My boyfriend of 4 years threw me out of his house. He said he would have shoved me out, but didn´t for the sake of his parents, who were there. It all started cause he would call me names and be mean for no reason. I asked him to stop it and he wouldn´t listen. He said that he's not going to change the way he speaks for me. In frustration, i pulled him to the bed with me. I don't know for what purpose, i just wanted to hold him and for him to snap out of it, cause he was being selfish and unreasonable. He accused me of being a hitter and brought up the times that i have slapped him on the thigh. I´ve done this too after he keeps repeating hurtful things and won't listen. He on the other hand, has slapped me for telling him not to be nasty to me. Neither of us hit eachother hard. But it's not playful. I want to talk to him, but last time he acted like he didn't care at all what i thought or felt, and said i was wasting his time. It's been days and it's killing me.
2007-03-03 04:16:27 · 3 answers · asked by jade 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This situation is very sad, but maybe you need to take some time for yourself and allow him to have some time too. Sometimes only space will allow people to put things back into perspective and move forward.
Good Luck
2007-03-03 04:20:37 · answer #1 · answered by LifesAMystery 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throwing you out is a little more drastic then shoving you out but not as bad as "kicking" you out!! You should have spanked him instead of slapping him on the thigh!! i know he would have loved to have been spanked!! The moral is.... "spanking is much more loving than hitting"
2007-03-03 12:26:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to be with a man who treats you bad? He's never going to change. You can't change him, 4 years has proven that to you.
2007-03-03 12:20:58 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋