess. one of the problums is that we have a site and people are getting mad about whats on it. also we want to cut our first cd soon but one of the band members has to leave over the summer and have the band thinks we really need it out before summer. And there is a lot of argueing between two people about like whos acting like a leader so is there any tips on this?

2007-03-05 10:05:11 · 8 answers · asked by tj 2 in Singles & Dating

i d k why she's still shy with me, i tried to talk to her but it's just too hard....... she didn't talk a lot, she's very pretty tho........

I d k if she's even like me, what should i do to make her more comfortable with me?

2007-03-05 10:04:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm having a Going Away Party at the end of july and i'm sending out invites...how long in advance should i send out the invites so that ppl will have enough time to make sure they are off of work

2007-03-05 10:04:36 · 1 answers · asked by adzlovesu84 2 in Other - Family & Relationships