I am so upset right now, lately my friend has been acting like she does not want to be bothered. I haven't done anything to her, all I do is help her and she is turning her back on me. The other day I was hurting and I needed ear. I kept calling her and she wouldn't answer her cell. So I texted her...I am dating her brother, but she is my best friend. I told her me and him broke up. And she never called me when I said I needed someone to talk to. Me and him are back together now, today when I talked to him he told me she called him and said "I heard you guys broke up" I was bothered by that because she never called me to check up on me. And the many times I had to sit there and listen to her sad stories, and babysit her kids, and give her money and some of everything. She rubbed it in his face because she had been a little jealous of him because he just bought a car. So to see him sad or doing bad...it seems to pleases her a little. Do you think I should see her as just his sister?
2007-03-05 09:29:58 · 6 answers · asked by SexyBlackFasho 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Its hard...she might not want to hear about her brother. On the other hand if she was a true friend I would think she would of at least called you to see how you were doing. I would tell her that it bothered you that she didn't bother to return your call and let it go. Just think of her as your BF sister...
2007-03-05 10:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just because she treats you bad, doesn't mean you have to treat her bad. It takes two to fight and one person to make things go the right way. Show her that you really care about her, keep calling her, buy her little gifts to show her you are thinking of her. If she keeps ignoring you, then try not to speak to her for a few days, weeks, whatever. She just needs time to get used to things she never thought would come true. Maybe it's also hard for her to show her feelings toward the person she cares most about, YOU. Just give her some time and hopefully everything will turn out for the best. Good luck!
2007-03-05 17:36:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A true friend is not what you are describing. It seems like she has a small problem with her brother having you as a girlfriend. I think you should speak with her about. And if you still want her as a friend then keep doing what you are doing. Sooner or later, you'll break her into telling you what the deal is or being the friend you once knew. But it may be safer to keep her as a sister.
2007-03-05 18:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Cynical 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A true friend is unconditional, yet she is cought in the middle of her brother and her friend, maybe you need to pick a side and decide if you want her as a friend or as a sister in law, because family always has problems and I would pick my brother, his pain would be mine, you gotta think about both sides and then decide if in other situations she has been there for you if not, to hell with her.
2007-03-05 17:40:09 · answer #4 · answered by kika 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i mean i wuldnt say that she is a"true frend" bcuz a true frend is always there 4 u and stuff like that. if she isnt gonna talk to u on the phone then y dont u find an excuse to go to her house or suprise her with a suprise visit and talk to her then. or if for some reason u just cant talk to her then yes u shuld just see her as his sister.
2007-03-05 17:39:20 · answer #5 · answered by angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she sounds selfish and doesn't seem like much of a good friend so i say yeah you should see her as just his sister
2007-03-05 18:00:15 · answer #6 · answered by danity0414 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋