Family & Relationships - 3 March 2007

to care? to listen? your O, other?

2007-03-03 04:08:52 · 4 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for +1.5 years. He doesn't say "I love you" all the time, but he calls a couple of times a day. He's a police officer and calls me at the end of his shift so that I don't worry. He's helping me do improvements on my place. He's fixed my car & given me car repair lessons. And he's asked me to plan a small vacation for us next month.

I know he loves me, but I find it interesting that he uses actions instead of words (this is new to me) and it's amazing how much more it means.

So, is this how men show love? If so, it's great!

2007-03-03 04:08:44 · 6 answers · asked by LifesAMystery 3 in Singles & Dating

I split wit the love of my life 5 months ago,we were really in love. She dumped me cus she thought i didnt trust her cus of a message she got,it was sent by my sis but i took the blame cus of family probs in r house. I near died wit a wee prob and my mum had a cancer scare. She was upset i didnt tell the truth. She went in2 depression wen we split. I wanted 2 tell her but she wudnt speak 2 me, she emailed me recently,shes wit a new guy,she told me she likes him but not in love yet,she still loves me and always will. She said she cant go bak 2 me cus she wont trust me after this but wants me as a friend. Wat do i do cus i really love her,id rather b died than live witout her, i know i can win her trust round,quite quickly,please help me guys. Ive 2 emil her bak any tips???? Ive found out her new fella is only 16 and shes a 20 year old uni student,r friends r disgusted in her and find it sick but i still love her

2007-03-03 04:08:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really like him....will he hate me after knowing that its me..but he has promised that whoever i m he wont hate me at all...should i tell him the truth?

2007-03-03 04:06:47 · 9 answers · asked by ss 1 in Singles & Dating

I decided to go back to school years ago and I have a dear friend who feels left out of my life. I can't meet her demands of the friendship because my life has changed. She trying to hold on to the old me. My friend has been there thick and thin but I change mentally and l am loosing some weight and trying to grow more spiritually. If I ask her for more space she will be offended becasue another person in her life also ask her to do that and she was offended. I love her and she needs alot attention I can't give her. The worst part is we work together and she is making waves at work. I not a witch I am really busy these days. I have 7 grandchildren and I go to school almost full time and work about 30 hrs a week. She has told me in the past she gets upset when I talk to others. I want her to make other friends and I don't want to hurt anyone . Please some insight.

2007-03-03 04:06:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i made one of my family members go to tears by saying something cruel to them- it just slipped!!! i don't know how to apologize to them without making it akward.... and yes, i know it was mean and everything, but please don't tell me that i shouldn't have done it in the first place!

2007-03-03 04:05:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-03 04:04:41 · 11 answers · asked by Katie R 1 in Friends

there is a boy in my class and he always trys to flurt with me and I think he likes me but he might just be trying to get on my last nerve.what do you think?

2007-03-03 04:04:20 · 11 answers · asked by kcs 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel as im shy sometimes people wont give me the chance to let them get to know me and that they dont know how to cope. Due to this i find it hard making friends

2007-03-03 04:04:16 · 11 answers · asked by joanne100uk 1 in Friends

We have been friends for 6 years and never had romantic feelings for each other. Her husband told her that he cheated on her, she was devastated and we started to spend more time with each other. Somehow we started to develop romantic feelings and expressed them to one another. She's in a process of divorcing her husband, I would like to do the same because my husband deserves to be with someone who truly loves him. We both would like to live together but the problem is we both have kids and are concerned how it will affect them and the rest of our family. My husband found out about us but he still wants to stay married. What should we do? Is it possible for my best friend and I to just stay friends for our kids sake? Should I stay married to my husband even though I'm in love with someone else?

2007-03-03 04:04:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay heres how it started....so the boy that i like i told him that i like him a lot and he thinks the same thing so then we started going out for year but before that he always talks to me and smiles at me whenever he sees me but a year later he starts acting wierd.....

2007-03-03 04:03:58 · 1 answers · asked by Just loved myself 1 in Singles & Dating

It seemed kind of weird at first, but it doesn't bother me that much. I really love him and he doesn't seem to have any other hangups. What should I do?

2007-03-03 04:03:43 · 12 answers · asked by Linda M 1 in Singles & Dating

that is 8 years older than her and she said " my mom wont care because my mom and dad are 12 years apart." what should she do?

2007-03-03 04:03:41 · 1 answers · asked by Shortie2013 1 in Singles & Dating

I fancy this girl and I like rushed it without flirting or anything I just like asked her out so what do I do now? Help me I really want to go out with her!

2007-03-03 04:02:32 · 7 answers · asked by Ash 2 in Singles & Dating

Would you rather have a girl who isn't the best looking girl and have someone who cares about you, or would you rather have a girlfriend who cares about her looks and is really hott? just wonderig and please don't say both?...

2007-03-03 04:02:11 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It’s been 9 months since we’ve split up after we went out for 3 months. She told me two months into our relationship that she loved me. She dumped me after some guy tried to take her back to his hotel room while she was out with friends. When she dumped me she told me she loved me but she wasn’t in love with me.

I really care about her so even though I didn’t understand why she dumped me I accepted her decision because I want her to be happy. Since then we have been seeing each other and snogging and having sex. However after this happens she gets very upset and tells me that we cannot be together.

There are lots of occasions when I’ve been there for her without us snogging and having sex. A few days ago she told me that she didn’t want me to stay over any more or hold her or touch her.

We haven’t spoken for a while and I am at a loss about what to do because I really miss her but I don’t want to make her upset anymore. She’s upset and won’t say why. Any advice appreciated

2007-03-03 04:02:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everyone asks us if we are going out but we always say no..then we look at each other and smile. We go everywhere together, mall, movies, dinner, lunch, school (5 out of 8 classes with him, and we sit by each other in every last one, including lunch) We hangout every weekend. I sometimes go to his house too. We smack each others butts, sometimes give hugs, walk to class together (we DONT hold hands tho.)

These are some signs I think he is showing:
1) he gave me his phone to take home with me to take pic of myself
2) he smiles a lot
3) he goes wherever i want(even if he really doesnt want to, like the mall)
4) touches me a lot (smacks my butt, gives me hugs, plays around a lot)
5)goes out to dinner, movies, other places
6) talks on the phone for hours at a time
7) smiles when other people ask us if we are going out
8) makes great eye contact.

BUT:::
1) he said he might like this other girl..could he be saying that so he can see my reaction so he can see if i like him?

2007-03-03 04:02:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriuend of @ a year and I went on an amazing 10 day vacation together. When we returned we were apart for a week and he just said the above when I shared my feelings with him. I should say that although we often talk in terms of future things we will do together, that we have never said"I love you". I am dying to, but I am afraid. Is it me, or was that response odd? Do you htink he has feelings for me or not?

2007-03-03 04:02:00 · 4 answers · asked by auntgrace 1 in Singles & Dating

When I reply to a wedding or shower invitation with a money gift card, is it ok to inquire after a few weeks if it was received when there is no thank you note. I hate to think that I leave the wrong impression and ignored the occasion . Please advise.Thank You.

2007-03-03 04:00:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

this guy has asked me out on a date for a few times but I havent given him an answer yet...and he told me that im somekind of high maintenance girl. what does he mean by that?

2007-03-03 04:00:05 · 15 answers · asked by kittytie 2 in Singles & Dating

How old where you when you had your first kiss?

2007-03-03 04:00:03 · 2 answers · asked by Patrik S 2 in Singles & Dating

lately i think that my bestfriend got mad at me...but i dunno why she mad at me....i sent many e-mails..asked her why..but she didnt even reply any e-mail.....i dunno why....
n she's gonna have a birthday on 9th this march....i doubt to congrats her,,,,,confuse.....afraid too...
now...what should i do then???

thx....

2007-03-03 04:00:02 · 4 answers · asked by drey 2 in Friends

do u think i m good looking for a guy

2007-03-03 03:59:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend never talks to me should we beak up

2007-03-03 03:59:14 · 8 answers · asked by Lets go 2 Candy Mt. Charlie!!!! 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months, and he was unemployed from the moment I met him. This meant lots of free time together over the summer. Then he went to college and came back not soon afterwards. We started seeing each other daily when I started college and my new job.

Last week, he was hired on the spot by my boss in Menomonee Falls (my boss owns six separate car dealerships). He's going to be working 60 hours a week, thus leaving me to get used to not having him around. I ended up yelling at him twice already because I feel left out and alone. It doesn't help that I've been feeling under the weather for an entire week, and my nerves are shot. Is it normal for me to feel this way?

2007-03-03 03:59:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

last nite my oldest sister had a baby but they wanted to name it bocephus. and i was like no. well actualy i had the baby. anyways and they told they would move to another country if this baby was named bocephus.. so i didnt really care and went and named it that. now my kids named gets on my nerves. wat to do

2007-03-03 03:59:03 · 7 answers · asked by rawr 3 in Friends

We have a child together and we have never not been seeing eachother. He also has another child which he kept secret from me. I found out from a friend of mine. He got married last summer and kept that from me too. Which I also found out from a friend. He even put our kid in the wedding and I never knew about it. He says he loves us both and has to be with her for there kid. I feel horrible about it but its been going on for over 2 years now.

2007-03-03 03:58:38 · 4 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

two days ago my fg sais that she is not getting enough frm me and left me alone it was a break up..but today she sent me a txt msg that she hs realized what real love is and she needs me and she loves me....im confused what i hv to do now ...accept or reject...

2007-03-03 03:58:06 · 12 answers · asked by gaf 3 in Singles & Dating

My sister is almost 16 yrs old. She is rude & talks back to my mom and grandma. I want to smack her everytime I see her. She makes me so mad. We use to be close. Well I try to be close to her & I will do anything in the world for her. I take her to eat & buy her stuff every now & then. My mom tries to help her & give advice (she is head over hills for this guy but after 7 months he broke up with her but is still coming around-so not sure if he is using her). She is stressed out over this so my mom is trying to help & they argue all the time. It makes me not want to be around them. Sunday we all went to the mall & they got into an argument over a prom dress. Then I had to curse my sister out. Then I felt guilty but I feel like it was the right thing to do. I am starting to dislike her more & more especially the way she talks to my mom. That is my mom too & I will not tolerate it. My mom needs to start getting on her & stop trying to be her friend. My husband isn't close to her anymore.

2007-03-03 03:57:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-03 03:55:53 · 8 answers · asked by Amy 1 in Weddings