well my best friend and i have been arguing over nothing, then when i had told her how childish the both of us were, she spit in my face and called me a waste of a friend, now she is into drugs and i have tried so many times to get her to stop. but yet again she spits on me and calls me names. That really hurt my feelings. I want to still be her friend because i know that deep down inside she can change. I don't want her to die or to get hurt and i am running out of ideas to help her. What should i do to save my friend from killing herself?
2007-03-05 10:08:59 · 9 answers · asked by Kidd 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
whoa! big prob! my god! ok she IS your friend, and when she hurts your feelings just know she doesnt mean it, its the drugs, so what you have GOT to do to help her is the extreme solution, talk to her parent and try to get her into reheb, do it before its to late, i know it will be tough but she needs to be saved from herself.
2007-03-05 10:13:55 · answer #1 · answered by PuNk RoCkEr GuRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something that you shouldn't handle on your own. No one should be faced with that kind of pressure. Get some help that maybe you could go together. Or try talking to some other friends and see if they can get through to her. I hope everything works out. Good Luck!
2007-03-05 10:17:12 · answer #2 · answered by Mandy-Lu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her parents about getting her counseling or help for her drug problem. Its better to lose a relationship with a friend then a friends life.
2007-03-05 10:15:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can only get the help she needs herself. Talking to her is not going to work. You tryed shes on her own,keep away she could get violent
2007-03-05 10:15:41 · answer #4 · answered by peg42857 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've done your best. Let it go. There is nothing you can do now. It is all up to her. She has to want help at this point. Just be there in case she ever ask for help, but until she ask... you are waisting your time.
2007-03-05 10:21:32 · answer #5 · answered by beebee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should try talking to her. just try being her friend, im sure she will come around. i have the same problem with my best friend and she gets in weird moods, she eventually starts talking to me again and then we find some way to laugh about it later. im sure she will change if you start talking to her. talk to her, and tell her how you feel.
Good luck.
2007-03-05 10:15:49 · answer #6 · answered by aminallover29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell a trustworthy adult your situation. they'll help u and ur friend get through this. it'll be ok. you've done ur best!
2007-03-05 10:14:15 · answer #7 · answered by need answers & can give them,too 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to not talk to her and talk to some other friends and then maybe she will talk to you again .
2007-03-05 10:17:34 · answer #8 · answered by Raven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
counseling
2007-03-05 10:13:04 · answer #9 · answered by Tree™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋