I've started going to a community college 2 months ago and met this guy. We immediatly hit it off. First off, yeah he's cute and all but I dont have a crush on him.He has a girlfriend of 2 years who's off campus. We've confided in eachother alot of personal stuff, mainly past things but some present. He and I walk to and from clases, study togehter, share food and drinks, and we call eachother almost everyday.I'm not the only girl he hangs with at school, however I'm the one he's with the most .On weekends he and i have been hanging out in a small group of friends, might i add, with his girlfriend too. I take it as we are just really good friends. However, he is on the rather affectionate side, like, if he didnt have a girlfriend, I'd think he liked me. He's not on the grounds of cheating and I dont want to be a girlfriend stealer. Their relationship seems so strong why does he need other girls as friends? Is he just very extroverted or something much worse? Oh, he's 21, I'm 19.
2007-03-05 10:07:33 · 3 answers · asked by candiecorn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well... i wouldn't take any chances. Boys are boys no matter if they are taken or single. You guys can hang out and everything but always be careful. I have several guys friends who are great but they know we are just good friends and that I owe respect from them. Make sure he knows how you fell since you are taking about personal stuff... but don't just blurt it out or anything. Just stay on the safe side... but good friends are hard to find so just make sure about everything!
Good Luck (:
2007-03-05 10:21:11 · answer #1 · answered by faista 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are some people in this world that are just super-social. They often have more friends than they can keep track of.
I have a problem reading into things. The only attention I ever get is from such individuals, the really social types, and it's easy to start believing that there is something there, but I take a good look at how many friends they have, and realize that it isn't likely that I have a place in their thoughts very often, since there is so many other people in their life.
I don't know... That's just my impression from reading that.
2007-03-05 18:21:11 · answer #2 · answered by perfectlybaked 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of guys have female friends for various reasons. He might be sizing you up and making plans to move on you should he break it off with his girl friend. It's fun to have female friends if your a male, it gives a man a different perspective on life.
2007-03-05 18:23:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋