recently I left my mother's house because we wern't getting along. I am with my dad now and everything is going fine. my mom and brother and sister are going no vacation to CA. should i go with them, because they asked me to, or stay with my dad? I am confused because if i go i will be giving in to my mom.
2007-03-05 10:11:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
go- if they asked you, they did it so you wouldn't feel left out, and that is nice. Do your best to get along its takes 2 to argue, and after all she is your mom, respect her. Focus on enjoying the trip and not the past.
2007-03-05 10:44:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with your Dad, he has been there for you, when you don't get along with the rest of the family. Being far away and no way to get back on your own, would be miserable for everybody. You can always see California at another time, I am sure it won't disappear. Time to grow up and be honest about your own feelings, you can't go thru life giving in to other people. Some mothers can be domineering and too controlling. Best wishes
2007-03-05 10:20:58 · answer #2 · answered by tylernmi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew of a teen (boy) who moved out of his moms to move in with his dad...his mom and him Did Not Get Along (he was 15) a few months later...the mom , her new husband, and daughter were all going on a vacation..Fun in the Sun*..they invited him to join them and said he could bring along his friend. He felt guilty for his dad, cuz he moved out of his moms to move in with his dad. His dad said Its' up you to you son, if you want to go away for a vacation and you get to bring your friend..it sounds like alot of fun* Just because you and your mom can't live together doesn't mean she's stopped loving you or wanting to spend time with you. He ended up going....and had a good time, was able to get along better with his mom, but remained at his dads. He still sees his mom once or twice a week, they only live about a 15min drive away from each other..and they talk on the phone every night for a bit about school etc.
I would suggest you do what You feel is right for you* I think if you decide Yes you feel like going away to CA* then talk to your mom about how y've been feeling, why you moved out...but that you want to keep the communication lines open with her, not close the door* as she is your mom and will always be Your Mom*
Goodluck and Enjoy CA*(if you decide to go :)~
2007-03-05 10:20:10 · answer #3 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP being a stubborn brat!!!
You sould be happy they asked, or you'd be asking us WHY they didn't!!
Your family will always be your family!! Grow up and love both parents, be a decent human being, and get on with life.
GO ON VACATION!!!
2007-03-05 10:21:15 · answer #4 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go. You still need to spend time with your siblings. Being stubborn will only hurt you in the end.
2007-03-05 10:17:12 · answer #5 · answered by zora 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your gut. If you weren't getting along....will you get along on vacation?
2007-03-05 10:14:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with them, it will allow you to have a different mind set and clear things up since your in a different environment
2007-03-05 10:14:57 · answer #7 · answered by Beth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should join them, they miss you and you dad will be very happy.
2007-03-08 23:44:03 · answer #8 · answered by mathandashukela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go if you think you will fight,let them go.
2007-03-05 10:16:54 · answer #9 · answered by peg42857 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, she is ur mom. u shud always at least try to get along wit her. do wat u think is rite
2007-03-05 10:16:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋