Family & Relationships - 3 March 2007

My bf of 4 years and i broke up. We had a fight and he told me to leave, in a very rude and hurtful way. I didn't do anything bad to him, i feel he was just looking for an excuse to throw me out. He had been making unsensitive comments, like he didn't care if i was with him or not, that i was wasting his time, that he didn't have a reason to love me, he called me names. When i wanted to talk about how he was making me feel he ignored me. We have had a lot of fights, and after he would tell me he didn't mean all the nasty things, that he said them because he was hurt. That made me go after him every time this would happen. I didn't want to lose him over a stupid fight. Even if it wasn't my fault. But now i think he really wants to get rid of me. I think he's just bored with me. I haven't done anything for him to hate me so much,or to 'deserve' to be treated badly. It kills me to leave things like this, should i try to talk to him? what should i say?

2007-03-03 04:56:30 · 3 answers · asked by jade 2 in Singles & Dating

And if so, which is better?

2007-03-03 04:56:01 · 1 answers · asked by brunettebabe 2 in Singles & Dating

Which is more of a turn-off for men, a woman with a perfect body but a bad self image or a woman with an okay body but is comfortable in her own skin and doesn't worry about her imperfections?

2007-03-03 04:54:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here's a small sampling:
** Is it OK to have a mistress on the side?
** Do you wanna be my friend?
** Who like chips?

2007-03-03 04:54:24 · 9 answers · asked by Wisdom??? 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm definitely going to say yes but i need the reasons to support my paper.

2007-03-03 04:54:22 · 11 answers · asked by iwonder 4 in Family

What's the financial liability if wife is working?

2007-03-03 04:52:46 · 4 answers · asked by henpecked 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me n my best friend have known eachother for the past three years. we have been obsessed with eachother up to the point where we'd go everywhere together, we lived at eachotherz houses cuz our momz r best friendz too...but now...she chills with this other gurl more than me...that other gurl talks **** about me 24/7 n i hate that...one dai i while i was supposed to be at skool but i wasnt...they went to a coffee shop n hung out....eventually they decided to call me dere n when i got there i saw that they had already paid n they called me just cuz i had a car n so that i'd take them to that gurlz place...after that they made a plan they were gonna go to my other gurlz place, sarah the next dai assuming that i'd take them...but i didnt want to...i was so hurt...that gurl fully replaced me...n spent the whole week in my bed crying cuz i wud do anything for her....i told her how i felt n told her i dun think we can be friendz anymore...she denies ignoring me n everything....

2007-03-03 04:52:45 · 5 answers · asked by p 1 in Friends

she is going back to florida! what should she do?

2007-03-03 04:52:21 · 7 answers · asked by houston_grain_gripper 1 in Friends

she usually wet like a river , last night kind of dry, I asked her you didnt in the mood , she replied " no , I GOT THE ORGASM"

I am confused .

2007-03-03 04:52:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

all the time she gets #'s of ppl that she realy likes and then next thing u no they say they like me and not her. i don't try to
what should i do i hate it when she gets mad at me

2007-03-03 04:51:48 · 7 answers · asked by Rebecca C 1 in Friends

We have been seperated for over a year. I haven't really dated. I have young children and work full-time so not a lot of opportunity and it just seemed wrong to go out looking so soon. I'm finding myself very lonely and thinking about trying to make it work. He still wants to. The problem is that I just don't feel anything for him. I don't want to put him or the kids through on again off again. But "until death do us part", maybe I should just resign myself to letting him back and maybe the marriage won't be so empty the next time. What do you think? Help

2007-03-03 04:51:11 · 5 answers · asked by Sleepless in Seattle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

should i tell him that i'm scared that he will leave me again?

because a few days ago he broke up with me, and it was a feeling i never want again. we got back together a couple hours later after talking and yelling and whatnot. im so happy i'm back together with him, but im scared he will break my heart again..

should i tell him how i feel... how should i say it...

2007-03-03 04:50:47 · 14 answers · asked by answer! this 3 in Singles & Dating

i have this 49 page chat transcript from my ex hubbys new girl pumping me for info and showing her jelaous stalker side. should i mail it to ex hubby ?? Jus to make him hate the *****?

2007-03-03 04:50:40 · 9 answers · asked by lady26 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Just please serious answers!)
Im 17 yrs old but for me always been attractive just men who more older than me. I don't think it's wrong, because people must trust their feelings, but i wanted to ask you can man who more older love more younger girl?...
I hope it will be sincerely answer)
But all opinions are welcome.

2007-03-03 04:50:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I left my boyfriend and he is saying he is gonna call the cops for takeing my kid with me when i left. What can i do about this? What are the laws in pennsylvania like on this matter? Thank you sooooo much

2007-03-03 04:49:33 · 1 answers · asked by happyman82385 5 in Family

I am dating a nice girl, formerly my girlfriend and we are trying again, but now she recently started dating someone else also. Both guys know about the other, but we recently found out we both have been sleeping at her house but neither of us are having sex with her. She claims she is trying to decide who she wants and does not know what to do but to continue to date us both till she makes her mind up. Both he and I want more from her, but she seems to be holding us both at bay and kind of playing us against each other claiming she is confused and trying to make her mind up. Is she worth sticking with to see if I prevail?

2007-03-03 04:49:22 · 3 answers · asked by Bruce V 1 in Singles & Dating

Well..I have a problem with my boyfriend
I haven't talked to him in 2 days and I haven't seen him in almost 2 week's...
We got into an argument about him not talking to me as much as he used too
He said he hasen't been talking to me latly because he said he has some family issues and he agreed he was being a doche to me.
Now..he dosen't even call or txt me any more
And im waiting for him to call/txt me..so I can see if he truly cares or not..I don't know if he is cheating on me..
Please help...that will be wonderful
thanks<3

2007-03-03 04:47:06 · 3 answers · asked by sk8terchic 2 in Singles & Dating

as far as men using women, and women using men.

2007-03-03 04:45:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well me and dis guy slept together, i took his virginity and i got pregnant, and i couldnt find him it was something lke a one night stand, well i went and had de abortion but never told him is that wrong????

2007-03-03 04:45:19 · 12 answers · asked by ripmandy4ever 1 in Singles & Dating

why cant other people justa respekt me hubby?????? whenever we goes into mall or stores or somethin,,,,,,,,,,every1 just stop n look n stair @ him!!!!!! i no he a lill bit large,,,,,,but why they so RUDED????????? they makes funned of him n talk bout his gut that dont quite fit into his shirt no more!!!!! why r they so meen?????

2007-03-03 04:45:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-03 04:44:41 · 3 answers · asked by dashaela e 1 in Family

ok i have a friend who is tottaly wat u call "gorgeous" i mean she is s0o0 pretty and so am i ... but today theres a big party that my b.f.f is throwing and im taking my boyfriend. I knoe that if she goes shes going to be all up on him beacuse well she kind of a ho.e. And i knoe my boyfriend would be all up on her also. so wat my question is ,if that should i let her go. i can easily just convise my b.f.f. to not let her go beacuse my b.f.f. doesnt really like her that much. u knoe why? beacuse she kissed her boyfriend. yes im telling u she is very slu.tie s0o0o plzzz help me! i mean i have so much fun with her but when it comes to guys... she can be such a biatch!!!

2007-03-03 04:44:03 · 15 answers · asked by janet 1 in Singles & Dating

I guess what The Secret is all about it conditioning your brain which then changes your feelings for different ideas/sudbjects/love. What I am asking is can you make yourelf fall in love with someone then?

If they say you can make your feeligns change then wouldnt it work for making yourself fall in love???

2007-03-03 04:43:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-03 04:43:20 · 17 answers · asked by chempath82 1 in Singles & Dating

I need advise plz

2007-03-03 04:43:20 · 9 answers · asked by Nichole 2 in Family

DOESNT ANYONE LIKE ME???????

2007-03-03 04:43:10 · 2 answers · asked by MAYAAAAAAA 1 in Singles & Dating

"The day's just beginning, you see the girl you love, you don't know what to do or say, you're friends, you talk to eachother everyday, on the phone, computer, etc, you're walking with her, talking, laughing, having the time of your life, the sun hits ya, you smile at her she smiles at you, it's time to say goodbye, you hug and walk off, you're walking, past places where we played as kids, later you talk to eachother, time's ending, you say you'll see eachother tomorrow, you know what, you're in goddamn love, is there anything else better in the world"

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2007-03-03 04:42:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-03 04:42:32 · 3 answers · asked by tony t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

.. are you glad or wish he/she is a bit more possessive?

2007-03-03 04:42:30 · 4 answers · asked by Muffin 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-03 04:41:30 · 13 answers · asked by GUMMY 1 in Friends