ok well i've been goin out wit my boyfriend for about a week or 2 and well he does'nt hug me and i asked my friend to tell him to comeout of the gym and give me a kiss my frined said that my boyfriend just ignored him and well he does'nt talk to me becuz he sayz he doesnt have anything to talk about and no hez not a shy boy.i dont know wut to do becuz sumthimes when he sees me he totally ignores me and well he sayz he loves me but he does'nt show it! plz help i fell like breaking up wit thim but i love him so much!!!! wut qould u do if u were me??? plz help!
thankks!
2007-03-05 10:40:13 · 10 answers · asked by brenda r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What are you 12? Give me a break!!! This isn't a relationship, this is grade school stuff.
If you've been going out with him for a 2 wks he's not your boyfriend, he was a date. He doesn't want to talk to you because you're making a fool out of yourself sending your friend into the gym to ask your boyfriend to come out and give you a kiss! Give me a break!!! You're lucky he didn't run screaming in the opposite direction.
If he liked you and wanted to be with you, he'd be with you all the time and he'd find something to talk about. You might love him, but he could care less about you. What you have is a crush. If he ignores you when you see him its because he doesn't want anything to do with you.
You don't have to worry about "breaking up" with him because there is nothing there to break up with - no relationship.
What would I do if I were you - put a bag over my head and hide in a dark corner for being so stupid. Forget about the guy and move on - he's already forgotten about you.
Grow up first, learn what a relationship is really all about, and don't try again until you do know what a relationship is about and how to deal with it. Otherwise, you'll only have your heart broken over and over again and make yourself look like a stupid idiot while you're doing it.
2007-03-05 10:57:54 · answer #1 · answered by T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is hoping you will rape him more than likely and since you arent begging him to have sex with you, he isnt intrested.Once he has had sex with you and his hormones settle down , he will start and continue treating you like he does now.There is another possibility.He may not be shy, but he may be gay.Find another guy who respects you and treats you the way you want to be treateed.The only people we can change is ourselves, and sometimes we have a hard time doing that.
2007-03-05 18:46:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay you're saying you love him after being together a week or 2?? If he's treating you like that then break up with him, sounds like he doesn't like you as much as he said he does.
2007-03-05 18:45:52 · answer #3 · answered by franceluver18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in a position like that, and if i were you, i would dump him now, cuz it seems like he might be emmbaressed of you, maybe, im not sure tho, but something is up with him about you, and it isent right or lik enormal for a relationship, so if u can not figure out what it is, then i would dump him now, and save urself some hurt...sry!good luck!
2007-03-05 18:47:37 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well brenda, I think you should talk to kim seriously, from person to person, tell him that if he wants to be your bofriend he'll have to do more than just say he loves you, because a relationship is for two people.
If he doesn't care, I suggest you get rid of him, and look for somebody that really wants to be with you, and for that, you cannot just look for appearances.
make yourself valuable! that's the first step to find great persons! good luck
2007-03-05 18:48:03 · answer #5 · answered by mr. luis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i wuold of broke up wit him b/c he says he loves me but he doesnte show me any affection or u mit wanna try talkin to him bout it.or mayb hes not confortable bout kissin in public or kissing period.nd if he really loves ur then he would b doin alot more.or hes just lieing to ubout he his shy nd that he loves u.so just talk to him.or just wait a while nd c wut happens if nutitn changes then u should let him go
2007-03-05 18:46:01 · answer #6 · answered by ashley w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not expect him to come out of the gym just to give me a kiss. What?
2007-03-05 18:46:29 · answer #7 · answered by beebee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he out with another girl, just try to find what he is interested in and make certian dates to talk and stuff, movies, dinner, even walks in the park
2007-03-05 18:44:24 · answer #8 · answered by raven smithers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-05 18:44:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him. Just tell him you're feelings.
2007-03-05 18:44:30 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋