Family & Relationships - 3 March 2007

Instead of bad mouthing me she is calling friends and sobbing over the new Motorola Razr ( probably to use up the minutes ) with its sexy ringtone and saying she might have AIDS and she has no idea where she got it from. The whole town knows we were an item recently and her behavior is scaring other gals away from me, who are maintaining a safe distance, with a "No parking in rear" sign, like my wand is radioactive. One gal even asked me if AIDS was like flu when I sneezed. Leave alone dating gals, I cant cough in peace, I cant sneeze in peace, I cant yawn in peace the only bodily function I have been able to get away with publicly recently, that too when incognito was when passing wind. Under the circumstances my boxers are perpetually energized with no available outlet. Do you folks have any suggestion as to how to counter this story or clear my name so that gals start looking at me with renewed vigor? Should I leave town and start grazing in greener pastures or should I stay put ?

2007-03-03 04:25:20 · 22 answers · asked by Kaliyug Ka Plato 3 in Marriage & Divorce

because i mean i`m not bragging or anything but i`m not ugly and i`ve seen these guys at my school who go out with these ugly chicks but never redheads. do ya`ll have something against us?

2007-03-03 04:24:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was married for 12 years and I have two small boys 7&9. About 3 years ago I developed a gambling addiction and spent nearly 40k on our credit cards. My husband had no idea because I paid the bills. When he did find out he almost divorced me but he helped me and we had to file for bankruptcy. Then about 4 months ago I started an affair with the football and wrestling coach where I work. I work in the cafeteria at my kids school. When my husband found out he told me that he would have done anything in the world to keep me in his life. But the pull towards my lover was to strong and he divorced me. Now I'm having money problems because my husband got a good attorney and gets the boys 50 percent of the time. I recieve no alimoney and no child support. And to top it off I'm starting to write bad checks because I need gas to get to my boyfriends house. What do you think of me am I a good person?

2007-03-03 04:24:27 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why does he flirt with other girls except me?
their is this boy whos 15 and im 14 ive fancied him for a long time and we are good mates and everything but im shy of him and hes shy of me because he knows i fancy him and he seems to get embarrassed he flirts with other girls except me i mean he talks to me and helps me with stuff but when we are alone he doesnt talk to me if i see h walking on the way to school he looks allover the play he actually smiled at me for along time once, i kind of made a mistake by telling everyone i fancy him and everyone says hes not worth it that he doesnt like me in that way and he will never like me in that way, if i speak to him on msn sometimes he speaks to me and sometimes he goes offline we find it hard to talk to each other and he hardly speaks but hes nice if i say hi to him he will say hi back and when he sees me he doesnt usually smile that much, i dont know what to do should i move on because its reall hard for m to ask him out or wat.

2007-03-03 04:23:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a girl friend who always give excuses for sex but when i start don,t want to let me go.

2007-03-03 04:23:39 · 4 answers · asked by lovely 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been having s*x with my first cousin. he lives with his gf, I was wondering if he loves me or just using me to have fun. He once said he loved me while making love. Is he telling me the truth ?

2007-03-03 04:22:52 · 24 answers · asked by Bunnie in Canada 1 in Friends

My boyfriend well i guess hes my ex boyfriend now called me last night and it started out a good conversation but then there was a pause and he was like he needed a break with us and i was like are u breakin up with me and he was like kinda then i called him baq later and i was like u act like u dont care and he was like cause i dont but we werent having ANY problems it came outta no where and im so hurt and confused....

2007-03-03 04:22:23 · 7 answers · asked by jaz091 1 in Singles & Dating

I loved the late 70's, it was all about fun.

2007-03-03 04:21:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-03 04:20:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been having a problem with a cluster of friends, that I used to hang out with ALL the time...well not so much anymore. And they are all in different groups of friends. I am always like the 3rd wheel to groups because I don't have any REAL like close group of friends like people have from highschool. All my friends from highschool moved away, and when I was in college, all of those friends were from out of town because I went to a college out of town. Anyway, it seems as though I get alot of jealousy towards me from certain friends. And once I got my insurance job, it seemed like they stopped talking to me for some reason. But I was having problems with them before that even. Like a friend of mine seemed to get jealous that guys would come up to me and not her, and that sparked a jealousy that has just gone down hill from there. I didn't think I was stunning like a supermodel, but that's what they say or reference to, so I don't get it. Like it almost makes me feel insecure.

2007-03-03 04:19:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i'm 16, my sis 19(in uni) but she acts so childish and rude! i'm beginning to think that she has some mental problem or maybe she was like this ever since she was young, i cant remember much. Anyways, everytime i try to advice and comfort her she keeps saying "Dont give me a lecture!" how the hell am i suppose to be there for her when she doesn't appreciate? she bothers a lot and is getting really anoying, living with her... i want her to understand that she has to change and if she doesnt wanna get therapy then the second best thing is her family, but she doesnt understand... i dont give her a lecture, i just say what i think is the best! if not me, then who else.. there is noone that she talks to. Anyone got any tips on what i should do/say? i mean i love her and so do we all but we just dont understand why she has such a bad attitude and she closes up, that's makes it even harder to understand. I want her to realize that i say things because i love and i care, i said that a lot!

2007-03-03 04:18:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

There are two haircuts I just love and I don't know which one is best. One of them is a picture of one of the Top Model girls with her new makeover, which looks gorgeous. The other is a picture of Kirsten Dunst. Help me choose!

Kirsten Dunst:

http://img5.allocine.fr/img_cis/images/f...

Top Model (Megg)

http://www.cwtv.com/page/topmodel_episod...

Please go to picture 18/24, look for the long curly brown hair.

So now that you've seen the photos, in general which one is prettier? Why do you think so?

2007-03-03 04:18:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 4 years threw me out of his house. He said he would have shoved me out, but didn´t for the sake of his parents, who were there. It all started cause he would call me names and be mean for no reason. I asked him to stop it and he wouldn´t listen. He said that he's not going to change the way he speaks for me. In frustration, i pulled him to the bed with me. I don't know for what purpose, i just wanted to hold him and for him to snap out of it, cause he was being selfish and unreasonable. He accused me of being a hitter and brought up the times that i have slapped him on the thigh. I´ve done this too after he keeps repeating hurtful things and won't listen. He on the other hand, has slapped me for telling him not to be nasty to me. Neither of us hit eachother hard. But it's not playful. I want to talk to him, but last time he acted like he didn't care at all what i thought or felt, and said i was wasting his time. It's been days and it's killing me.

2007-03-03 04:16:27 · 3 answers · asked by jade 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you think its weird for a guy to own three mannequins in his room? IF you were dating this guy and went into his room and saw these three mannequins what would you think??? Just curious others opinion... Thanks

2007-03-03 04:16:08 · 17 answers · asked by starrynightbreeze2005 2 in Singles & Dating

Im 17 weeks pregnant and me and my husband just havent had any sex for a couple weeks..the reason being is he gets it when he wants it but when i want it we dont have it so i have been telling him no now that he is asking me.

The thing is our sex is outdated,he pleases me and the sex is good when we have it but we dont have it enough maybe like 2 every 2 weeks *i would like it at least every other day* we dont kiss,no forplay,just sex and then thats it...i like the music,kissing,neck kissing,all that good stuff. how do i get my husband to be more attentive to my needs and be sexier in the bedroom? thanks

2007-03-03 04:15:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-03 04:14:28 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

When I was dating my now husband. He bought a Topco sex swing for Valentines day last year. That is my suggestion, If you did, it would be day he would never forget. I experienced my first big - O, it was amazing, so I just had to marry him.

From this woman's point of view the swing we got made my butt sore. It was like sitting on a swing at the playground. It made my legs go a little numb. I guess from a man's point of view. well lets say the point of view is what counts to him :)

I have been asking about the RHW swing I seen on ebay. The RockHer World Swing looks like it is built more from the woman's point of view. Looks like this is the one we are going to get next. It just looks so comfy. Here is the link to the one I seen.

http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&ih=014&sspagename=STRK%3AMESE%3AIT&viewitem=&item=330094412707&rd=1&rd=1

Dose any one have the RHW Swing

2007-03-03 04:14:04 · 5 answers · asked by Janes momy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-03 04:12:43 · 10 answers · asked by robben 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a dilemma with my boyfriend and I making time for our relationship. We have been together for about nine months now and we have a lot in common. We both went to the same high school together almost during the same years and we both work for the same employers at a very large hospital with multiple office locations scattered about the city. He is a registered nurse and Im a clerical associate. When we met it was a blind date and we suddenly started feeling each other and we love each other alot. At first we really didnt spend a lot of time with each other at first but we would spend maybe a day a week together or so. But he now goes to school to further is career and he has to take extra shifts at the hospital and doing home visits because of the extreme nursing shortage. He's very depressed that he is guilty that we dont spend time with each other because of his demanding career. Im a little depressed about it too, but I told him that I understand and there really isnt much he can do on his end. We stillk talk on the phone a few days a week and visit each other a few times a month but he cant just say to his employer that I cant do extra shifts because they will indeed fire him on the spot. And he also is a full-time student his grades are starting to slip because he's strapped on time on getting his assignmentsout handed in on time and he has fallen behind seriously. The reason he is a student is because he wants to further his career and become a nurse practioner with better hours and more freedom. I am willing to work out a compromise with him and work out something together like soon move in together and possible getting married. I believe in him and I know he's not playing games with me and every time I talk to my younger girlfriends about it they seem to always have to come up with some excuse why he is no good. He called me and expressed his frustrations with me and try to arrange something. I love him and would not abandon him and in a way its making our relationship much stronger because of our absence from each other.He has had previous relationships that his girlfriends ended up breaking up withg him, but Im willing to keep myself busy with other things that it doesn't affect me in a huge huge way and Im willing to wait. Any suggestions to make him feel more at ease?

2007-03-03 04:12:43 · 1 answers · asked by bluerose 2 in Singles & Dating

By my new girlfriend and now she says we are over.
How can I straighten it out with her?

2007-03-03 04:12:28 · 8 answers · asked by John 1 in Singles & Dating

- he was on drugs at the time, but is clean and has been paying his child support regularly- how does he go about getting his license back in Mass or if he moves to another state- this is making him have a hard time getting and keeping work.

2007-03-03 04:12:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-03 04:12:10 · 7 answers · asked by Inneed 2 in Singles & Dating

sleep with your mum or sister for £1000 ?
if so will a cheque be ok ?

2007-03-03 04:11:31 · 11 answers · asked by gundaewooagain 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i cancerlled mine to saave money its going off in a couple days. what am i gonna do with my time now?

2007-03-03 04:11:27 · 12 answers · asked by lady26 5 in Singles & Dating

i cannot talk him about it,he loves me alot.im the only girl in his life now,bt im not sure if he want me for marriage or not!!

2007-03-03 04:11:13 · 4 answers · asked by sogol s 1 in Singles & Dating

I meet the most beautiful kinedst woman i get into a relationship and the relationshp is good then all of a sudden i think for some reaseon the relationship isint right so i leave it because deep down in my mind i want the perfect relationship but i do know there is no such thing as the perfect relationship. its as if i think i can do beter its reallyu anoyeing how do i settle down for a bit without getting this feeling

2007-03-03 04:11:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you were really very attracted to someone with whom you work, would you go for it or would you pass up being involved and decide that it wasn't worth jeapordizing your working relationship?

2007-03-03 04:10:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok ..so basically the thing is my boyfriend sucks at kissing.. Im so great at it though.. The first time we kissed he bout ate my whole face and it was so disgusting. My first thought was like am i doin something wrong or what?I told him about it an he thought i was joking bcuz every other gf he had says he was a great kisser.. i never really thought there was a such thing as a bad kisser until i kissed him.. i really like him but i jus cant stand it anymore.. i know kissing not the most important thing in a relationship but he really needs to learn how b4 he kisses me again. if i had to rate him on a scale of 1-10 i would give him a 2.plz help!

2007-03-03 04:10:20 · 6 answers · asked by ~*Ericka~* 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I do not want to hurt her but it just happend.

2007-03-03 04:10:08 · 15 answers · asked by softloveboo 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-03 04:09:01 · 13 answers · asked by wsxt 1 in Singles & Dating