My husband is a wonderful man, but his sex drive is really high. I would be able to keep up with him, if I didn't need time to recover as I usually get hurt while making love. I understand porn and it doesn't bother me. But his frequency worries me. We make love every other day or so or as allowed by my pain tolerance. But not even 6 hours later hes looking at porn. When I am at work, running errands, even asleep. I don't know what to do. I try to talk to him about it, he says he needs porn just as much as he needs me, equally. It's just the frequency, like I am not good enough for him. I tell him it hurts me, my self esteem is low enough as it is. And I don't stand for that "I'm thinking of you" BULL. That's not how the mind works, and if its true thats only one step away from being with me and able to think of other women. Am I in the wrong for thinking this way? I'm just tired of being turned down for porn. We don't even go to bed together because he stays up to look at it. Help.
2007-03-05
10:38:56
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