I walk the lonely Road never being satisfied in the relationships i get myself into?

Question

I meet the most beautiful kinedst woman i get into a relationship and the relationshp is good then all of a sudden i think for some reaseon the relationship isint right so i leave it because deep down in my mind i want the perfect relationship but i do know there is no such thing as the perfect relationship. its as if i think i can do beter its reallyu anoyeing how do i settle down for a bit without getting this feeling

there is a void i am tryin g to fill that no one seems to fill

Answer 1

hey, I did that for years thinking their was going to be someone a little prettier or nicer or sweeter!! I blew off some great women that I would have a had a great relationship with because I figured I would find someone on the other side of the fence!! And believe me the grass is not greener there!! Don't screw up like I did

Answer 2

Dude,,

3 things could be happening

First your “life history” may be haunting you? Parent’s get divorced? Friends get divorced? have you see others close to you (in your past) experience a series of failed relationships ?? (expecting a future disaster so to prevent heartache you sabotage your relationships)

2nd possible issue,, Family- close loved one’s have what you see as “perfect relationship”?? Which is what you expect?? (completely unrealistic expectations)

3rd issue,, since this has happened so many times possibly you don’t feel you deserve to truly have happiness, commitment, etc.. with a woman ?? ( low self-esteem)

There may be more issues but these are the more common ones. IF one of these explanations hit the mark,,, tackle the issue and overcome it!! You’re cheating yourself out of life !!

Answer 3

There are no perfect people in the world but all it takes is time and dating to find out who you really want to be with. I'm sure your other relations were with beautiful, kind women but obvviously there is something that was missing when you were dating them. As you get older and more experience, you'll likely to discover what you really want from a woman in a relationship.

Answer 4

that is because your looking for someone else to fill the spot--when the hole is in you. People who have good relationships don't try to fill a hole----they look to find a person that they enjoy being around and to share themselves. You have a hole---hard to share a void. Get counseling and find out what you are missing.

Answer 5

Yaa may well be, it particularly is predicated upon onlookers what they sense approximately me. high quality much less individual like me is often jogging miracle interior the eyes of others. i've got faith it yet others comprehend it. i'm lip sealed approximately myself yet others can rather talk and supply their feedback for me. in basic terms 2 individual would be jogging miracles in my opinion. a million. a alluring loving and clever woman. and a pair of A ugli ignorant and egoist guy. thank you.

Answer 6

Begin a relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ first. He will guide all of your other relationships. Only He can fill your longing for the PERFECT relationship.

Answer 7

Every love has its heartbreak. just stick with it , me and my boyfriend broke up tons of times because we werent sure but now we live together have 2 kids and are happy

Answer 8

change your attitude dude.try living by the following wise words.
' I went out and looked for a friend but found none but when i went out and was a friend i found lots'

Answer 9

Your answer is in God's Word...

John 8:37,38 "Anyone who is thirsty may come to me! Anyone who believes in me may come and drink! For the Scriptures declare, 'Rivers of living water will flow from his heart.' "

Jesus is the Living Water that will quench your thirst for all things.

Psalm 34:8 "Taste and see that the Lord is good."