I have been going out with this guy for about 7 months. We've been best friends since middle school. I found out he's been cheating on me with my best friend for about three weeks. They don't know I know yet. Should I dump him, Let it go, talk about it with him, or seek revenge?
2007-03-05 09:30:05 · 17 answers · asked by questions 123 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he cheated on you with your BF, he doesn't deserve an explanation or a conversation. And, as for revenge, that just leads to more problems and drama. Girl, the wise thing is to dump him and move on. Your broken-heart will mend and you will find a better boy in the future. Don't waste your time or energy on this. The answer is simple!
2007-03-05 09:34:43 · answer #1 · answered by TwinkaTee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you dump him before he dumps you, in a way its like revenge but it isnt as well and it will save you feeling rejected. I dont think you need an explanation its obvious he has betrayed you and doesnt mind lying and screwing around behind your back. On the other hand, are you 100% positive that he is cheating or is it merely just friendship. You have to be very certain or else you are ending the relationship on false grounds and talking with him may not get the right answer you are looking for, he may just lie to you anyway. It depends really on how honest he is and by the looks of things he doesnt seem like an honest person who would tell you the truth. I certainly dont think you should let it go. If you have secure evidence dump him. If you put up with it, you may be unhappy and never trust him and there goes your quality of life. Oh and one more thing to think about, if the tables were turned and you were seeing his best friend behind his back do you think he would stay or dump you? Chances are he would call you a s**t..
2007-03-05 09:45:39 · answer #2 · answered by n_az 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let him know you know by dumping him and your best friend. No revenge needed. You don't need a b/f who cheats or a best friend who will cheat with your b/f. Time to clean house and start anew. If you let it go, it will just continue and bother you more. Talking will just allow for him to make excuses and once you buy into them, it will just keep happening. Run!
2007-03-05 09:35:55 · answer #3 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do all of the above. Talk to him, dump him, and let it go. The revenge thing could backfire on you, and besides, it would make them laugh at you. Just dump the looser and let your friend no what a traitor she is too. Then go get a better looking, nicer guy.
2007-03-05 09:36:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs don't make a right. So don't seek revenge just let him and "it" go. A person like that is never going to change. Have some respect for yourself.
2007-03-05 09:37:57 · answer #5 · answered by atinav1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I SAY REVENGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'LL KILL THEM BOTH SLOWLY BY SLOWLY!! HA HA HA!!! What I mean is I rather seek revenge. If i were to find out that my best friend is messing with him too..... THAT F#CKED UP!! What I'd do is I would go for his best friend and "PLAY" with him!!! AN EYE FOR AN EYE!!!! But that's me. But i should really think you should just confront them and tell them how you feel and dump both of them. Find a new guy and a new friend!! FORGET THEM BOTH!!! If she's your true best friend she would never do that and likewise to him. They should've at least tell you first!!! F#CKERS!!!
2007-03-05 09:39:22 · answer #6 · answered by lAVi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of both of them!!! She not a real friend and hes not a real man! Dont seek revenge, you would just be putting yourself on their level!!! Be better than that!!! Move on!!!
2007-03-05 09:33:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek revenge don't let go
2007-03-05 09:35:38 · answer #8 · answered by Missy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let his A** go and as far as your so call friend you should let her know that you know about what she and he did and then let her a**go as well. you need to get some real friends and don't let this get you down. just keep on moving on. I know it will be hard for you but you can do it your not alone.
2007-03-05 09:40:32 · answer #9 · answered by nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump his sorry a s s and get revenge
2007-03-05 09:34:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋